 Yeah, yeah, he says sorry. I have a question about jealousy in a couple. Okay Well, I get so jealous when a Facebook friend of mine of my man likes or adores a certain post of him Is this normal? What it means is that you're really attracted to him, right? Like jealous jealousy having jealousy having feelings of jealousy is pretty normal. It's a normal human emotion that people have and so I wouldn't get all like bent out of shape about the fact that you have jealousy. I mean, it's one of those things where it's that there are it is kind of like a little bit of an indication that That there's a few things going on one is that you're really attracted to somebody and two it's like, you know depending on how kind of jealous you are about the situation it might kind of have an indication about your own feelings of security and Self-worth and and those kinds of things. So but you know, that's something that that you can work on through kind of healing work and and personal development and And getting through some pains and stuff from the past healing through stuff Fiona says. Yeah. Yeah That means it's triggering something in you. You must have fears around abandonment could be it could be fears of abandonment It could be about fears of feeling that you're not good enough. It depends on how strong the The jealousy is right like it's not it's not jealousy is a natural emotion that we all have Right and so it just depends on how strong your jealousy is and what kind of issues you have Which we all have we all have issues pretend like you don't you probably have the bigger issues So Why we get at least says why do we get jealous because it's you know, we is probably from Our old biology of like back in the day of like being like, oh, you know Like somebody's gonna be if if we were back in the old days of being in tribes and stuff where it was like Hey, if you don't keep this partner, it might you might you know be off fending for yourself in the jungle, right? That would be a huge problem But nowadays it's like we we still have this old wiring, right? And then this is the argument that a lot of people talk about because they're like, oh, well, we're in 2019, you know, we should not have to worry about man and woman anymore And it's like no we've got biology that goes back a long long time way way way before we were even talking and that biology is strong and so You know jealousy is a part of that biology just like the factors that attract one another to each other And and so it's not you're not you're not getting rid of it completely I mean, I've heard of people that say that they they never ever get jealous at all I'm not sure that I totally believe that they might maybe they're just dead inside They're just dead inside and they don't feel anything at all