 There's too much of this, well men and women are the same. Men and women are equal, no they're not. Men and women are very different and they're complementary to each other and they should be complementary to each other because they fill each other's gaps, right? Like, men need to create value, we're born as nothing. We're nobody, we're weak, simple, we have no skills whatsoever. But as you age and you grow as a guy, it's incumbent upon you to demonstrate competency skills, be able to demonstrate resourcefulness, the ability to acquire resources to provision and protect. It's why women like big, strong, burly, alpha male type guys don't wanna use alpha male. Again, that's just a placeholder as well, like beta male, that sort of thing. But that's what they respond to, that's what they're attracted to, right? Yeah, like that's how I view it from a purely evolutionary point of view. And I think what the problem becomes is everybody tries to carpet their belief system or carpet their values on everybody. It all depends on what you want in your life. Like, if you wanna live a new kid or family or have a couple of kids and have a certain structure, there's ways to do that for success, you know what I mean? Like, if you are a single woman, career-driven, you don't wanna have kids, right? Many men do wanna have kids. So right away, you eliminate a huge portion of the men with demographics because they wanna have kids, right? So it all depends on like aligning what you want in your life with what someone else wants. The cognitive dissonance happens where it's like, and this happens all the time, where it's like you have two highly career-driven individuals, they wanna have kids, but no one wants to let go of their career to support the child. Well, it's because we've been told for so long that you can have it all, girl, you know? You can have your university degree, you can climb the corporate ladder, you can have a husband, you can have a family. But if you're spending 10 years in university and then 10 more years climbing the corporate ladder, I found this out when I got divorced because that was about 39, right? So until this entered the sexual marketplace, you start dating, you know, you use the apps and stuff like that. And I was blown away by this concept coined as baby rabies. And there's a lot of women. Baby rabies. Baby rabies, yeah. There's a lot of women 35 to 40, 41, 42, even like kinda pushing in their 40s as well, where they spent the better part of their life chasing a degree, chasing excellence at work, making a name for themselves. And they got to the age of 37, 38, their eggs have dried up, their higher risk pregnancy, the higher probability chance of autism and all kinds of things like that. You talk to any teacher right now in school versus teachers from like 30 years ago and they'll tell you the reason why kids behave like assholes and they require so much attention is because parents are putting off having kids or having them later on in life which causes more problematic issues with children as they develop and as they grow sort of thing. So they think that they can have it all, but what they end up doing is they put it off to the very end, they end up having high risk pregnancies and they show up and they're like, I've got baby rabies, wife me up. And it's like, you don't even get a chance to vet them for a couple of years to see what they're really like because what they do is they push most of these beta male providers into a marriage, have the kids, she realizes five to seven years later that she's not really that attracted to them. She watches Eat, Pray, Love on Netflix and decides, you know what? I think I'm gonna bounce on this guy because divorce law is totally in my favor. He's gonna be paying me child support and I'll get the kids anyway. So I'll just do that and I'll find the next guy. And there's so many guys out there that have been divorced right by women. I mean, they go through the divorce machine and I'm not saying this is like women that do, that does this, but this is the way that family laws construct. This is the way that we've designed the system is to always protect the female because the male has always been disposable. And that's not me saying that. I mean, that's evo-psyclic, that's evolutionary history, right? Men have always been disposable. The disposable sex and women have always been the protected sex. So it's no surprise that's built into family law. So guys go incredibly wrong wifing up the wrong woman in the late 30s. They get divorced five to seven years later and they lose all their shit and they don't even get to see their kids.