 I'm probably gonna need to issue a warning because I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that today I'm going to offend some people because if you look around the world now not just here in America it can be in South America it can be in I don't know Europe it can be Asia Africa y'all tell me is it just me or have men changed you got men nowadays who for whatever reason and we'll talk about those reasons in just a little bit but you got men who take pleasure or are entertained by other men other males I should say who want to degrade and downplay and down talk other women to put her in her place maybe all because she didn't accept your advances she didn't think that you were that kind of person you've got grown supposedly grown males who look to another man another male who is pretty effeminate himself I'm speaking about you know I'm talking about going to a grown another grown male asking or looking for advice on how you should be a man or what type of a man a high value man or any kind of a man it's not just him there's other men and I understand why why the industry is booming because oftentimes men look around and they don't see other men I don't know where this came about where men grown folks males over the age of 18 or 21 go out actively looking for other males to teach them how to be men that's probably the issue that we have in this country some of these folks take their marching orders from some of these men and I'm still not up on the terminology I know they call it the I don't know is it red peel blue peel ministry I really don't know what it's called why because I haven't I haven't taken part in I haven't looked at it someone asked me hey you mean tell me why why don't you uh watch what this particular person is saying on YouTube why what in the world is he going to tell me what is he going to show me see and I know I'm going to get some uh some angry comments which is fine I won't look at him I won't care uh because let me just say this let me say this and maybe some men don't get this but men don't clap back did you hear what I said men don't clap back no that's not for us and then we've got some men who tend to be a little bit more insecure and maybe some other person doesn't clap back the way they want to or yell at the person and what do they do there's this term called beta male well when did other men began judging uh if a man's uh response is strong enough first of all you don't care you shouldn't care I never I I never I never really thought unless a person asked me but I never really went out of my way so you know what that guy shouldn't take that okay whatever fine but that's the world that we live in and so now by the way let me just say this when I say feminine or effeminate don't miss the point I am not talking about men who are gay or kind of gayish no now they certainly do fit the category but it's not just them it's not just them when you look at when you what do you see when you look at these images what do you what do you get out of this see these men and they probably are straight males they probably are but we got a problem we got a problem with this guys this is this is what's being advertised as this was being advertised as manly it's not it's not uh I don't know what's happening there and granted some of this stuff is just fashion but can I be honest when your clothes begin looking like women's clothing we got a we Houston America mankind men we got a problem it's okay for a little boy a two-year-old a five-year-old a six-year-old boy to be cute it's not it's not good for a grown male to be cute your hair looking nice and so again I'm not against bathing I'm not against hygiene what I am against are the lines being blurred y'all do realize there's a difference between men and women I caught a quote from from Bishop uh uh wouldn't I want to share this quote with you because we can start right here she's shaped like me but different so where she's different at everywhere it counts everywhere it counts praise the lord there are similarities between male and female but but but but but Joshua we different everywhere it counts y'all do realize that there's a difference between men and women there's a difference between males and females like you said where they're different everywhere it counts however we also understand that we ought to be treated differently and I'm saying this from a man's perspective not from the world's perspective the world's going to tell us something different we can't even come to an understanding in our society what a man is or what a woman is now when a man hits a woman we know the difference in she knows the difference at that at that point in time unfortunately a lot of the men don't know the difference which is why you see that happening now before I get it I want to ask you guys a question granted I'm getting ready to show you something that's sort of graphic but I want to get you all's opinion here is an instance of a woman kind of getting on a line she gets up in a man's face and she strikes the man the question is what would you do I want to play this for you I want to see what you all say so his response was she hit me since she hit him that's more than acceptable for him to hit her back can I get you all's opinion I'm wondering what you all think about that what man what man was hit her back what man well I'll give you the answer I'll give the answer no man no man yeah he would have took it maybe would have stung a little bit but again and maybe this is just how I was raised maybe I was just raised different but I'm not hitting a woman because she hit me now if she's getting ready to kill me or she's getting ready to kill someone else hurt someone I'll stop her then but to hit her back yeah I you know what I can almost guarantee had it been a man he wouldn't hit her back he'd ask hey man what you hit me for what's going on no see we have changed and the fact is that we don't have I can understand a woman because there are women that will say well hey you know what if she hits him he ought to hit her back okay fine but we're talking about me and just just us men men if you if you have a problem with that then I got a problem with you if you got a problem oh I'm sorry if you don't have a problem with him hitting her I got a problem with you that's not how it's supposed to be you could you could y'all some of y'all seen the the footage this was I don't know 10 years ago maybe yeah about 10 years ago I guess where the football player Ray Rice just knocks out his uh his soon to be wife his fiance here's a guy who gets hit all day long on the football field by 300 pound men and I don't care if you're in a confined place you couldn't walk away you couldn't defend yourself you couldn't block her no you're pumped you're sissy you're feminine not gay you're just feminine what do I mean by feminine well a feminine man takes on the qualities of a woman that's what he does some folks can get bothered by that's fine that's fine you're not the kind of man that I want to associate myself with anyway you couldn't hang with me if you believe if you believe that that's okay absent her getting ready to do some serious damage to you that's different but you want to and that's the problem and it's not just that that's an extreme example but to go tit for tat back and forth I recognize that there is a difference I recognize there is difference and God has made men and women different now when I say uh we're not equal at all men and women are not equal better than me one is better than the other we're just not equal we're different okay this cup and this cup are not equal it's time to say the one is better than the other the same with men and women we are not equal we are different and we're supposed to respond to each other that way let me go to the bible I want to pull up something and I want to see if you see this in uh first Corinthians chapter 6 9 y'all have seen this passage before I want to point something out to you he says or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God do not be deceived neither sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who practice homosexuality nor thieves nor the greed nor drunkards uh no revilers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God now I want to focus on this word right here this word right here where it says the men who practice homosexuality this word right here is the word melancholy this word means soft or fancy you soft or fancy men guess what he's saying you won't want to practice this lifestyle of being soft extra fancy you've got more chemicals in your uh bathroom than the woman does you spend more time on her hair more money on your hair than she does you've got bigger and better skincare products than she does i'ma tell you why i got a issue with that but it's not just me it's not just paul that has the issue with that you know jesus also has an issue with that because jesus said the same thing too as a matter of fact he brings it up first look what he says he's speaking about john and and matthew chapter 11 verse 7 he says as they went away jesus began to speak with the crowds concerning john this is john the baptist and he said what did what did you go out into the wilderness to see a re shaken by the wind what then did you go out to see a man dressed in soft they're that word again here's a greek word again melancholy soft clothing behold those who wear soft clothing are in king's houses he's referring to the Pharisees how they they pretty much dressed in a way that was kind of soft kind of fancy kind of sissyish yeah you hear some terms being sissy because that's what we got a bunch of today it's it's no wonder no wonder somebody like kevin samuels or other men like that can find a foothold because men are looking for somebody to look at and if that's who you look at god help you god help you your children your your future wife because that's not what a man is and i understand that he's passed but there's more kevin samuels on the horizon there's more people i had a friend who had an issue with me who took it who took exception with me taking exception with kevin samuels umbilical diagnosis well first of all men who have occupied their time with other worthwhile things tend to focus on uh or to not to focus on kevin samuels or people like that you matter you bother because she rejected you because if she didn't want you if you're not the kind of man that she wanted we just move on that's what we used to do my day keep it moving keep it moving i'm not who's concerned with the thoughts and the concerns of another man well women are females are see wherever you are you'll tolerate to that level a man or a male will tolerate to the level that he's at what do i mean well what i mean is this that a man or i should say not a man a male who will strike a female will tolerate another male strike it a female a male who doesn't take care of his children will tolerate another male not taking care of his children a male who acts a certain way will tolerate another male who acts a certain way that's why you see certain men hanging out with feminine men some of these men that we look at and we look at we look at the uh the thumbnail as well when we look at some of these people you'll see men who better not go to certain prisons i want to put this on the screen when y'all see this what what do y'all see when y'all see this picture all these different men they seem like they would be from different backgrounds have different ways of doing things but what do you see when you see this picture oh