 What's going on you guys welcome to single-guy channel? My name is Lloyd bringing you practical and actionable dating advice that really works today We're gonna be talking about seven places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs now if you're watching my channel You're probably gonna love this topic because I know a lot of you don't like going on to bars and clubs And I can relate to this a lot because I used to not be very good at going out to bars and picking up girls So now that I'm really good at doing that even though I'm really good at doing that there I still like the places that I'm going to give you in this video So if you don't like going out to bars and clubs or even if you do like going out to bars and clubs I still think you're gonna get a lot out of this video So the first place that I'm gonna give you guys is number one Bookstores, okay? Bookstores are really good for meeting women because there's a lot of women in the bookstores a lot more women Read books than men do especially when it comes to fiction I think a lot of women tend to read a lot more fiction than men do especially when it comes that you know A book that you can flip through So a lot of times what I would do is I would you know walk into a bookstore And it was very very easy to start a conversation with a girl who was there reading a book or something like that Because all you have to ask is what are you reading? Very easy way to start the conversation And a lot of times what I would do is I would walk to the aisles of books that you know I tend to read in my spare time like stuff on personal development So if I would go to the personal development aisle and I would see a cute girl there I would just start talking to her about what kind of authors she's into or you know What kind of stuff she likes to listen to you know like are you into Tony Robbins too? Okay cool. Yeah me too I love Tony Robbins. Did you see the documentary on Netflix? You know very easy to start a conversation from that get a phone number and then maybe hang out later The second thing that I'm gonna give you is outside the bar of the club now if you don't like going into the bar of the club I know we can get very loud noise ease a lot of people drunk spilling drinks on you There's a lot of superficial stuff going on if you don't like being there You can always hang out outside of the club or a bar which is usually packed with people depending on the club that you go to And I like that area too because it doesn't have the same kind of snobbery or status that a lot of people in the club tend to look up to So it's a great place to meet people there and a kind of more organic more natural fashion And a lot of times you'll meet a lot of women that are you know looking for something else to go to some other place That's not this club and they don't know where to go And if you walk in you know the area really well Well, then you could probably lead them to somewhere good and it's a very easy way to start a conversation And then you know get a girl into an uber and go to some other location So I love going out to bars and clubs But I also will hang around outside of the bar and club as well too place number three is a volunteer events Volunteer events are really great another area that I think is mostly dominated by females Women tend to do a lot of caring like community service type activities that a lot of men Just you know aren't interested in so if you join a group a good group You're probably gonna be surrounded by a lot of cute girls and you're gonna be one of the only guys there This is a great position for you to be in because it's gonna raise your stock a lot more than it would in a bar or a club Where there are usually way more guys than girls, especially if you live in a place like San Francisco So in these areas what you're gonna be doing is you maybe might go out and you pick up trash or something like that Or help, you know organize, you know Some project that they have going on, you know Whatever it is find something that you like doing and find a group that you're gonna work well with So if you're doing it to meet women make sure that there are women there that you like to talk to You know not all volunteer groups are the same so a lot of guys get discouraged when I tell them to volunteer groups Because they go to one that's not very good So I would try and go to like three or four and one of those is gonna be phenomenal because like I said You know, these are mostly female dominated activities if they see you doing something that's helping other people You know, that's a great place to meet people and we're kind of it as humans We're very tribal and so we tend to think of people within you know Their status within the group or something like that So if you're one of the only guys you're gonna be looking really good in that area And also too if you like doing that sort of activity and you like helping people out in whatever it is You're doing and you get a position of authority. Oh my goodness That's probably one of the best positions that you can be in is being kind of leader of a group Especially a group that's helping people place number four is parks parks are a great place to meet meet women Especially on like a sunny day or something like that, you know in San Francisco They have a great one called Dolores Park where everybody pretty much gets there on like Friday Saturday Sunday or something like that during the day They kind of bring out a blanket get some wine everyone starts talking to each other It's a very very easy place to meet women But even on those days where there's not, you know, crazy events going on There's usually people just hanging out relaxing and it's very easy to start a conversation with somebody Especially if you have a cute looking dog because a lot of other people will have their dogs too You can talk about the dogs and it just becomes a very easy way to meet women through that So points bonus points if you have a dog, but even if you don't I've you know Talk to and gotten plenty of dates and numbers from parks in general place number five is improv classes I highly recommend improv classes to all of my students and clients because I believe that improv classes is not just a Great place to meet women, but it's also a great place to build the necessary skills that you are going to use in order to meet women I mean you have to think of stuff on the fly it teaches you how to be funny and be silly have humor have confidence in your own Ability animate your body a lot more. These are all very good skills for flirting for talking to women But also to improv classes do tend to have more women than men and a lot of these people tend to be young So if you find a good improv group, you're gonna be meeting a lot of cute girls And it's almost like like a lot of the games that you do are pretty much like ice-breakers that you would do at like some sort of Speed dating event or something like that. They're really fun. They're really simple It gets you to know a person organically by them expressing themselves in a silly manner You're gonna be meeting a lot of cute girls in pretty much the best manner possible Now if you are good at improv and you start, you know doing well and you be you're in like a show or something like that You where you perform in front of a bunch of other people that is another event where it's just like That's one of the most attractive places that you can be in which is like expressing yourself showing your personality or artistic quality In front of a large group of people very very attractive very good spot for a single guy place number six is co-ed sports Although co-ed sports probably has the worst ratio out of all the places that I'm giving you It's one of the places I've been the most successful at and the reason why was because I'm really really good at soccer And so when I joined a sports team like a co-ed team Although there was mostly like I'd say it was probably like 60 70% guys probably on 70% 70% guys I still did really well because I was seen as a leader on the team when I came in like people kind of looked up to me Because I would you know had a lot of skill I knew what I was doing and I'm gonna play the game very well And that put me in a really good position for that 30% of the women that were there And so even though there wasn't as many women as there were in these some of these other groups I ended up sleeping with a good portion of that 30% and some of their friends too because it was just a great Place for them to see me kind of in my best light which is like me Demonstrating some sort of skill doing something and also being seen as a leader within that group So if you're interested in sports, you're good at sports. I highly recommend that you join a co-ed team It's also a great place to meet friends in general You know like a lot of the friends that I have to this day that are some of my best friends I met through playing intramural soccer. Okay in the last thing place number seven is Basically salsa and dance classes like ballroom classes are very very good for meeting women I mean, that's why they exist in the first place is kind of a courtship ritual where the man would dance He would lead the woman and he would basically try and seducer that way through dance Dancing is kind of a lot like flirting in the modern era I mean it pretty much is floating but it's done physically with the way the movements are and the steps and everything So if you are have any sort of interest in dance classes I highly recommend that you pick it up because again unless you live in an area like I did in San Francisco Where it's like almost all dudes You're probably gonna be meeting a lot of women through there And you're gonna be meeting them away where they can touch you where they can feel your body and stuff like that And it's that's a great place to start from you know in terms of Being able to start flirting with somebody and connecting with them at a romantic level. I think it's really great It's also a great place to meet friends too Hopefully you've seen from this that a lot of the stuff that I picked are weekly group activities Group activities are really great for meeting women because it's like a common goal that you guys have together And so it's very easy for you to start a conversation because now you have something to talk about something that you're doing in common Not just salsa and dance classes are great. I think rock climbing is great I think maybe take a surfing class also to bartending classes like think of something any interest that you have and start doing group Activities group classes with that sort of thing if you're in these classes though Don't think that you're just gonna walk in and get a bunch of numbers and then leave at the first class like that's just That's not gonna happen. Okay, so or it might but it's very low probability You want to walk in and build some sort of skill like so find what you like doing about it or find something that you like doing And then continue with that and that's what's gonna give you the most amount of success Okay, don't think this is gonna happen Especially if it's like weekly group activities for you to start having success right away You have to play the long game in this and the long game done right Basically looks like you building up a lot of skill you meeting people in the group You have a good sense of rapport and because you're a well-established person within the group people are paying attention to you You're kind of seen as some sort of a leader within the group And then by the end when you have some sort of skill when you're really good, you know A new person comes into the class you can teach them the moves They feel very comfortable with you like this is a really good position for a single guy to be in it I guarantee you any girl that's walking into that class if you're a well-established person within the group You're gonna be seen as much much more attractive Then you would be in some sort of bar or club type scenario where they they can't really see any of those sides of you So that's what I would recommend for you guys if you thought of anything else that I didn't include in here There was some spots some Places that I didn't include on purpose like like yoga studios or you know things like that where although They're super female-dominated. I just don't think they're very good for for meeting women You're kind of seen as a creep unless you're really good at yoga then you know that stuff can work for you I guess But if you think of anything else that you think is good Put them in the comments section below if you're just in my weekly one-on-one mentorship program shoot me an email The single guy 2017 at gmail.com basically I teach guys exact exactly how to meet women Not just through these areas, but through other areas too We work on three aspects which is basically your lifestyle your mindset and the skills that you have to meet women So if you're working on those three things You're gonna be very successful when it comes to dating and meeting women And we focus on all of them very in depth in my process if you're interested in that shoot me an email Thanks for watching you guys if you made to the end consider subscribing and come out videos like this every single week Good luck out there y'all