 Hi, she was seven. I'm back. So you already know what I'm going to be talking about today. Yes Janet miss Jackson. If you nasty. Yes, she Got married to this billionaire Signed a prenup saying if she stayed for five years that she would get 500 million dollars. Okay, so five years and two months later She's leaving with her money. Okay, so Billionaires, you know, they understand the game. They already know What the deal is? That's why I say real men with real money. They don't sweat, you know 500 million dollars. Okay, especially when you're a billionaire. Okay, if you you know He said, okay, I want to marry Janet Jackson if this is what it's gonna take to get her This is what I want because you know, I can afford it So, you know, she tried y'all she tried she hung in there. She could not accept that culture She could not understand the strict rules of it and she was kind of just done Okay, when you grow up in America and you have all this money and freedom and Then you're you know, all of a sudden taken to a different country and most of those freedoms are taken away It's almost like being in prison but You leave with 500 million dollars, so Um She was very smart. Okay. I know she already had money But now she has even more money like her kids her Grandkids and her grandkids grandkids and her grandkids grandkids grandkids grandkids will be rich. Okay, so You know, I feel like she did something very smart and very good business moves. She tried, you know She you know, she has a thing for those pretty boys and And this time she left the deal with money. Okay, she learned from the last two She learned from the last two. Don't date broke men. Okay all the men that she were dating before didn't have much Okay, you know, they couldn't give her Well, she could give them So, you know, I know Her first husband was like a member of the debarge group or whatever, but they were young So I don't I don't really count that one. I would just count that for, you know Puppy love lessons, but then when she married her manager, you know, he was taking money from her and spending it on other women He was a pretty boy Then she had another Boyfriend, I think he was like a backup dancer. It was I don't even know if that was her. I don't even know who that was Anyway It didn't work out. So she finally wise up got her a man with some money and said look Yeah, he looks good. Yeah, he's pretty and he's rich. So if he doesn't work out, I'm still gonna get paid I'm gonna leave with something this time. Okay, so she did learn from her past mistakes and Look how it paid off. Literally look how it paid off. Okay So I'm pretty sure the next man she settles with if she ever gets married again because she probably won't Because you know, she has a child with that with that dude and he's a billionaire. So, you know You might have some connections somewhere and she might be afraid to date, you know what I mean? And I hope I hope that it's not like that For her and I hope she can move on but I feel like you know, it's gonna be hard You know this early. I'm trying to have my morning coffee and do this video at the same time but You know, the moral of the story is make smart and logical decisions When you are entering into a relationship so that when you leave You leave better off than you came. Okay. That is the whole point of Any type of relationship if you go in and leave with less you lost If you go in leaving with more you won doesn't matter who broke whose heart or whatever whatever at the end of the day If you left the relationship and you have more than you came in with you won, okay? Just remember that don't don't say oh, well I missed that person and they were my soulmate and I want them back if you left with more than you came in with you won if they left With more than they came in with they won if you leave equally, you know, it's a truce But try to get something out of it because what you lost was time and your youth Okay, and you can't buy that back That's not replaceable. So ladies if you're engaged to a man, don't give back that ring. Keep the ring. Okay Men if you got gifts from women keep the gifts, you know Time cannot be purchased back So whatever gifts whatever jewelry you got in the relationship. Keep it. Okay I don't care if you have this lie and say you lost it or whatever Keep it. Okay, because the gift is a gift and it's not required by law for you to give it back. Okay Some people will give it back out of oh, I don't need this Yeah, I don't love you anymore, but you can take that ring and go sell it and go shopping Okay, so if you just don't want the ring go sell it, you know give it to someone else Take the diamonds out and make something else with it. You know what I'm saying So don't get caught up in the principles of a breakup. Don't get caught up in the emotion of a breakup Think about it logically like if you're gonna break up with somebody don't just break up and you know Be homeless or break up and not prepared for it You know when you break up you should have money saved a new place to live a new man or a woman a New outfit for the day you go out after you break up. This is how you break up Okay, you got a break up in style. Okay, you can't just be all You know, and if they're if they break up with you, you should have that breakup stash on On hold, you know what I'm saying? What if they break up with you? Okay, you got your breakup next day break up day outfit when you going out You got your breakup day stash of money. You got the apartment you already liked You you've gotten approved for it already So, you know you can get in You know if you had to if you needed a few weeks to get it together and then you know You've already done the application. It's just a matter of when you're gonna move in or you know, you're approved So just something that you are fairly sure you can get into that apartment within a quick amount of time, you know Or you can move in with someone. I don't know But have all that plan in place. It's just kind of like your prenup for dating, you know, it's like If this doesn't work out, I'm still gonna be happy and I'm still gonna be good, I'm not gonna miss a beat y'all I'm just gonna be you know upgrading basically Already, you know, just already have in mind like if you want to change something about your looks your hair Just already have the new haircut you're gonna have in mind so that when the breakup does happen You're not so distraught. You're already thinking about the future like oh my god I get to go start this new life now. I'm so excited. I get this new haircut. I got this new outfit. I'm waiting to wear I got this new apartment. I'm gonna decorate, you know, that's how you think about breakups, okay? And if you're prepared for a breakup, it's not