by the way when you see this picture what do you see or what what what do they all have in common what would you say all of these men have in common well i'll tell you first of all all of these men were probably somebody but again this might not be for your ears guys but might be somebody's uh male friend or boyfriend in prison why because what they have in common let me put it back on the screen what these men have in common is each and every last one of them are insecure men they're insecure me personally i have a hard time being around insecure people because they want me to be just insecure as they are i'm listen if i if i and i'm not advocating going out and just being a a slob but my whole goal is not to impress people and granted get understand this guys growing up males try to impress other males that now that part is natural females impress other females and so forth that's what we do look at the animal kingdom they do the same thing male lions and male elephants and so forth they try to impress impress other males up to a certain point up to a certain time we don't do so when we become mature now it ought to be that young boys look up to grown men to aspire to be men i heard i heard a boy asked answer this question he was asked what do you want to be when you grow up thinking and hey he's gonna say football player basketball player what have you uh he said he wanted to grow up and be a man amazing awesome wants to grow up and be a man why would he say that well probably hadn't seen very many of them of course nowadays we got to worry about if our boys want to grow up and be girls if they want to grow up and be women so but but i want to put that picture back up i want you to look at it again that's what these men all of these men are they want you to look at them and see a certain something yeah even the guys that are all tatted up even those guys by the way guys let me say this at a certain point in time grown men grown men grown men only if it doesn't fit this if that doesn't fit you then don't listen to it but at a certain point in time grown men need to put the ink down you writing on yourself as though you're impressing somebody because you can't see it you put the tattoo on your back who can see that on your arm on your head who can see that you're trying to impress somebody you're trying to say something that you're up that your normal personality doesn't show see it should be it should be guys that when when a man walks in the room everybody should know that a man just walked into the room it should not it should be no doubt no question whatsoever no question a man walked in the room now you may not like the man but a man walked in the room you may hate him you may not like his personality would have but a man walked in the room man gets on the elevator with other men and he says in his just regular man voice not trying to impress anyone he says uh hello gents hello gentlemen turned around it was about his business waiting for the elevator to stop at his floor gets off the other men who are friendly like man that that dude was all right he didn't do anything he just walked him a certain way carried himself a certain way some of you guys who who would turn to uh these men who are trying to who are trying to help you with dating and so forth can i give you guys a quick tip i want to give you guys a tip okay i want to give you a tip to help you with your love life if you don't have one right if you're single let me help you out this works as a matter of fact ask the ladies watch the comments sections watch the chat section and see if they agree see if they agree let me and i hear my grandson in there he's in there crying or what he's doing but i promise you the the the ladies will agree with this the world has become so feminized and masculinity has become uh the bane of our people don't like masculine men so if you are looking to stand out because guess what the bar has been lowered the bar has been lowered so much so that it doesn't take a whole lot to stick out as a man yeah it doesn't and one of the things that's lacking is just a man being confident in his manhood now i want to play something that uh john mccarthur said that i think kind of adds to what i'm saying evil abounds everywhere how men respond to its presence determines the survival and well-being of that society one psychologist said masculinity is taking responsibility to reduce evil and produce good no culture will ever rise above the character of its men well there's the problem we're losing out on what it means to be a man we've got a lot of boys running around here a lot of boys you get upset with me i promise you do not care you know i don't care uh you can get your equally the comments you can make your snide remarks whatever but i told you earlier grown men don't clap back again and i keep saying this for a reason because i want someone to see this and get the example there's over 70 videos negative videos about me have i made one response now if you make a video that that has something to do with doctrine it's not about me that's about him and even then i've only had really one kind of issue but i'm not into getting you to like me or to uh see me in a certain light okay fine guess what you don't know the name of my children my wife is how i keep it moving men don't clap back men don't go around telling somebody else who's a beta male who's a sigma male who's out no no no no we do so because because we want someone to think highly of us we want someone to think highly of us because i know we you know we are born naturally insecure i get that i get that but at some point in time boys got to grow up boys have to be men amen you will find little joy in your command but with luck you will find the strength to do what needs to be