 فشرف بل اشتغالي بالعلم ولا تبغي به ما عشت يا دا دا دا لا وياله من شراف عظيم الحمد لله رب العالمين له الحمد الحسن والثناء الجميل واشدوا الله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له يقول لحق وهو يهدي السبيل واشدوا أن سيدنا ونبينا محمد آخر الأنبياء في الدنيا عصرا وأجلهم يوم القيامة شأنا وذكراء صلى الله وملايكته وصالحنا من خلقه كما وحد الله وعرف به ودعى إليه أما بعده إن شاء الله وإتعالى سوف أتحدث عن السيطوات وماذا تقوم باستخدامه السلف كيف يقوم باستخدامه فتنى تقوم باستخدامها كيف يقوم باستخدامها علي ابن زيدن يقوم باستخدام سعيد ابن المهسيب رحمه الله سعيد ابن المهسيب رحمه الله سعيد ابن المهسيب كان one of the students of Abu Hurairah يقوم باستخدامه ما يأس الشيطان من شيء إلا أتاه من قيبا للنساء الشيطان لا يقوم باستخدامه لكنه يقوم باستخدامهم من خلق الأنبياء عندما الشيطان يعتقد أنه سيقوم باستخدامه ما يقوم باستخدامه هو أنه يأتي من خلق الأنبياء وقال لنا سعيد سعيد ساته سعيد ابن المهسيب ستقوم باستخدام الناس وهو ابنه 84 سنة سعيد ابن المهسيب كان 84 سنة في هذا الوقت وقد ذهبت إحدى عيني ومعنى one of his eyesight was gone وعنده 84 سنة ومن يقوم باستخدامه كان ذهبت باستخدامه وقد قمت باستخدام الناس ما يقوم باستخدامه من قيبا للنساء لا يوجد شيء أشياء أكثر من الناس إذا كنا نحن نتكلم عن هذا الجنون الشيطان سيقوم باستخدامه من every angle possible وفي every means there is في every way that he can come to you إذا لا يجب أن يتكلم سيقوم باستخدامه من قيبا للنساء لأن هذا one angle that the majority of the people fall وهي في عام 84 وقوم باستخدامه هو في عام 84 وقوم باستخدامه من one of his eyesight وإذا كان يقوم باستخدامه لا يوجد شيء أشياء أكثر من الناس وذلك الشيطان من سعيد ابن المهسيب by the way it's narrated in the book صفة صفوة وإذا كان سعيد ابن المهسيب رحمه الله سن ما باعته الله نبيا Allah never sent a prophet إلا لم يئس إبليس أن يهلكوا بالنساء الله سبحانه وتعالى he never sent a prophet except that the devil did not give up in destroying that people by the women there was no nation before us that came before this prophet of ours محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم that the devil gave up on them except that he came to them from the angle of the women so it's not something exclusive to us only it was also the previous nations now I'm going to tell you a long story Insha'Allah pay attention to it عبد الرحمن ابن زيد ابن أسلم عبد الرحمن ابن زيد ابن أسلم he said وسليمان ابن يسار عطا ابن يسار وسليمان ابن يسار are two brothers they are what? they are two brothers رحمهم الله may Allah have mercy upon both of them they are two brothers and they are two noble individuals they both went حجين من المدينة they went for Hajj but they departed from Medina they left from Medina ومعهما أصحاب اللهم and they had followers with them they had followers with them until they came to a place called Al-Abwa they came to a place called what? Al-Abwa they stayed there سليمان what he did was he told his brother عطا we need to go to do some of our business so عطا was left in the house alone عطا said I'm going to pray while you guys do what you want to do deal with your businesses وبقي عطا ابن يسار قائما في المنزل يصلي he stayed in the room in the house or in the place and he watched Allah تبارك واتعاله while he was praying فدخلت عليه إمرأة من الأعراب جميلة a woman from the woman a bedouin woman beautiful extremely beautiful she entered onto him فلما رأى عطا ونعطا so this woman ذنى أن لها حاجة and he thought that she had a need when the woman came she called him and he thought that she has something that she wants to talk to him about something important فأوجز في صلاة he shortened his prayer quickly he finished his prayer as quick as he could and then he said to her ألك حاجة do you have any needs sister do you have any do you have anything do you want anything قالت نعم she said yes I do عطا then said to her ما هي what is it that you need from me she said قوم stand up فأصد منى كمي زينة with me stand up and commit zina with me she said I'm a woman who's full of desires وليس لي بعلون I have no man to fulfill my desires عطا ابن يسار انساتوها إليك عن get away from me go away from me as far as you can do not burn me and yourself in the hellfire don't make us get burnt in the hellfire لا تحرقني ونفسك بالنار don't burn me and yourself in the hellfire وناظر إلى امراء جميلة and he looked at her and he saw a beautiful woman and she tried her best to get his attention and tried to get him to commit zina with her ويأبان he was refusing and saying no and as he was saying no to her فجعل يبكي عطا ابن أبي ربا عطا ابن يسار عطا ابن يسار started to cry and said to her ويحك إليك عن me leave me alone and tears were pouring from his eyes and as time went on اشتد بكاءه he's crying and his tears were becoming more when the woman looked at him and she saw the tears flowing from his eyes and she saw how emotional he was بكة المرأة لبكائه she started to cry because of his crying فجعل يبكي he started to cry and she was crying with him in front of him والمرأة بين يديه