 This is the only way to defeat the narcissist This is the only way to prevent them from destroying you The narcissist targeted you based on qualities and traits that they expected to serve and benefit them They studied you and discovered that you were an empathic person They discovered that you are going to be very given and supportive towards them. They also studied your vulnerabilities and weaknesses They found ways to provoke fear and insecurity within you They gradually tested your response to their abusive ways and discovered that you have a high tolerance to abuse You were willing to tolerate it This is what made you grade a source of supply This is what made them want to control you and keep you around They studied your past and discovered that you were a codependent They discovered that you had the need to seek validation and reassurance from other people They discovered that you had an insatiable desire to fix broken people and this is exactly what they were looking for when they targeted you It was easy for them to take advantage of It was easy for them to exploit and use for their own benefit or gain But when you started to wake up When you started to trust your own intuition and You began to realize what you were dealing with That is when the narcissist began to lose their advantage over you They could no longer manipulate you in the same way as they did before They could no longer reap the same benefits as they did before Because with this new awareness of what you were dealing with You were no longer susceptible to their manipulation You saw through the illusion that they were trying to portray But once you begin to trust your intuition Once you have figured out what you were dealing with That is when the narcissist flips the script And finds someone else who will be more susceptible to their manipulation And then they try to orchestrate the elements of the situation To portray you as the problem They leave you with no closure They leave you feeling as though the emotional or traumatic experience Has not been resolved And this then causes you to doubt your intuition all over again It causes you to wonder If maybe you got it wrong Maybe you shouldn't have questioned or confronted them Maybe you should have continued tolerating the abuse No You did the right thing You stayed true to yourself and your own intuition You did what you knew to be right And that is why the narcissist had to move on That is why they could not give you any closure Because they knew what they did was wrong They knew that you were beginning to wake up And that is why they had to move on and find someone else Who would be more susceptible to their manipulation Because they had lost their own game You defeated them And this is really the only way to defeat the narcissist Stay true to yourself Your own values and beliefs Your own intuition And you will defeat the narcissist If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching and inquiries you can email me at notforthercoaching at gmail.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon