 what do you have to consider emotional intelligence emotional stability does she have too much consumer debt she's going to spend all your money because some of you guys look for shortcuts we're going to talk about that in a second i'ma just make some money and she's going to be with me dr drae jeff bezos how's that money working out warm it ain't working out they have to split with it right okay does she spend all your money does she going to lose she had too many sexual partners she is student loan debt you know 70% of the student loan debt is owned by women how did that happen go to college make something of yourself okay they got them all right sometimes you know sometimes the fool is just ready born every day they got them 70% of the student loan debt owned by women what's the likelihood that you've been introduced to a woman and she got more degrees than a thermometer she raved it right in front of your face and she worked a job at human resources she got that investigated she probably didn't even finish her degree she got that okay see this is the stuff you don't see and the other stuff you don't see is right here the shark see you don't throw your baloney pony out there in the sea hoping wishing thinking i got whatever it is to get her oh it's gonna make me immune to all the bs there's the shark waiting for you what is it society the expectations she's the victim 100% of the time okay 98.9% of the time she's always gonna be the victim no matter what you do you start yelling at her you do whatever you need to do she's gonna be the victim just know that she's always gonna come out of your marriage your relationship smelling like roses you not so just know that and knowing is not enough you have to accept it right what about this the government you want to get married where's my guys that said they want to get married you know who you're marrying the government not marrying her don't marry state and they're going to give you a piece of paper a marriage license with a whole bunch of family law codes you're not going to be introduced to until she's ready to introduce them to you and then you'll learn them holy moly i didn't think i was going to have to do all of that yep that's what you just agreed to but you have a piece of paper right you're going to be introduced to people walking around with the itchy scratchy as i call it on my show 25 percent of women walking around with boils in between their legs okay that's a statistic okay for you cold approach gamers okay pregnancy what if i knock her up all it takes is one to get loose slip up all it takes is one and she got 18 years of your child support money and the ability to move that kid all across the damn county all across the damn state you agreed to that when you lie down to her you remember that's the shark and then marriage of course with the statistics so ridiculous this is what i talk about here on my channel okay also talk about this and it's a little bit blurry this is patterns of human behavior i know a lot of divorced people i know some married i know a lot of married people i know a lot of unhappily married people you talk about the divorce rate 60 what about the people that are stuck together they don't want to leave they can't afford a divorce they can't get a divorce because of religion they're too old to get divorced all right there's a whole bunch of things that are happening here so i created this marriage will and said this is what's going to happen in your marriage okay from step one to step zero okay right to the end you're going to connect with her y'all gonna be all love you dovey oh my that's my baby that's my boo then eventually you'll say let's stay together forever it'll be great listen if you can find this and do it more power to you okay but in today's world it's going to be difficult then i'll tell you eventually you're gonna have to invest in this she's gonna want a house it's gonna be the car kids a lot of things are gonna come along from it you're gonna spend money while you're doing this she's good she's riding buying time right now okay she's like oh he's investing in this i'm gonna just sit this out okay i'm gonna do whatever you need to do by the time you've got fully invested you get to the stage of what i call the bait and switch at that particular point once you're invested she can do whatever the hell she want to do well whatever you said i was supposed to be doing i don't want to do it no more now you can't go to your family court office to say you know what she's not giving me any she's not doing anymore monkey double backflips on me anymore can you make her give me sex nope she's spending all my money can you make her stop spending all my nope okay you have no authority she can change her mind and change your world now how many times is this happening in the country over and over and over again how many people have been to the family courthouse like the building in a courtroom okay see a lot of you guys only three people raised their hand by the way a lot of you guys haven't even seen what people look like when they used to love each other they used to these people loved each other and now they're dragging them through hell see if you haven't seen it you don't understand anything i'm talking about this is why i wrote the books we'll get to that okay after the bait and switch she's gonna disengage from you how many times is this happening a lot over and over again every day and you don't even hear about it the only time you guys hear about it is when dr drake gets divorced right that's the only time you guys are paying attention oh man it sucks to be him that's how men deal with it it'll never happen to me though that's what i thought too okay and then they have all of these reinforcements to make you cooperate family court child support system the family counseling alimony you lose your kid they have all of these systems in place from them to make you and listen i'm not saying that they're wrong for it what i'm saying is the systems are in place already hedging their bets against your failure it's almost guaranteed it's almost guaranteed okay now say for instance you say well baby don't take me to child support court what have you now done you've now been at your need to her she's in control she has authority now now you didn't get divorced you didn't become a statistic but now she has authority you're done you can never recover from that that's the future of the modern relationship okay so you can have some choices and some people say i'll try again maybe it was just her that was her she was the one acting up you never take accountability for your lack of leadership you never step up as a man so you go out there and you try again remember i said 70 80 percent the next time you do it okay so the reality is this man