 What do you say to cut it off in one of those messy situations when he has a girlfriend? Bread crumbing, but too busy for me, but doesn't want to cut it off either. But I need, but I feel I need to get out of it. You block them. That's what you do. You're not contingent on what he does, right? If you want to get out of the situation, get out of the situation. Block them. Stop responding. Stop talking to them. You're not interested. That's it. You don't have to deal with people bread crumbing you. You can block people. You can stop responding. You can just not talk to them. That's the best way. If he knows and you know and everybody knows that he's in a relationship and you're not down for that, just stop talking to him.