 hello my youtube family welcome again to another live video before I begin hit the thumbs up button down below hit subscribe click all notifications show your support leave a donation in the super chat but thanks we'll go to my PayPal paypal.me slash narcsurvivor want to book a one-on-one with me just go to my website narcsurvivor.co.uk there's something you've got to understand about this world and the people who are in it some people are not real humans and in fact we have gotten to the point where most people are not real humans anymore and it's not just me saying it there's a lot of people talking about this on YouTube a lot of good people who are saying the exact same thing and if you look at the studies research and statistics it also backs up what I'm saying here as well as I spoke about my live video last night only one to two percent of the world's population are empaths who have a effect of empathy the ability to feel what another person feels to be able to share and understand another person's experience I'm sure we can all agree that's what makes us human but 98 to 99 percent of the world's population do not have the ability to do that but what they do have the ability to do is manipulate deceive and gas like you yes they have the ability to do that because as Dr. Brahmini said in one of her recent videos one in six people in this world so if you see six people the odds are at least one of them is going to be a full-blown MPD with narcissistic personality disorder and that doesn't mean that the other five are right because they could be covert narcissists they could just be narcissistic they could be borderline bipolar sociopath or they could just be toxic so yeah this world has become a very dark place that's why you do need to guard yourself be very careful with the people that you're around as you can see I like to spend most of my time alone I don't like to be around other people I enjoy my own company of course I was gonna imagine a lot of people like to get around me I guess I'm not as lucky as blessed as a lot of you we don't have to deal with a lot of it but people aren't constantly chasing after you although some of you may experience that as well but yeah I get that a lot I get people coming into my life and every time I think okay maybe this one's gonna be different but each and every time they show me why I just made a big mistake by letting someone else into my life by giving someone else another chance by thinking that this time it could be different because most times it's not gonna be different at all so it's gonna be the exact same way people come into your life they manipulate you they use you they abuse you and then they're out the door well maybe you just get completely fed up with them and you kick them out their door yourself which is something I've had to do a few times as well and I don't feel bad about it I don't feel bad about that at all I believe that that's exactly what we're supposed to do because it's funny how they objectify us it's like where these objects we exist to be used by them but they're the actually the ones who should be objectified because they have no value they have no use well we do we are empathic we're real humans we have the ability to connect we have the ability to feel and not only feel for ourselves but for another person as well yes we have the ability to do that and most people in this world do not most people in this world cannot do that for you and it's not just because they don't want to it's also because they can't it's also because they can't and this is just the way that the world is today and I wish it could be different of course I wish I could just have a friend someone that I could talk to someone who would just hear me out because of course I have a lot to say and I wish there was just someone there who would understand someone who would get me like I get them of course me wonder if I want this so bad that why am I alone and this is why because most people in this world are not thinking the same way most people in this world are not there for you in the same way that you were there for them and they're never gonna be that way for you the way that you were there for them it's never gonna be like that Jim any of you you look at your lives you look at your lives and you wonder why you wonder why things are going so bad why things just keep getting worse it's like you look at your parents your grandparents and looks like they had a better life than you when things are supposed to be getting better each generation so why do things keep going down and this isn't just for us this is happening with narcissists as well I'm not just talking about the 1 to 2 percent of the population who have the ability to experience the effect of empathy I'm talking about the entire world yes the entire world look at their lives it was much better a generation before and the generation before that as well so why do things keep going down why do you think keep getting worse why is everyone suffering why are all of these wars what is all of that about I can tell you the reason why is because very few people in this world actually have anyone who is on their side who is there to support them it may look like they do when you look into Instagram looks like people are living their best lives it looks like they've got the perfect relationship partner the perfect family perfect friends but really they do not they don't really have that at all and in fact what they do have is a fake life it's a false image that they are presenting to get validation well deep down inside in real life they're actually depressed they're miserable and again the reason why is because people get involved with each other they come into your life they act like they got your best interest in mind they're looking out for you and when you get with them your life is going to be so much better they're gonna help you they're gonna be there for you and you keep holding on to that image you saw at the beginning as your life begins to deteriorate it begins to get worse and this has happened to a lot of people in the world today I mean if that was not the truth why are their lives not improving why are they not getting better it's like the older they get the worse it is how can this happen how is this possible why do things have to be this way because I look at this world today and I feel a lot of pain I don't show it sometimes but it hurts me when I see the way that things are for people I leave myself things have happened to me and I am very sad about that and I do wish that things could be different I wish that things could be better especially for you those of you who watch my channel you support my work I mean that's why I make these videos every day