done kill the boy john snow kill the boy and let the man be born we don't want to kill the boy we don't we're afraid of what folks think about we don't want to kill the boy no i've got to go see what my buddies think about it because we don't want to kill the boy i got to see what they're saying on on on what is it facebook let me all right let me let me let me clap back we don't want to kill the boy and when we can't get things we want to we we we pout we cry because we don't want to kill the boy uh when we can't figure out what to do we go grab the xbox or the playstation whatever you still have out there because we don't want to kill the boy that's our problem your day should be so full that you don't have time for his man i'm not saying if you got an xbox or play i'm not saying that but at some point in time you want to put the childish things with you should if you got an xbox or a playstation you know what you should do you should say man i hadn't played this game in a long time i hadn't played this thing in a while you have to look for times to play the games but that's not the case because we don't want to kill the boy and when a woman dares to say something you don't like you got a problem with that because you don't want to kill the boys you know you do you know who get back who would like to get back at another female boys think about the junior high high school poland high school uh but elementary the last fight that i got in with a girl the last fight i was in elementary school the left now i've gotten hit hold another story why it happened but i've gotten hit by females i'm not going to strike them back i have one i had one come to my apartment and she wanted to start some stuff i just i grabbed her and listened and she hit me and hit me and scratched me and she hit me like mike tyson i'm not gonna hit her i'm not gonna do that even as a teenager as a teenager i understood my daddy told me one time my daddy was tough too now i don't mean like unloving but but he understood what what life was like he told me when i wasn't acting like a man he said boy you need to grow up and stop acting like a little low b man that's my daddy i got his point i wouldn't offend it i didn't i didn't go look to and find what other folks thought hey did you hear what he had to say but could you imagine i'm not gonna say your father some of your fathers are probably still young some of you some of your fathers are older but could you imagine your father if he's older or your grandfather if the internet was around going and listening to somebody some of these guys on youtube to talk about what it's like to be a man could you a lot of these people don't even know a lot of them themselves don't know what it's like to be a man we used to back in the day you could judge a man or we would try to judge a man or get some kind of understanding about the man just by shaking his hand that's kind of past hadn't it as that's we used to if you shake a man's hand told you a couple things about him because one you wanted to feel the grip the firmness not try to who had the strongest grip that that's not what that's not the point and also if the man looked your eye you shake a man's hand and the man looking down you shake a man hand he's looking over here he's thinking something else tells you something about what's going on inside that man's head and his heart but you want to see something one of the things that i know is i'll never forget this it was so funny so funny uh a guy was surrounded by a bunch of other men shakes another man's hand and he said boy what's wrong with your hand your hand is soft what's going on you got so what's that what are you you moisturize your hands what's going on well i don't have one of those jobs where you know i work out you know with my hands or what have you yeah but man your hands are softer than my daughter's hands what's going on don't you at least work out do some push-ups or something your hand should feel like a man's hand but you know you want to keep a manicured and so forth whatever but am i going too far maybe maybe should we judge a man by his hands i don't know but something used to be said about a man's handshake but of course then again that was when men were men even if they were wrong because i'd rather be around a man who's wrong than a feminine man a feminine male who's right because at least his ideology his worldview is still better set than the one who is in touch with his feminine side you have heard people say we need to get in touch with our feminine side well no not here i cannot get in touch with my feminine side because i don't have one i don't have a feminine side and the sad part is it's creeping over into in our church let me just put this picture have you all heard of a man by the name of Matthew Stevenson i just want to show you this picture now he's a pastor now he's a he's a heretic but he's a pastor let me say this if your pastor if your preacher whoever if he looks like this you need to run if he looks like this you need to run you better off having a female pastor because now men want to dress to to please other males and women and it's like what are you what what is that you got on i could get if it's for Ireland and you had a kilt on and we're wondering if it's a skirt but no nowadays nowadays nowadays she can wear your clothes and you can wear hers we got a problem guys we got a huge problem the bible tells us paul tells us who i love the bible i mean i love i love paul he said in 1st Corinthians 1613 this will get us in trouble probably get us put off youtube he says be watchful stand firm in the faith act like men be strong uh-oh how how dare you say or tell someone to act like a man what does it mean to be a man well i'll tell you what it means to be a man first