 All opinions come with energies attached to them, don't they? And opinions fade, but energies don't. Sometimes you can be upset by something that was said to you six months ago, but it's not been said to you since then. So the words is not what's upsetting you, it's the energy that they were said in and how that attached itself to some part of you, and the energy lingers way after the words have faded. So we can't underestimate, but we haven't estimated, the power of energy. You can use the right words, but with the wrong energy, resulting in the opposite outcome that you wanted your words to have.