because I want to make things better for you and I wish I could say that you can go to people make friends have relationships you can turn to your family whenever you're in need of support but you already know you can't do that you already know they're not gonna be there for you you already know they don't care most people in this world are only in it for themselves and by doing that they end up miserable if they're not already and it's like they can never understand the reasons why because they're doing things for you that are not in your best interest they're not really there for you they're not really in your corner and that doesn't mean that they're not physically present many times they are many times they won't even leave you alone and I've known that from my own family my relationship partners they were always there they would never leave me alone and that was a part of the problem because if they would just leave me alone I could find someone else who actually cares and I know you know exactly what I'm talking about when I say that it's like this person never came into my life I could have given the best of myself to someone else someone who would have appreciated someone who could have taken that in and then had the ability to reciprocate something of equal value back to me instead of a situation where it's like you give the best parts of yourself to someone and it just goes into this void never to be seen again nothing of value ever comes back to you and nothing of value ever comes back to them because even if they did get one over on you peer into their life after a certain amount of time whether it's a few months or a few years and you will see that in fact things didn't get better for them and in fact things got worse and that's how it always goes with them and yeah people just want to repeat the same cycle again and again to no end and it's like when are they gonna get it when are they gonna understand when are they gonna see what's right in front of their eyes what's been there the entire time what could have been good for them what was there to support them when are people ever gonna see that when are people ever gonna understand and I do want to get on here and be such a downer spread this doom and gloom but someone has to tell it like it is someone has to say the truth why are things this way why do bad things happen to good people of course the reason why is because most people in this world aren't even real they're not what they seem they're not they're not who they portray themselves to be well we may wish that they could be that we may long and yearn for that character to come back but this is the thing and what many of you don't even realize it's that that character that you were looking for that was you all along yes that was you all along for them and that's why they couldn't leave you alone that's why they were always after you maybe you after it you are after them as well in the beginning but that's only because they gave this force character to you they made you believe that they were about something they made you believe that they were about that I don't know what that's like because I look back at the people and the force characters that came into my life and I wish they could have been real wouldn't that be great if they were actually real how great would that be to have someone who you can rely and depend on someone who actually cares someone who's got your back so that you don't have to go at it on your own because you've got someone there to care for you and protect you but it's never like that is it that's never how it is because no one actually cares no one cares at all they pretend like they do but they really don't they don't care about you they just saw that you had something about you something that you could bring to them so they swooped in talk what you've got and then they were out of there or even if they did stay doesn't make it any better in fact that makes it even worse because they stay only to deplete you to hold you back from the person who you could have become the person that you were meant to be because you were meant to be so much more than what they led you to believe and yet the entire time they play down your worth they made you believe they could not as good as you actually are because they already knew all along that you were too good for them they knew that they didn't belong around you they knew that there would be someone else out there would be much better for you and that if you were aware of that if you knew that then you wouldn't have spent any time around them you wouldn't have got involved with them to begin with yes they knew that that's why they play down your worth that's where they minimize you and act and pretend like you're not as great as you actually are and this is why at some point because there's empaths there's chosen ones that's the people that we are we do tend to self-love we do tend to blame ourselves doesn't matter if you sacrifice yourself a hundred times a hundred times a day for a hundred years and yet no one has ever done anything for you just the other type of person to look at yourself and think that you've could have done more you could have been more because you believe in yourself and yes maybe you could have been a million times more that is the reality that is the truth and that's why it's so easy for them to get you to believe that because that is the reality you could have been even a million times more than what you were if you had never got involved with them to begin with but as I was saying as empaths has chosen ones at some point we've got to stop stop looking at ourselves all of the time and blaming ourselves for things that we could have done better and instead we've got to look at them and realize they're not even a fraction of what you were to them they're not even a fraction of that at all and in fact even if they had a million years on this earth they would never even amount to even a fraction of what you were they would never be able to do that it would just never happen but many of us we continue to look at ourselves we become self-critical we assume that there's something wrong with us when in fact maybe just maybe what was wrong is the people that you were surrounded with what would happen if you could just go back in time and take those people out of the picture so that you had never gotten involved with them what would happen if you were just on your own by yourself you continued on your path and your journey as a true empath a true chosen one should do what would have happened if you did that of course things would have been much better for you and again back to the title of this video some people are not real although what I should have put in the