of all men are responsible yeah men don't make excuses when it's time for something to get done he's not going to sit around and look for someone to come and help no now i'd like to help but i'll get it done but i'll get this figured out we don't have that going on in in america now let me look at something someone said cutting out nope my stream is good so uh because a man is going to make sure that his live stream connection is good a man should act like a man some of you men act like proverbs 31 men you get your marching orders from that there should not be any distinction no blurred lines between a male and a female a man and a woman some of you men are crying because you can't find a date or find a woman because she can't find a man that's what it is it ain't that you can't find a woman that she can't find a man well she's she just these modern women are this and that or what have you okay so the issue isn't guys let me say this let me be clear and i'm not letting women off of bad behavior but what i'm saying is this and hear me again this might not be for you but the issue is today is not women that's not the issue today the issue is not women modern women or or or ultra feminist women no that is not the case no when women act a certain way it's because men had begun acting a certain way a strong woman well who who can who can date or marry a strong woman a stronger man that's all maybe she needs somebody tougher than you and so keep on moving skipping find somebody else uh which is why you see a lot of males start looking at younger women i gotta find somebody that's gonna respect me so here i am i'm 40 let me go find this 20 year old what's your problem man oh i'm sorry what's your problem male the issue is never going to be in our society women it's that's never going to be the problem however they act that is going to be a symptom but the root is always going to be the man always the reason why if you feel like our country has become weak is because the men who lead the country have become weak if you feel like the churches in america have become weak is because the men the elders in the in the church have become weak obviously the american households have become weak because the males that lead the house have become weak if they're there at all we're losing fathers at an alarming rate that's why the reason why you see homosexuality ramp it like it is because there are no males there oh by the way when males are in the household guess what tends to go down all the negative things crime drug abuse i said homosexuality the dropout rate those things go down increased income goes up being healthy a more a more healthier view the suicide rate is a lot lower amongst people who had a father than those who didn't that mean that if you didn't have one that that's that that's the end of it no but at least it used to be that we had men that we can look at when i was younger even though i was in the hood i could still see some men walking around like man i want to be like that guy i want to you know i want to be tough guy but we don't even put tough guys on tv nowadays but that that's wrong there's a there was something that uh whether you like it or not tony ebbons had in his book kingdom man and i'm kind of paraphrasing he says that when you get out of the bed when your feet hit the ground hit the floor the devil should say oh crap he's up again because he doesn't see you as one of his he sees you as an adversary does the devil see you men men men as an adversary when you walk when you get up out the bed and walk around does he know that he's got to do his best to get you to succumb or does any old thing cause you to fall we're seeing that more and more right we've got all these weak men and what do weak men do weak men abuse women that's what weak men do weak men abuse children weak men have no control of their emotions these are feminine men not gay feminine because the character traits women tend to be more emotional women tend to be more concerned about their appearance which is fine god speaks highly of that of a woman doing so a woman should think of her uh of her looks and so forth her emotions as a matter of fact oftentimes in a relationship her emotions help to kind of keep the man that she's with kind of in check he does something without kind of feeling it and she says honey uh you might have been a little too harsh okay all right because we're different our goal is to kind of compliment the one another but not be the same if we both soften this relationship then we ain't going nowhere and so weak men feminine man a feminine man also uh they can't keep their mouth closed there used to be something said about a man who is quiet but strong you knew not to mess with him i keep drawing back on uh time in prison because they're gonna find out who is even though these are some men have done some bad things they're gonna test you and see what you're about and what you can't do all this talking eventually that talk is gonna get you slapped eventually that talk is gonna get you killed but if they know because what what what what do mean what do men operate off of respect and some of these men are lashing out because they haven't gotten respect well the reason why most of you have not gotten respect is because you haven't done anything to get respect but i'm a man i'm a grown man well if you gotta tell somebody you a man or you're a grown man but if they haven't figured it out yet well then you might not be you might be mature in terms of your growth physically all the hair you're ever gonna grow was there um you got some bass in your voice but other than that other than that you might not be an actual man you got to tell somebody you're a man they couldn't they couldn't figure that out who who does that i you'll