 Okay, so there's a multi-billion dollar a year industry out there with that kind of starts it's mostly been some people out in Africa they're saying it was Nigeria for a while where they're scamming people all over the world they people think that they're in long distance relationships with these people sometimes they meet them on different social social media networks sometimes it's through online dating and they get into these long distance relationships where they're with this person who claims a lot of times that they're army soldiers or contractors or a whole bunch of other professions like doctors and stuff like that and so today I'm going to be talking about how to make sure that you do not get scammed in some kind of fake long distance online dating scam thing that's going on out there my name is Matthew coast and welcome to the commitment connection and make sure that you subscribe to our channel if you're new here to get more videos on how to attract a great guy into a great relationship okay so there's a bunch of stories out there where all of these African people are faking like their American soldiers and peacekeepers and oil workers and medical doctors and contractors of all kinds of different sorts and basically that the stories are vast and they change all the time they usually try to put themselves in very kind of romantic positions where they're you know in some African country working with kids or something or they're you know doing something somewhere where they're doing something that's really good and what ends up happening is that they build a relationship with somebody online it's both men and women it's not just women getting scammed or just men getting scammed it's both men and women and they'll develop a relationship with somebody online they'll take somebody's profile some person that's actually alive they'll steal their profile fake like they're that person and then connect with a whole bunch of people online and eventually end up developing these relationships with these people and then what ends up happening is they quickly end up falling in love for this person and they start doing things like asking them that there's usually a big story around it might be that they have a child who's sick and they're far away from them and they want to send them a birthday gift but they can't because they're on this oil rig or they want to come out and see you but they can't because they can't get through customs or something like that and so they need money to be sent over there's usually something that involves money whether it's gift cards or whether it's repaying some kind of like calling card or something like that it could be plane tickets it could be medicine it could be visas it could be presents or gifts to family members or children or something like that and this money that they are taking actually doesn't go to any of those kinds of things it actually goes to them and they there they've discovered that there's a huge multi-billion dollar industry going on around this where they have millions and millions of dollars of firewalls and different ways to prevent anyone from knowing where these people are located and they have servers all over the world that bounce back and forth and just confuse everything but let's not dwell on all of the story elements of what's going on here let's talk about how to make sure that you don't get involved in one of these scams make sure that you don't end up giving money away on one of these scams I know lots of people that have been scammed in this way men and women we have women in our community that have been scammed for tens of thousands of dollars and so I want to make sure that you don't get into one of these situations they usually kind of pray on people that are lonely sometimes they'll pray on people that are married that are lonely because there's not a lot going on in the marriage and there's just a lot of pain or women that haven't been with somebody in a long time they find these people and they just viciously attack them and end up stealing all their money and it's really really bad there's some Dr. Phil episodes out there that you can go and watch where they talk about people spending hundreds of thousands if not millions of dollars on these scams trying to get this person from whatever fake place that they're at to where they are and it just doesn't ever work out and they end up spending just tens of tens and hundreds of thousands sometimes millions of dollars on this so how do you make sure that you don't get involved in one of these scams first way that you do this is to video chat and you need to get on video chat with these people video chat is something that you can do anywhere in the world at this point and there are ways that they are figuring out how to fake video chat now so that might not end up being the best thing sometime here in the future if they keep kind of creating that technology about deep fakes and stuff like that but for right now you want to get on video chat with this person if they can't get on video chat it is a huge red flag because people like I said can get on video chat anywhere in the world and so if they're not willing to do that just stop talking to them because there's a 99% chance that they are scamming you number two is never pay for or send money anywhere for anything for anybody if you don't know them in person and you're not friends with them I actually think even in regular relationships you shouldn't give anybody money unless you don't care if you never get it back I talk to women all the time they're like oh I gave him all this money and I never got it back and it's like well you