 What's good, Josh, you brought us back again with another video and today I wanted to switch something up I am gonna get to some more wrestling videos best belief. So be on the lookout for that But I wanted to switch it up. I actually wanted to do a commentary This is something I actually been thinking about doing for the past couple of days and the reason why I've been thinking about that is I've been hearing some unsavory things about what the fellas are doing in the deep DMs, man, and it's it's quite transworthy like Come on guys. We got it. We got to do better man. The title says it all we need to talk fellas Some of my lady friends have been telling me that Guys be doing the most in the DMs and it'd be people you wouldn't think that would be doing the most But they'd be doing the most And the reason why this conversation comes up is if I'm conversing with someone if I'm shooting my Best shot RP Kobe if I'm shooting my best shot I'm more just kind of straightforward straight to the point direct You know, I may put a little gift here and there again I'm saying maybe something light-hearted and go from there and I shoot my shot And if it lands it lands if it don't it don't that's just really what it is But some guys they go above and beyond when that first shot don't land They'll sit up there and do the most for example One of my ladies friends told me she would get hit with the good morning beautiful Hard emoji hard emoji or hope you slept well and it's like What are you doing like? That's that should not be a thing. That's cool to tell your girl. Good morning beautiful. That's cool But when she's not your girl and you just trying to get to know somebody you hit somebody with the good morning beautiful Hope you had a wonderful night. I was thinking about you like this. It's too much. It's too much guys You gotta gotta chill man. You got to just be you know Chill just say what you want to say if you good at using pickup lines You use a pickup line if you're you know got some charisma about you said something funny, but Don't be doing the good morning beautiful. You're the most beautiful woman in the world like no That's that's so cliche. You know I'm saying a lot of women get those type of DM So you want to set yourself apart? You don't want to blend in with everybody that you DM and man So it's like fellas. We got a chill got a chill like there's nothing wrong with finding someone attractive that you want to pursue But y'all be Doing too much the thirst like you guys will be so thirsty Another thing that some of my female friends to be saying is the multiple Messages what I mean by you you don't just send one message. You send two three four five six seven eight messages in a row and multiple emojis and it's like I'm sure they saw it and if they didn't see it I'm sure they will see it and if they did see it and they didn't respond Don't keep shooting the shot man. You guys just keep shooting the shot over and over and over and over and over And you're missing your air ball and actually it is It's bad I only say this because it'd be so Rageously cringe that is I yo man. I gotta put this out there in the world So PSA to all my fellows man if you're shooting your best shot and you don't make it It's okay. It's all right You're not gonna always make the half court shot at the buzzer in overtime sometimes you got a you know Pull back go back to the drawing board and maybe talk to somebody else that you may be able to land a shot If you're shooting your shot in the DMs, that's all I'm saying because at the end of the day you're making Just a male species look bad, bro. You're making us look bad, man Like we can't be out here. You know saying just shooting reckless shots and then Keep going like you know sometimes you got to chill out if you don't get a response. Let it go move on It's okay. It's life. There's plenty of women out there for you to shoot your shot at It's okay. If you keep shooting shot at the same person It starts to get a little bit annoying and a little bit weird So I'm just putting that out there for all the fellas man Be careful when you shoot your shot, bro. Just take your time Breathe if you don't make it. It's not the end of the world Chill out with the good morning beautiful and the beautiful text and stuff. Stop all of that Please man, please. I'm just trying to help you guys out But just a little quick commentary nothing too crazy. I wanted to get your guys opinion Let me know comment down below any other topics. I should discuss or any other Topics that you feel like would be interesting like new topics that you feel like would be interesting I have plenty of things that I feel like Should be done in a a more Effective way. I actually want to get into a topic of first dates like Where should you go and all those type of? Type of avenues that come with first dates and how should you present yourself? I actually want to get into that so comment down below if y'all be interested in something like that But yeah, man Fellows, bro. It's chill, bro. It's okay. Just chill. Who is who is messaging me? Oh This my Twitter is going off. Oh, by the way, follow me on Twitter I'm back on Twitter now at what underscore now underscore Ross Follow me on Twitter back on there if you're not following me on Instagram Follow me on Instagram as well. But yeah, appreciate y'all kicking in with me and fellas chill out for real, bro Stop because they telling us as guys here that be chilling they they tell us the cringy stuff that y'all do And it hurts because we hate to see our fellow men Lord themselves to such cringe stop See y'all next one