title is that most people are not real and let's just do a test right now because I mean right now we've got 152 live viewers once this video goes up maybe within 24 hours there will be between 5,000 and 10,000 views so this is this is a pretty good test pretty good research people from all walks of life from all around the world what did you let me know down in the comment section which I will be reading tomorrow let me know from all of the people that you've met in your life well if your family friends and relationship partners how many of those did you actually feel like were real how many of those did you feel like actually cared about you how many of those made a difference in your life just as you made a difference for them and their lives because I'm curious to know I don't want to get on here and to share my own story my own pain I want to hear from you as well because I've seen the research I've seen the studies as I spoke about in last night's live video but I love to hear from you and your personal experiences as well I mean already as I've mentioned before there are potentially billions of views on this topic of narcissistic abuse so a lot of people are dealing with this a lot of people feel like the people they're with are fake because when it all comes down to it that's really what it is what is a narcissist they're a fake person well they've got a false character yeah funny enough they can't even see that you're real they can't even see that you were there for them that you were genuine and sincere that you would have been there for them no matter what that you were loyal that you cared about them they couldn't even see that but what they could see is everything that they deflected on to you because as I've said before they disown these parts of themselves that they don't like and they assign them to us the victim the target and then they get us to identify with that to where we feel like it's us and not them and yet again we wonder why does this continue with each generation why does it get worse maybe just maybe the wrong people are being blamed the wrong people are being held accountable for things they haven't even done just maybe that could be the explanation for all of that because otherwise I don't know otherwise I don't understand because otherwise it doesn't make any sense and that's why I say the title of this video some people are not real and that's the scary thing about it because you see them and they look real they look like a real person they walk around just like everyone else they look like they're about what you're about but if that was really the case why didn't things pan out in the way that you expected and the way that they fed it to you and the way that they led you to believe I mean they sold you their stream they told you that things were gonna be a certain way so why didn't things pan out like that why are you now maybe sitting alone at your home you're watching this video you're listening to me you're thinking about all of the things that went through if they were real if they were really about something and not just you but why are hundreds of millions or even billions of people around the world tuning into these videos every day I mean it makes me think and sometimes I wonder if they really are more narcissists than what we're told because just look at the numbers look at how many people are watching these videos but then at the same time you've got to think that COVID narcissists like to play the victim as well and as I've said before I'm sure that many viewers and subscribers of my channel may potentially be COVID narcissists as well the reality is that there are very few chosen ones and in passing this world studies show empathy has decreased dramatically since the 1970s and there weren't that many female narcissists back then but now it's become equal now there's 50% male narcissists and 50% female narcissists so it's equal now there's a lot more female narcissists than there were before and that is a fact and this is just the way that the world is today everything is fake everything's all a lie the problem is that so many of us not including myself of course but so many of you you get pulled back into it into thinking that maybe this time it could actually be real maybe this time they're actually about what they say they're about for some of you and for those of you who that happens to that's the difference between us because we're not willing to fall for it again we already know exactly how it's going to be we've realized it this time we know it's just gonna be the exact same thing as it was before because that's the only way that it's ever gonna go and again why you've got to look at yourself for the answers and not just looking at yourself and looking at what you've been putting out what you've been given because that's what will then remind you of your will that's what will then remind you that you are an empath you are a chosen one and everyone else around you they're fake they're imposters they're just pretending to be something they're not and they're always going to be that way and yes that is their karma that's the way that it's always gonna be for them but you if you are a true empath if you are a true chosen one it's never gonna be that way for you you're always gonna be the way that you are and nothing in this world will ever be able to change you you're always gonna be that way and they're always gonna be that way they're always going to be narcissists they're always gonna be fake and the only thing that really gets you stuck in another situation the way you're thinking okay maybe this time it could actually be real it's just your belief it's nothing happening on the outside of the external world the only difference is your belief it's what's happening inside your mind so by this point I hope you've learned to take your belief away take your belief away from them stop getting yourself into that and instead start to believe in yourself many of you for the first time in your life because this entire time you've been taught to believe in everyone else but yourself start to rebuild yourself esteem and practice self-love because you know what happens when you do that it will begin to open your eyes it will awaken you to the truth a psychologist Ross Rosenberg I said in one of his videos our greatest defense against narcissists is our self-love so if you were to know if you're dealing with narcissists if you're surrounded by them all you've got to do is practice self-love learn to love yourself again and watch how people react do they support you if they don't then there's a good chance that you're dealing with narcissists even Ross Rosenberg said himself the title of one of his videos is narcissists are everywhere