have to plan on not giving getting it back that's that's what you do when you let somebody borrow money is you only let somebody borrow money if you don't care that you never get it back and otherwise it'll probably end up destroying whatever friendship or relationship that you you have with somebody so never pay for anything if if a guy especially for men right like if if a guy that there's a bunch of stories out there I used to be in the military and I was overseas in the Middle East and I was also a contractor overseas in the Middle East for a while and it's kind of interesting to hear kind of these scams that are going on around the military and these contractors because what what a lot of them will say is they'll say things like oh I'm in the military and I'm on leave but I can't get to the destination that I'm trying to get to because I need money and I don't have my money with me for whatever reason or they'll say I'm a contractor and I'm in this place but I can't get back home because I have to buy my own plane ticket that is never the case okay as somebody that was in the military overseas and was a contractor overseas and even worked on oil rigs I know for a fact that that is never ever the case okay never ever it is never the case that anybody will just leave you out there by yourself and just you know let you kind of fend for yourself and try to get back home or whatever the military doesn't do that contractors don't do that nobody would work for these people if they did that and so that is not a true thing so don't ever get any time that kind of a thing happens don't fall for it any time that somebody like sometimes we'll get women that will come to our community and they're like well I gave them money but it's because you know he needed help and you're like well yeah but it's not really him and she's like yeah but I care you know I care about these people and so they have kind of this like righteous like I care and I'm showing that I care and I'm a good person thing going on and it kind of blinds some people to the fact that they're giving money to a scammer like this isn't going to somebody that you care about it's going to like some dude in Nigeria who is scamming you right now isn't the person they say they are and so you're not doing a good thing when you do that okay so you're doing something that's not good so don't so don't ever give anybody money and if he's trying to get to you don't give him money to get to you say well when you figure it out let me know right he's a man he needs to figure it out anyway right if he can't figure out his own financial problems there's going to be a lot of other problems that are going to happen if you were actually to get into a relationship with this person but you're not going to anyway because they're a scammer so number three is only invest in men that you have met and are investing in you and so if you haven't met him yet it's like what do you you know just don't don't spend a whole lot of time in that you're it's I get these women all the time that are coming to me and I understand right it's easy it's easy to do text message it's easy to talk over text all the time it's fun whatever if you guys haven't met though it's like it's it's difficult to even have a real relationship with somebody if you've never even met each other before and so my suggestion is that you don't end up getting involved with somebody that you can't meet that you're not going to meet that it's a long long time from meeting if you're like my suggestion for online dating is meet quickly because a lot of times people suck over text message and they're great in person and you don't know that because you're like oh well I want them to do all the right things over text message and he's not doing all the right things because he sucks over text message but he's great in person but you'll never ever know because you're so focused on is he saying there is he messaging me the right things when he messages me and so my suggestion is that you meet people in person and or you do video chat and talk to them on video so that you get to actually know who they are as a person and even then my suggestion is that if you're not going to be meeting somebody like it's I mean you got to really be in a pretty bad place to be like okay I'm going to invest everything in this guy that lives in another country and isn't isn't able to come and visit me and we're not going to see each other and we live so far away it's like you need to you you either need to start meeting other people and more people or you need to start figuring out why for you you feel the need to put all your eggs in a basket with some person that you can't even really meet that's so far away it's I mean that's legitimately a problem and there's something going on with you that you feel like you need to do that it could just be that it's been so long that you've been dating it could be that you have some kind of emotional trauma it could be that you're in a relationship currently where you're feeling like you're being taken advantage of or your needs aren't being met and so you need to address those issues that you actually have so that you're not putting yourself into a position where you're so desperate to get attention and love and and connection from somebody that you're doing it with this person that lives on the other side of the world and so that's my suggestion around that number four is use the phone to meet with people not becoming their pen pal and so there's complaints about this on both sides the men's dating industry and the women's dating industry both sides are like oh I connect I try to talk to this person I want to meet up with them and all they want to do is chat online all day long and I don't know you know I just I want to meet with them and so there's people on both sides that are doing it my suggestion for you is that you don't use your phone as a place to like hang out and chat and not meet up with somebody and instead use it as a means to meet them in person because that's where all the magic happens and that's where you get a real connection you find out who they really are and they can't hide behind their text messages where it might be a lot easier to kind of trick you or fool you into thinking that there's somebody that they actually aren't or the opposite way where they suck on text message and so you think they suck but in real life they're really awesome but you don't ever know because you never got to that point with them and number five is and this is going to be a shameless plug but become a part of our community because we have a ton of women that are in our community that have gone through a lot of this stuff and a lot of times with you when you're in the situation you don't know it's like you're in the situation you're like you're so in it you're like I don't know what's going on and I just feel all these different emotions and I want this person and I don't know if this person wants me and so you kind of want to kind of grasp at them sometimes and so if you're in our community what the cool thing about being in our community is is that you can kind of post questions to some of the women in our support forum and a lot of times they will look at it and be like this guy is a scammer you need to you know like red flag waving the red flag you know like make sure you know that there's a big problem here and you should kind of examine that and look at that or you can post questions to our coaches forum and one of the coaches will look at it and be like hey yeah this is definitely a big red flag and here's what you need to do next to make sure that you're getting yourself into a good situation and so that's it right so if if you are in a long distance relationship and you're like hey is this a scam is this real thing I'm not sure there's some people that maybe they're they're your friends maybe they're your family maybe they're people that you know that are telling you hey there's something weird going on here is it a scam you here's how to make sure that you don't get involved in one and you just do these things one you video chat two never pay for anything ever anytime going anywhere at ever ever three is only invest in men who you have met and are investing in you four is use the phone to meet with people not become their pen pal and five has joined our community and really six I think I would also like to say is it create create some abundance in your life because the coming from a position of power coming from a position of bond abundance really what that will do for you is it'll make it so that you're not grasping onto something that isn't real when you think it is because you're so kind of in the space of having not enough connection with somebody that you end up doing that and so what you want is more options and the way to do that is to have abundance and meet more men and actually have kind of a full life where you're getting connection from different sources you have abundance of connection you have abundance of options and if you want to know all about how to do that make sure you go and check out my program it's at the forever woman formula dot com and you can go check that out for free so if you have a question about anything let me know in the chat I wanted to make this one a little bit lighter and a little bit faster so that we could kind of talk about this kind of stuff if you've been scammed before you know and you want to in your you feel comfortable talking about it feel free to put that in the chat as well so other women can know kind of what situations are out there what you've experienced what signs you look for like what what do you look for when you are looking to see if somebody's a scammer or not online because I know there's a bunch of women in our community some of them like and like actually enjoy it they're like just I'm bored out of my mind and I enjoy messing with scammers and I know this guy's a scammer and so they'll like mess with the scammer it's just it's kind of funny and it's kind of weird at the same time but if you know anything about that just you know post it in the chat I'd love to hear about what is going on for you around this and what you've seen so hello everybody hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello hello if you have any other questions about anything too feel free to put it in chat I know in the last live stream I did we kind of ran out of time and my throat and voice was getting kind of sick and so I ended up just cutting it off a little bit early so if you have any questions that you wanted to ask yesterday but I didn't end up getting to it then make sure you ask here so Rene says nice to know that I need to be careful you do need to be careful out there really I mean you need to be smart and that's what all of this stuff that we do is about is it's about making you smarter and making it you more capable of seeing patterns of things that are good and that are bad and are things that you want and things that you don't want so that you are empowered to make the right decisions in your own life and get into a great situation that works for you and so that's that's what we're doing here Metmunk says I was scammed by an English soldier in Syria we talked via video Skype and he was the same man as on the photo he