never hear me say i'm a grown man you never heard me say call another man a beta male again i the reason why i probably just i just figured out what it is but i don't have to i don't have to the issue is what we're looking for are uh the definition of what a man is and we we haven't seen that we haven't seen what a man is and we don't know what a godly man looks like because we thought someone told us told us wrong that a godly man is a soft man know a godly man is a strong man even how we picture Jesus how we portray Jesus right we we get this weak almost sysified version of Jesus that folks want to portray it's the picture of Jesus who walked around with bare feet and callous hands it's the picture of Jesus who turned over tables in the temple who picked up a whip and chased people out listen if Jesus looked like the pictures that we paint of him with the perfect hair and the perfect skin who could be a hand model and a hair model all wrapped up in one trust me people would not have been running out of the temple but laughing at that man you want to know my jesus you go to the other end of the book where he shows up with fire in his eyes and with a sword on his thigh that's my jesus that's my jesus too not some weak man didn't mean that he didn't have compassion being a strong man doesn't mean that you don't have compassion but you got this task you focus on the task and you carry it out and you do not you do not even think to make time for some excuse that's the example now i said earlier for some of the uh the single men this is for you single men not single ladies or married men or married this for the single men and all those who would be who those who are missing kevin samuels or those who are looking for the next one let me help you out here the ladies would tell you they're looking for a man with some confidence or they're looking for a strong man and guess what guys it's not hard for them to see one if they see one again the bar has been lowered so much that it wouldn't be that hard to stick out it won't i promise you i promise you you find you a good church home and you are a godly man a strong man i want these talking men not you know trying to be seen they'll see you now if you're doing what the rest of them are doing you're just blending with them if your hair is of the utmost importance um if the clothes you wear tight bright and fitting on you if that's what you'll fit in with them if if if you like to you know be more caring and sensitive i'm not saying that being caring is not an important thing but that's kind of how you lean you'll fit in with them if you like making excuses if you like complaining you'll fit in with them the rest of us will be over here acting like the example that jesus gave us the examples that we see what did you say about john did you go out and see some man dressed softly like the rest of you you got to make sure your pants fit right but by the way i have a hebrew israelite band on the channel but i have a skinny jeans band for the household you can't you can't come into house with skinny jeans you can't i'd rather come in with some more dirty jeans at least than some skinny jeans i want to see you know what you know what men men enjoy the company of men not not in a sexual fashion but just a strong man likes being around other strong men a strong man cannot abide being around some weak soft man can't can't do it can't can't do it can't do it now by the way you guys are wearing these little funny clothes y'all do realize these pictures stay around and so in 10 20 years when the cycle comes around and that's not in vogue we'll look at you and laugh but yeah i'm gonna look at you and laugh just like y'all usually look at us back in the in the in the 70s 80s when we got our gerry curls and laugh i'm gonna look at you these skinny i'd rather have a gerry curl and some skinny jeans that's that's just me you know i got no hair so and what's gonna happen let me tell you what's gonna happen guys i'll tell you what's gonna happen somebody's gonna disagree somebody's gonna be upset that i am not in tune with that way i'm not in tune with how what are they called the i don't i still don't know what the man is furious i really don't and so i can't say the way i think i might because i might butcher it the reason why i don't know what it means because i don't care what it means could care less what other men sitting around talking about how men are no no now if we're talking about how to be godly men i can get in on that conversation i can get in on that conversation but if you're talking about how to be these new modern men because y'all typically complain about modern women well i'm complaining about modern men women ain't the problem you the problem you sissy i'm sorry but if you are if you love this man uh who died not knowing god yeah i put you in that category i put you in a feminine soft category not me it's not my category god did that that's what you get melancholy soft soft sissy just like what was said at the very beginning and so if you want to send a comment to me that's fine you know i'm gonna do to it right nothing is it gonna move me no i am not that kind of person and so if you have your little soft comment coming back um keep it uh if you make if it makes you feel better to get it off your chest fine get it off your chest get it off your chest um but if you are that soft person who's got something to say to me i just want to repeat this what i said at the outset this is you i said you're soft so what what you gonna do what don't know man call me soft i hate that all right wait let me slow you down cause i'm a man i called you so what you taking in all this air for a club what you feeling cause i said so because i said so so what i said i spell it f o f cap of the t