and it's true because they are Dr. Romney said in a recent video as well about one in six people are narcissists what you got to do is practice self-love and not fake self-love it doesn't mean take a selfie just love you and watch how people react do they hate you do they criticize you do they tear you down do they make you feel small do they make you feel bad about yourself that's how you know exactly what you're dealing with because as I said the greatest defense against narcissists is our self-love and that isn't something that I came up with it's up that I cured in one of the psychologist Ross Rosenberg's videos and you may be in kept down this entire time the entire time that's what they did to you they made you feel like you were less and who you actually are so you're not good enough for anyone or anything it's like the movie Cinderella and I know I keep going back to that but it's an excellent example they make you believe you're so much less than who you actually are they keep you down they enslave you they use you as their workhorse but then what happens when you outgrow them when you become greater when you develop into something more do they still accept you are they still by your side because by doing that that's the only way that you're going to know that's the only way that you're going to know who and what you're actually dealing with and that's why they don't want you to do that because then that would shine the light on them it would reveal to you themselves and everyone else exactly who they are and it's not because narcissists care so much about what other people think they actually don't give a shit they may look like they're so concerned with their false image that's how they appear to other people but actually know the regard is this is all just for themselves they feel nothing for anyone but themselves the false image is just the means for them to feel better about themselves if they could do without that then they would they only use that because they have to yeah the regard is that most people in this world are not real and when you're dealing with narcissists i mean most people in the world are narcissistic anyway but what you've got to be careful of is when you have that belief you have that hopeful mentality to where you actually believe that things can get better for you because as soon as they see that it triggers them and then they want to bring it down want to bring you back down to their level where they've already accepted their fate they have a reprobate mind they already know things aren't going to get any better for them they've already given up with themselves and that's why they're so quick to give up on you to give up on thinking that you growing becoming better being hopeful about the future they think that that could be bad because yes it could be bad for them because while you may be able to get better yes things can get a lot better for you it's not going to get any better and you think a narcissist is just going to watch you elevate to become greater while they're left behind it's the crabs in the bucket mentality they do not want to see that they do not want to see things getting better for you because they already know as soon as that happens you're going to be leaving them behind they're not going to be able to go there with you and that's why all they want to do is put you back down to their level they don't want you to grow they don't want you to elevate and instead all they will do is enslave you and trap you with the manipulation the gaslight and the light future faking keeping you stuck in your head thinking you're so much less than who you actually are because again as empaths as chosen ones we tend to blame ourselves we came here to make things better not only for ourselves but for everyone else but there's a lot of people in this world who don't want to see that happen because while things can get better for you and maybe other people as well things can't get better for them so that's why that's why they want to keep the vibrations down they don't want to see you rise they don't want to see you so because it just reminds them how low down they are and how things are never going to get better for them because of all of the things that they've been through all of the failures and disappointments to where now they believe that things are never going to get any better and in some ways i can see where they're coming from i can understand because the research the studies the statistics do show that there is a lot of problems in this world but it's not that way for everyone good people do still exist and to know that you've only got to look in the comment section the good people who have been taken advantage of so many times yes we're still out here we still exist but these narcissists they really do believe that everyone is fake they really do believe that they surround themselves with other fake people for a reason and they assume that that's all that there is that's how they can go to stock smear campaigns and gangstalking because that's already exactly what they think of them they already expect them to be that way they already assume that most people are abusers that most people are manipulators but you never thought that way before you never thought that way and yet you saw the best in other people you saw them as being so much greater than what they actually were and as i said before a lot of times that is our problem we're seeing other people as they want us to see them rather than how they actually are but whenever you feel that anxiety you feel like something's wrong something's not right you feel uncomfortable that's actually a very good thing and you should pay attention to that because it's telling you exactly what you're dealing with it's telling you that you're a brown narcissist so you should always pay attention to that because it will remind you exactly what you're dealing with but when you're around someone who's not like that someone who is empathic i do believe that it is a test a test given by god and in that moment we are given an option to make a decision because if you wanted to maybe you could exploit that type of person you could take advantage of them i've asked a test from god on whether or not you decide to do that of course as we know with narcissists they only think about themselves they don't respect boundaries there's no limits there's no separation between you and them everything's just enmeshed the entire world there's an extension of themselves so of course when they do come across an empath like ourselves they will exploit us they will take advantage of us narcissists are going to do what narcissists do and that's just the way that they are they're always going to be that way