sent well that's interesting but he became very rude and angry because I wouldn't send him 5,000 pounds well that's interesting I haven't heard about that one yet so Metmunk says that this guy was actually the same guy and and that that was the other thing that I was talking about they've come up with this technology out there it's called deep fake technology and soon it's going to get better and better and better and basically what it does is you can kind of embody somebody somebody else and get on camera and pretend like you're somebody else and and even right now it looks pretty good and soon it's going to be dead on and people are going to be able to fake videos and pretend like there's somebody else and so it's one of those things it sounds like the situation Metmunk was in is that she actually had somebody who was the same person as in the photo but he was still a scammer which which sounds like a really bad idea to do if you're if you're a scammer is to use your own photos that's that just seems like a real bad real bad idea Bunny Bundy says thanks for this video trying to convince a goddess in our community this right now yeah yeah it happens you know a lot of women they get so invested right it's it's that thing that I talk about with the sunken cost theory for why you want a man to get invested in you and it's that some of these women get so invested in these scammers and they spent time some of these scammers they'll they'll scam you they'll talk to you for years they'll talk to you for a year or two years and then start asking you for money and stuff and and they've just been kind of stringing you along this whole time and pretending like they're in love with you and they'll send you love songs and just all these things and women will be so invested in it they're like convinced they're like no this is this relationship is real I'm really he's really in love and we're gonna meet each other one day and we're married but we're married over the internet and it's just like whoa you are like delusional about this you're not really married that's a fake marriage certificate like you know and it's true you know and and so it's one of those things you just don't want to kind of fall for that stuff it's it's it's a problem it's a legitimate problem and which is why you shouldn't be investing in a guy if you haven't met him yet Rosenblow says oh wow never encountered someone like that myself and I wouldn't fall for it but it's great that you warm warm people about it very good advice so far thanks Lauren says I chatted with a guy online he claims to work for the FBI so that very secretive okay yeah I mean you know so I worked with a pretty kind of a pretty secretive group when I was in the military and one of the things that was really interesting for me is that I would go out like after I was out of the military and I would talk to these people I'd run into these guys that would talk about how they're in some kind of secret group in the military or in the government or something like that and since I was in one of those groups it was like it was kind of funny talking to them because I always knew how they were lying and the first lie that you you know is that they'd never tell you right like what we would do is that we would tell people that we were in different professions and it was always a fun stupid profession that we would pretend that we were in and we wouldn't talk about our profession because you don't talk about it and so or you'd be really vague about it instead of talking about it so if you're like hey I'm in the FBI and it's really secret so I can't talk to you about it you know that person's probably lying to you there's a really high probability chance that they're lying to you if they say that because if he is in the FBI and it really is a big secret he wouldn't have told you about it from the very beginning he would have told you something else so going back to that one she says he sent me some gift from some credit card the store called me end up I denial all present so I dumped him blocked it I don't understand what you said okay Constance said I lost $2,000 to a scammer before I realized what was happening yet happens it sucks I mean it's a lot of money you know any money it's really a lot of money to get scammed with it just kind of sucks so Lauren says my girlfriend got $60,000 scammed from a guy met at airport claimed to do some business together took money and disappeared very sad how does someone do that scamming people IRA accounts I'm not familiar with that one in particular but you you always have to be you always have to be really really careful and and one of the things that you want to look for is if someone says something that's kind of too good to be true and I've kind of picked up on this over the years just because after a while you kind of get used to especially if you're kind of going around to a whole bunch of different events like I have I've been really into the personal development world and so I get people that are always trying to sell me things and I've had people fake like they wanted to be my friend and then like they sit me down for some coffee or something they start talking next thing you know you're in the middle of a sales presentation you're like how did I get into a sales presentation right now you know and so I have like major radar for people trying to sell me anything and so anytime anything comes up that hits my radar immediately like okay let's stop for a second like what are you selling me like let's talk about that be upfront about that immediately if it's anything that I'm not interested in or if it's anything at all like just stop it right I want I like to do read a lot of research on things and so whenever you have something where it sounds like it's way too good to be true you meet somebody and they're a stranger and they tell you about this secret thing that they know about that nobody else knows about you're going to make all this money from it if you just invest this money in it now but you got to do it right now because something's about to happen and it's going to change everything and you're going to make so much money from it but after if you don't do it right now you're going to lose any opportunity to make that money and any kind of thing like that you want to be totally like your your your radar for sales and BS and scam should be just pinging I've been scammed on a few different things before where I kind of got caught up in that unfortunately it was never more than like I think the most expensive scam I ever got involved in I ended up spending something like 80 dollars or something like that but I still ended up getting 40 dollars worth of stuff out of it so it wasn't that big of a it wasn't that bad it wasn't that bad it was only till afterwards when I figured it out and I was just like oh he's scammed to me but at least I still ended up getting those tickets and going to that thing and it was actually pretty good so you know what I mean I don't even know if it was that big of a deal anyway C Connelly says fake accounts I don't give my phone number to anyone until after the first date in person yeah I mean that's definitely one way that you can do it a lot of people talk about like phone numbers and stuff like that well one of the things that scammers will try to do is they'll try to get you off of a platform so let's say that you're on Tinder they all will try to get you off of Tinder immediately they'll try to get you on whatsapp or Viber or Telegram or they'll get your phone number or something like that and they'll try to get you like really quickly off of the platform and my suggestion is that you either stay on the platform or you use something that kind of gives you a lot of protection there's a way to get kind of fake phone numbers out there that you can use for dating or one of my suggestions is that you use Instagram the cool thing about Instagram is that you can find out a lot about that person just by looking at their Instagram account because it's almost like having a dating profile where they talk about their life and you can see all the kinds of things that are going on in their life if they're active on Instagram and so you know do something either stay on the platform use Instagram use a fake phone number any of that kind of stuff there's some people that hate Instagram I don't think that you should ever hate a tool for any reason it's not Instagram that turns people crazy it's people that turn crazy or get their craziness amplified by using tools like Instagram Shri Kandy says thank you for this topic this is what I need too many bump up with scammer on online dating until I can't differentiate which one account that real person too exhausted I think I understood that so Jennifer says hello I finally got you well hello Jennifer C Connelly says as soon as the fake account person starts calling me dear I know it's a fake account hello dear as if American men talk like that yeah it's that's kind of funny yeah there's a lot of things that people do in other countries where they they kind of especially if they don't know English they'll try to mimic English and what English speakers do and it's the first time I ever noticed that actually was when I was down in Peru and everybody down there called me friend they're like my friend my friend taxi my friend by this my friend and you're like nobody says my friend like that in America like it's kind of weird so anyway yeah that's a good point that is a good point C Connelly thanks for the contribution Miriam says it's always best to meet someone live chatting and talking on the phone for hours doesn't give you the face-to-face vibe that you need to see if you really are right for each other that's I 100% agree with that so Tukata says hi Matt missed three fourths of this any replay of course there will be a replay I do replays of everything Bunny Bundy says I have chatted with scammers but knew right off the bat they were scammers and chatted with him anyway see that's what I'm talking about Bunny Bundy over here is one of our scammer talker people who goes and talks to people who are scammers I don't know why it must be really entertaining for you I don't know why you don't want to talk to him but I don't know maybe it's educational or something Tukata says how do you keep things going on a long distance for the next five months well it depends on hopefully Tukata you want replay this video and make sure that you're not in a scam and that you're actually in a long distance relationship and once you've figured that out then I'd need to know more about your situation and why you think that you can't keep things going on a long distance for five months there's a lot of things that you need for to keep things going you know is this somebody that you've met or do you know this person what kind of a connection do you have with them what kind of a situation are they in or is it somebody that is long distance that you met online and you're trying to meet up with them like what is what's the situation there I need more information Jennifer says I haven't seen my long distance friend for a long time he's hot and cold a lot and keeps asking me not to give up on him says he wants to be part of my life but actions don't say it I'm 49 he's 49 I'm 64 confused oh