 What's up you guys, welcome to the Single Guy Channel, I'm Lloyd and today we're going to be talking about how to know if a girl is interested in you. So let's say you're out at a bar, or you're out at a party, or maybe you're out at a place like this. We're here in downtown San Jose in Santana Roe. How do you know if a girl is interested in you? Because a lot of guys, they think that the problem is opening, but if you've been doing this for a little bit, you know that the biggest problem is not opening. The biggest problem is that 30 minute conversation to nowhere, where you basically just wasted both your times, because she had a boyfriend or something. Maybe she liked your attention, maybe she enjoyed talking to you, but she wasn't interested. So how do you know if a girl is actually interested in you? Well, there's no 100% surefire way to know, but the closest thing to it is to, is basically you want to move and see if she moves with you. So try and move her. What I mean by that is, let's say you're talking in kind of a crowded area, and you say, hey, I'm going to go get a drink at the bar, do you want to come with? And she follows you. That's a great indicator of interest right there. I mean, people are going to say things with their words, they're going to say, oh, you know, you're cool, that's awesome, talk is cheap, but it's less likely, it's much less likely that they're going to lie with their actions. And when she goes with you to someplace, that's saying that she likes you enough that she's going to trust this random person that she just met to go someplace else. I mean, if she does that and leaves her friends, I don't know of a better sign that a girl is into you than that. I mean, most of my game when I go out is I'll just meet a girl, try and get logistics, and then I'll try and move her. I'll try and see if she moves with me. If a girl moves with me, if a girl moves with me from one part of the bar to another, and then if she leaves the bar with me, and then if she goes to another bar with me, then it's very likely that she's going to leave back to my house with me, because she's followed me through all these different steps. But if you've been talking to a girl, you can't just immediately say, hey, do you want to come home with me and see if she does. Try to take baby steps and see where you go from there. So I usually use the line, hey, I'm going to go get a drink at the bar. Do you want to come with? Or I also will say, hey, it's getting kind of crowded here. Why don't we go to some place else where it's a little quieter and go to a place that's at the bar that's less, you know, there's less people walking through or whatever. Or I'll say, or I'll even do this. This is a kind of an advanced one, too, where I'll actually take a step back and I'll see if she takes a step forward. If you take a step back and she just stays there, that she's probably cool in her own space. But it's not always 100%, but you might want to do some work there if she's not following you with that. So this actually happens all the time. I've been out, one time I was out in the marina, which is a part of San Francisco, where if you know anything about the marina, you know that there's a lot of pretty girls out, but the stereotype is they can be a little cold. And so I've been talking to this like hot girl for a while and it's been not, she's not giving me much. OK, so I've kind of leaned in to try and kiss her. She turned away. I tried to get closer and even touch her a little bit. She didn't, she wasn't with it. Our conversations were dying down. I would start a conversation, ask her about herself, and she would give me these one word answers. And so I'm trying to work with her and it's just, it's not going very well. So, and I know what to talk to girls and everything. So I'm thinking, all right, well, you know, I'm going to go to the bar. If she comes with me, then we'll see what happens. So I say, how am I going to get a drink at the bar? Do you want to come with? She follows me. I get a drink. She actually didn't even get anything. Then after that, I go to a different part of the bar. She follows me. Then after that, I go, I say, hey, I'm going to leave the bar and go to this other place. Do you want to come with me? And she came with me and left her friends. As soon as I found out that she left her friends, dude, I just said, hey, listen, I'm going to head back. You want to come with? And she followed me. But basically I had no other signs that she was going to sleep with me other than the fact that she kept following me. And that was enough to bring her home. So the next time you're talking to a girl and you've been talking to her for a long time and you're not sure how things are going, whether she's actually interested in you or not, move and see if she moves with you. All right, thanks a lot, you guys. If you made it to the end of this video, consider subscribing. I come out with videos like this every single week. And I'll try and get some more infield footage of me in places like this in the future. Thanks a lot and good luck out there, you guys.