they're never going to change that's their idea of fun and enjoyment that's the best that it gets for them in life finding pleasure is another person's pain well for you i know you want something more i know you know that you deserve better than that that's why you watch my videos you watch my videos because you know that you know that you deserve more so despite what they may have done to you after all you do have self-esteem you do have some self-love enough to know that you do in fact deserve more enough to know that you don't approve of abuse because the only time when people think abuse is okay is when their self-esteem is that low is when they just completely hate and despise themselves and remember everything is an extension of them they extend their self-hatred on to you but you don't agree with that you don't accept the abuse whether it's to you or anyone else because you do have some self-esteem you do have some self-love enough to get on cue and watch these videos because i can tell you if you didn't have that self-esteem if you didn't have that self-love you wouldn't be able to do that and again this is why they devalue us they're trying to take value away because unlike them we do have value we do have self-esteem we do have self-love we have pride and satisfaction in ourselves and our accomplishments and that's what they're trying to take away yeah that's what they want because narcissists as we know they don't really have that they haven't really got real self-esteem they don't really love themselves that's where they come around us to take that promise because it's something they don't have i mean think about it like this if you have self-esteem if you have self-love why would you go around someone else to take that from them you wouldn't you wouldn't need to because you've already got that for yourself so this is why they do that when they take our self-esteem and they target our self-love it's because underneath it all they actually hate themselves they don't accept themselves at all and that's why they're able to be chameleons shape shifters they can be whatever they think you want them to be most people in this world are not real they want everything you've got that they don't have your self-esteem your self-worth your self-love your hope and belief in yourself and your future your faith in god why do you think they come around you and try to take all of that away it's because they don't have it as we're then so without how we treat people is a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves and this should just be further confirmation to you that you are a chosen one because i can tell you if you're being gangstalked people are coming around you to take your hope and belief in yourself and in god and in your future if that's not a sign of you being a chosen one i don't know what is and that's really what it's about a bunch of pathetic hopeless lowlifes have no belief in themselves they feel completely helpless they have no hope for the future and then they come around to take that away from you because they want to project their negative feelings on to you that's why they do that because they already know that things aren't going to get any better for them but when you have that belief that optimism for yourself you're going to have that for everyone else as well and again this is the problem this is what gets us caught up with the wrong people this is how this gets us into it because we extend our own hope and belief for ourselves onto them as well we look at their lives and we think i could turn that around i can make that better yeah i could put myself in that person shoes i might be miserable right now but just give me an hour i can just change everything i can make my life better overnight you're extended your own mentality it might be that way for you but it's not that way for them and yet you wonder why they come around to you and they want to make life miserable for you that's why and there has been studies and reports on this already about gang stalkers they're all losers they're all broke they've all got nothing going for themselves nothing going on in their lives i mean you really think someone who is doing something with their lives they're confident they believe in themselves they've got something going for their future you really think they're gonna get around you just to bring you down of course not if anything a person like that they're gonna get around you and they're gonna see what they see in themselves in you that's what would happen so in a lot of ways these programs the smear campaigns the gang stalking it's just weird to all of these people out all of these losers all of these people that aren't doing anywhere and that's how you will see that with time things will begin to get a lot better for you and a lot worse for them and that's why you've got to get you've got to be very careful because they will come after you and they will try to tear you down to support this illusion of it being the other way around but they were the ones were there for you trying to help you they were thinking things could better but you weren't having that you were the one who caused all the problems that's what they've got to tear you down otherwise you're going to be elevating and leaving them behind and then it's going to be completely obvious what was going on and yes underneath it all they may know that they may be aware of it but they cover it up they make it out like it's you and not them because they're disconnected from themselves and their emotions they don't take accountability they can do whatever they want and get in their mind it's still your fault again most people in this world are not real and i could go on and on and give a hundred other examples for this but i think i've given enough and i've given enough references about the research the studies of course there's many more videos to come and i will be speaking on this again this is just how it is this is reality this is the real world where most people are not real most people are not on your side in your corner most people only pretend to care about you so that they can get what they want just like the thank you all for joining me on another NARC survivor live video please hit that thumbs up button down below hit subscribe click all notifications to be notified when i upload a new video and let me know your thoughts in the comment section as i said earlier i will be reading your comments tomorrow so i'd love to know what you think about what i've said in this video and if you would like to donate you can leave a super chat and a live chat a super thanks in the comment section or you can go to my paypal it is paypal 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