yeah Lauren says ask to FaceTime do not give money to anyone make sure phone he give you not Google's phone okay Menchu says how to know that a man you're chatting with is a scammer yep just went over that just went over that just went over that he professes his love really quickly to you he claims to be from the US but is overseas for business or military services or because he's a doctor or something like that and then he claims to need money for some kind of emergency situation like hospital bills or travel or it's his kids birthday or something like that and then he plans to visit but he can't seem to get there because of some kind of emergency those are some of the big clues that you want to look at bunny bunny says he even sent me a photo of his passport as proof of identity well that's weird that's that should be a red flag in and of itself like he know he likes you so much that he's showing you his passport that's a red flag also passports are faked all the time you can go around anywhere in Europe and see that people are selling fake passports all over the place especially in Eastern European block countries Jillian said I went through a time where I accepted any Facebook friend request I received yeah that's a bad idea I did that too I did that in college when I got out of college I realized how bad of a problem that was especially during the especially during the 2016 election it was just like oh my god I went and got one of those mass unfriender things and just unfriended like I don't know I had I had something like a couple thousand friends on Facebook and I just mass unfriended all of them and I now I've got like I don't know like a hundred or something like that 200 maybe and that's that's the way to go is just know everybody that you're friend and friending on Facebook she says as such I interact with a lot of scammers Matt is right it's so fun to mess with them okay Sree Sree Kandy says how long we should invest in chat for online dating as little time as you feel comfortable so I mean it's it's one of those things like if you don't want to waste time you should get on chat you should get on video chat quickly get on the phone or get on video chat and just see what kind of a conversation you're gonna have with this person and if they can't seem to have a conversation with you if they don't know what to say if it's kind of weird if there's something strange going on with them if they try to get super sexual super quickly then you know immediately that this person probably isn't somebody that you actually want to meet and so that's the best way to kind of do it is just get on chat with them really quickly and so but you want you don't want to be wasting a lot of time on on chatting with people online if you talk to them a little bit and they seem like they're in alignment with who you are then meet up with them you know have some have some screening things that you do and just make sure that they aren't too crazy for you and then meet up or or jump on on video chat or the telephone Jennifer says we have been texting 15 months that's it's a long time Constance says I have been texting someone for a year without meeting I am putting a stop to it now yeah you should put a stop to it right now right now so Sissy says I'm so glad I never believed in long distance I immediately get rid of it plenty of scammers I immediately ask for video call and they disappear ha ha yep that's what I'm talking about Bunny Bundy says happens to men too my son got scammed out of $2,000 also thought he was helping a girl he was talking to get her visa to come to the US yeah there was this guy that I was talking to when I was a I was a contractor I was a private security contractor so I would go out to the Middle East and I met this guy out there and he was like talking to some woman online and everybody everybody around was like hey man you need to not give that girl any money because she is scamming you and he was like no he's not she's not scamming me next thing you know he was a couple thousand dollars down and this girl wasn't any closer to meeting him and it was just like oh god don't do it just don't do it just don't just don't do it just don't do it Jillian says you're so right uh see Connelly you're so right about obviously not being from the US someone claimed to be from Florida and I started a hilarious convo about all the moose there and how cold it is Lonnie says a very good-looking silver fox messaged me on Instagram he sucked at messaging and always called me dear yep all his photos looked professional and none were from a phone camera I just stopped replying to his messages yep Metmonk says as you say Matt if it sounds too good to be true it is I learned a lesson but didn't lose money well that's good as Elle says hey I just got in and want to ask if his seriously into the relationship we've known each other for months and been consistently talking online then met up and we did but no contact after a month we met so you want to know if he's seriously into the relationship but he hasn't contacted you for a month huh that sounds like he's not seriously into anything that yeah it sounds like he's not seriously into the relationship Bunny Bundy says text now text me so is are those apps to get phone numbers Roxanne says I see them a mile away well that's cool Roxanne says the like they like to ask to put credit on their phone well there you go there's another one Bunny Bundy says because it can be fun to play along with them and mess with them I laugh at their responses free entertainment to Tukata says laugh out loud you are so cute you actually pronounce my name correctly impressive well I am