 How to make the narcissist chase you you gave the narcissist everything they wanted They wanted you to change all of these things about yourself They wanted you to be committed to them. They wanted to be in a relationship with you and When you finally gave them what they wanted They lost interest in you. They no longer wanted to spend time with you They no longer wanted to have sex with you They started to chase other people It's like first they do everything they can to be admired by you but once they've got your attention and They know you're not going anywhere Then they want to be admired by anyone but you the reason why the narcissist loses interest in you Is because by giving them everything they wanted You have killed the mystery Narcissists want a puzzle they want a game toy or problem designed to test their ingenuity or knowledge They want something that is difficult to understand or explain But once you've given them what they want They know everything they need to know They've learned you Which then kills the mystery It kills the excitement the movies over They know how it's going to end So now it's time for them to leave the theatre They are no longer interested in you to make a narcissist chase you you have to keep them interested in you There needs to be a constant fantasy There needs to be ideas with no basis in reality There needs to be constant activity of imagining the possible and probable things Narcissists live in a fantasy They never want to experience reality They want to stay in their fantasy world and when you give them what they want You pull them out of that world and into reality with you And this will only cause them unhappiness and disappointment Because narcissists don't want to deal with reality They want to remain in their fantasy world They want the movie to go on until the day they die As they continue to investigate and solve or explain certain events they want to see new plot twists New drama new exciting emotional or unexpected events or circumstances Narcissists crave drama the reason why the narcissist loses interest in you is because you've given them the script of the movie People watching movie because they don't know what's going to happen and they don't know how it's going to end If they already know what's going to happen They don't need to see the movie when you give the narcissist what they want They don't need you anymore. They know everything they need to know about you They figured you out so the mystery has gone and the movie is over to make the narcissist chase you You have to keep them wanting more to make the narcissist chase you You have to keep them wanting more you have to keep them on an emotional rollercoaster Well, they don't know what's going to happen next Well, they don't know if there's going to be a high or low a Twist or a turn or if it's going to end That is how you keep them on the edge of their seats Waiting to see what happened what might happen next It's mysterious It's difficult for them to understand explain or identify it keeps them in a state of uncertainty Well, they are not completely sure of something Well, they don't know what's going to happen The relationships that end the quickest with the narcissist are those where they are satisfied Those where they get what they want Because once they've got what they wanted from you They don't need you anymore and now they're off to get what they want from someone else When you give the narcissist what they want from you They will lose interest in you They will no longer chase you because you don't have anything to offer them Once you've given them what they want, there's nothing left for them to see you've shown them everything you have There's no mystery to make the narcissist chase you You need to keep them wanting more you need to keep them in a state of anticipation Expectation and prediction if you give them what they want in the beginning There's no reason for them to perform. They've already got what they wanted. They're satisfied So now there's no reason for them to chase you There's no reason for them to give you what you want There's no reason for them to treat you any better than they already are and that is why these narcissists will often sabotage the relationship They will often punish you for giving them what they want They will punish you for satisfying them When you give the narcissist exactly what they want from you It will always end bad and you will always be left with nothing Thank you for watching. I hope this video read it with you Please like comment share and subscribe Click the bell icon to see the applications for my future videos if you like to donate My paypal link is in the video description Coach and inquiries you can do more than me at nagsfathercoachin at gmail.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon