 Self-awareness allows you to say and see why why what part of me Was threatened by that person that made me respond in that way. What part of me needed to exaggerate? What part of me needed to lie about something what part of me needed to make myself look better than I really am in that situation What part of me couldn't say I was wrong. I'm sorry What part of me thinks you're the problem and I could never be the problem. It's called the ego