happy that I pronounced your name correctly Roxanne says they asked to ask they like to ask to put credit on their phone yeah okay so Julie's tree says I can't stand those overseas tricksters especially on Facebook overseas tricksters yeah I don't I can't stand them either Stuber overseas tricksters Bunny Bundy says I asked for proof of identity and that's what I got I already knew he was a scammer but was messing with him okay Tukata says where can I find your link to your long distance advice or info I don't have a link to long distance advice or info I am planning on putting together some stuff for that here pretty soon though Constance says don't give money for any reason I agree never give any money for any reason whatsoever okay so thank you everybody for being here I hope that we have all learned something from this experience don't give money to anybody ever unless you just don't want to ever see it come back to you and especially if you haven't met the person you're not in a relationship with the person never ever give money to anything don't give them gift cards don't buy them gift cards don't pay for more credit on their phone don't don't help them get a visa don't pay for their plane tickets don't bill them out of jail don't I don't know what other scenarios there there are you know send them money for for guns to get out of the terrorist situation I don't know what kind of situations these people are in Scorpio girl says is it's okay to tell a scammer that is a scammer tell a scammer that is a scammer so you're telling a scammer that they're a scammer why are you even talking to scammers here's my suggestion if you figure out somebody's a scammer you block them and then you never talk to them again that's my suggestion there's there's all these questions that I keep getting and they always kind of puzzle me and it's always something around like I met this guy and he's a narcissist how do I get into how do I make sure I'm in a good relationship with them like why are you trying to get into a relationship with a narcissist or I met this guy and he's a scammer online like how do I talk to him the right way stop talking to him you don't want to talk to him at all you want to block him and never talk to him again that is what you want to do there's no reason to talk to him there's no reason to continue a conversation with them there's no reason to engage in whatever nonsense that he's going to throw at you to try to prove that he's not a scammer which is what happens if you tell him he's a scammer he'll either get angry at you or he'll start providing proof to you that he's not a scammer or some other thing and you don't want to deal with that because you're just going to get sucked in even deeper and more invested in your time and energy and you should take that time and energy that you're wasting on a scammer and put it into something else put it into another person put it into a hobby put it into work put it into I don't know sleeping more or underwater basket weaving or playing twister or long walks on the beach or I don't know what kind of habits you have but you should take that energy that you're putting into talking to a scammer and put it into something more valuable and better for your life that energizes you and makes you happy and makes you more fulfilled and grateful you know put that energy into the program that I have the forever woman program you can go get it at the foreverwomanformula.com there's a link above or below here and just make sure that you're you're going through the program and learning all about how to attract and get into a great relationship with a great guy who loves you and sees you and cherishes you and stop spending all your time talking to scammers it doesn't make any sense to me I mean if you want to do that that's fine but my suggestion is that you don't my suggestion is that you empower yourself instead and create a situation in a life that really fulfills you and not just entertains you but but gives you substance makes you feel alive that that that makes you feel loved that makes you feel cherished and so that's my suggestion so thank you everybody for being here everything that we do on this channel and everything that I do and all my programs and all the things that I do is to help empower you and give you the tools that you need to create an amazing love life that makes you feel cherished and adored by an absolutely amazing man and an absolutely great relationship so thank you so much for being here and it kind of sucks to hear about all these scamming things that are going on out there and yeah I mean it sucks and and it's a part of life and don't you know if you do fall victim and pray to a scammer or a scamming situation don't be hard on yourself you know forgive yourself forgive the person and use that pain use the adversity use the situation that you had not to put yourself down and belittle yourself make yourself feel worse but to use it as a stepping stone in a building block to make yourself stronger and make yourself more powerful and to create more of what it is that you actually want in your life that is my suggestion so thank you so much for being here you are absolutely the best part of our community I love all of you so thank you for allowing me to be a part of your journey you are absolutely wonderful high fives to everybody if you're out there high fives don't get scammed make sure that you're protecting yourself put yourself in a great situation and make sure that you go and get my program the forever woman at the forever woman formula dot com thank you so much for being here and I will speak with you again soon bye everyone