 Stop explaining the failure please. Please. Stop explaining the failure. The problem is not explaining what is happening. The problem is seeking for the insight, the awareness that can take your family from that guagma. Young ladies who are not yet married, young men that are not yet married, please. There is a certain threshold you need to get to before you get married. I can guarantee you you are not there you will suffer. Listen, it's not a curse. It's a fact of life.