a big deal. It's like, okay, bye. See you You gonna miss this, you know, you're gonna miss me whatever But if you're trying to break up with a person and you know a lot of people ask me this Oh, what if what if I want to break up with somebody but they're living with me Okay, kick them out give them a 30-day notice and kick them out That's all you gotta do and form if you live in apartment and form the landlord That you want him out and take him off the lease. Okay, and if he's not on the lease then legally He can't be there. So oh, what about I don't want to be me. Well nice girls finish last, okay? So either you have to be strong and do what you need to do or suffer You know Another tip on how to get them to leave on their own stop cooking stop bringing groceries in the house eat out and don't bring them anything back Don't give them any money if they're you know, they want money You know Don't be home, you know always be gone go to your friend's house So that they kind of get the the clue like okay, she's not bringing no food in the house If they go grocery shopping, then you know still don't cook anything just like kind of go on strike Stop giving them sex stop washing dishes. Just make it unbearable to live there I know it might be hard for some of y'all clean freaks. Stop doing laundry Always be gone. Just stop doing everything and eventually they're okay. Take this no more. You don't cook You don't do anything. There's no food in the house. You never home. Okay. Well, there's a door Okay, if you're taking care of a man and you want them to leave because you're tired of the burden, but you're just too nice Pretend you lost your job And they'll be gone in a week y'all. It's like, oh my god, I lost my job How are we gonna pay the bills? How are we gonna pay the rent? We need to go find a job like tomorrow like like seriously They're gonna be like instead of finding a job, they're gonna be looking for a new place to live because they you know If they're a good man, they'll find a job if they don't have a job and they'll keep the job but Chances are if they're laying on your couch and you're taking care of them They they're gonna find a new place to live. Okay. Probably one of them girls They've been chatting up on facebook while you at work. Okay so Yeah, break up in style Don't be too nice Get more than you came in with that is the goal. Okay. I know a lot of guys don't like when I say these kind of Things and you know, I don't live to please them. I live for results, you know It's not about at the end of the day, it's not who you pleased. It's if you pleased yourself Okay, because you have to live with yourself. You got to live with yourself You you're gonna wake up one day old and alone a bunch of cats looking around You know in your one bedroom studio apartment With roaches and rats and saying I should have been married to a rich man who took care of me Or I should have had a nice man who respected me and loved me and you know Gave me the life that I wanted, you know Even if we had to work together to build it, I still should have been somewhere better than this You know, I've let men use and abuse me and now I'm all alone with these cats I was just too nice, you know So It's good to say no, it's good to be mean sometimes and it's good to leave with more than you arrived with, okay Even in um Jobs and careers when you go in You know You get a job a good paying job If they fire you you get a severance pay Or you get unemployment, okay, you still leaving with something Okay, they're just not kicking into the curb unless you're working at McDonald's You know what I'm saying? So if you're dating someone up here, you know, you get to leave with something You know, if you're dating with somebody down here, you're not leaving with anything but You know a lesson so I ladies Learn from your past relationships improve the next relationship until you're like Janet Jackson and Have so much money You can buy any man you want. Okay, so I'll see y'all later and when I when I say buy any man you want I'm just joking but With all that money, I don't even think she needs a man like seriously when women have that much money status clout They don't really need a man. They can kind of get a boy toy. That's probably why she was like, you know That's around with her dancer But you know, just like J. Lo does she messes around her dancer? She starts dating her dancers because she can kind of control them She's rich already. She don't need a man's money. She got all that money, you know, uh from her career and divorces Stuff like that. So I feel like you know It's all up to you if you're a very successful woman and you have enough money to where you can You know pick and choose the type of men you want By all means do that But if you're not like that Work smart getting relationships for smarter reasons leave with more than you came with have a plan in place Okay, because you never know when the breakup is coming. That's why you always have to have the plan Okay, it's like having insurance I have a plan like okay. Y'all always wonder what if your husband left you? I got a plan. I already got plan b dcfg, okay um I don't think he is gonna leave me. I mean if he if he did, you know It would be more beneficial to me. It's what i'm saying So if he left if my husband left me it would actually benefit me more so I feel like Either way. I'm good. So it's it's it's hilarious That a lot of guys put in the comment. Well, I hope your man leaves you. I'm like, I hope he does too I will be uh right over in hawaii In my house living in hawaii chilling, okay I hope I hope he's right. You know what i'm saying? It's more beneficial these days if you're smart and you get married And you set it up. It's more beneficial to stay married for the man Now if he leaves, you know, I'm taking half. I'm getting half that 401 two child supports The lifestyle that I'm used to the house. Come on now Come on Do they do you really just want to hand me all that stuff and go start over? I don't think so, okay, so Y'all can stop asking me that question because now y'all know the answer I will benefit if I was left. Okay, and that's the beauty of planning and setting things up To have more when you leave that when you came in, okay, because you can't buy back time and you can't buy back use Okay, so y'all can stop asking them dumb silly questions guys Uh, so because there's your answer. All right, so I'm going live tomorrow Wednesday at noon. So y'all tune no Friday I'm sorry not Wednesday. That's on my other channel. I'll be live on my other channel tomorrow On friday for this channel. I'm going live at 12 noon. Okay, so y'all tune in and y'all can ask me questions and Stuff like that and I'll see y'all then. All right. All right