تبكي and she's crying with him فبين ما هو كذلك as the situation was like that him crying and her crying إذ جاء سليمان ابن يسار سليمان the brother came back with the people that were with him he came back and when he came back نظر إليه عطا he looked at his brother عطا يبكي crying والمرأة بين يديه تبكي في إلاحية البيتي and the woman is crying on the other side of the room كلما أتأ يبكي لبكائه لا يدري ما أبكهما he doesn't know what's making them both crying he doesn't know why they're both crying وجعل أصحابهما يأتون رجلا رجلا and the people that were with you السليمان ابن يسار man after man was coming groups were coming in and they were coming in كلما أتأ رجل every time a person comes in and they see عطا ابن يسار crying and they saw سليمان the brother ابن يسار crying and they see the woman crying they would cry with him the sound and the noise that were coming from the people became large and became loud وعالة صوت فلما أرات العربية تدالك when the bedouin beautiful woman she saw this she stood up and she left فقام القوم when the people stood up سليمان ابن يسار never asked his brother what was it what was the story and what took place that day he never asked him anything he did that because out of respect and love that he had for his brother because his brother was كان أسان منه was older than him in age then they came to both of them they came to Egypt after doing their Hajj after they did their Hajj they went to Egypt together they both stayed there as long as Allah they stayed there they stayed there they stayed there they stayed there they both stayed there as long as Allah willed for them to stay بينما عطا ذا تليلة نائم one night عطا ابن يسار was sleeping it stayed وهو يبكي and he woke up while crying فقال سليمان سليمان سويت his brother ما يبكي يا أخي my brother عطا was making you cry why are you crying for فشتد بكائه he's crying became even more he said to him ما يبكي he's making you cry he said رؤية رأيتها الليلة I saw a dream tonight قالوا ما هي سليمان said what is it a dream that you saw يستم لا تقبر بها أحد مادم تحين don't tell anyone whilst you're alive he said رأيته يوسف النبي I saw the prophet of Allah يوسف عليه السلام if you know me in my dream فجئت أنظروا إليه I looked at يوسف عليه السلام فجئت أنظروا إليه I looked at يوسف في من ينظروا إليه to see what he's looking at فلما رأيته حسنه when I saw the beauty of the prophet of Allah يوسف بكائه I cried فنظر إليه في الناس يوسف عليه السلام looked at me from the gathering of the people and he said to me ما يبكي كأيها الرجل يوسف said to Ata in the dream what is it that's making you cry oh man فقال فقل to his Ata I said to the prophet الله يوسف in return بيأبي أنت و أمي يا نبي الله I free my mother and my father for you or prophet of Allah he said ذكرتك I remembered you ومرأة العزيز and I remembered the woman that called you for the zina ومبتوليت بها من أمرها and the suffering and the testing that you went through regarding her affairs وما ألقيت من السجن and the test that you went through in the prison I remembered it وفرقة يعقوب and how you were taken away from your father فبكي تومي ذلك I cried because of that وجعلت أتعجب منه and I was amazed with what you did or prophet of Allah and then Yusuf looked at him and he said to him فهل تعجبت why was it you more fascinated with من صاحب المرأة the man who the woman bedouin woman called him in Abwa why was it you more fascinated with him فعرفت اللدي أرادة and he recognized what she wanted from him she recognized he recognized what she wanted from him he recognized what she wanted from him فبكي تأنيو قراء and he cried and you cried وستقدت باكين and you woke up crying سليمان ذين said oh my brother oh my brother وما كان من حال تلك المراء what was the story of that woman because سليمان doesn't know he said to him the story he told him the story فقصع عليه أعطاء القصة he told him the story فلما أقبر بها سليمان أحد فما أقبر بها سليمان أحد حتى مات عطاء سليمان did not tell the story to anyone سليمان did not tell the story to anyone until عطاء died فحدث بها إبعده إبراأة من أهله and after عطاء died سليمان told the story to a woman of his family and then the story became very famous after سليمان إبنو يسار died and this story ابنو جوزي brought it in his kitab صفة تصفو the second volume paid 444 brothers and sisters the story has so many benefits that are in it it shows you that these people and their situation when it came to the desires pertaining to women and how they dealt with it and how they feared Allah سبحانه وتعالى because of that Allah سبحانه وتعالى he lifted their status و لذلك there is another scholar by the name of عطاء ابن أبي رباح is another scholar he said لوئت منتو على بيت مالن لكنت أمينا عطاء ابن أبي رباح said if I was ever entrusted with a with the Muslim treasure where the money of the Muslims are all at if I was entrusted with it لكنت أمينا and I would be very trustworthy I would not take a penny from it و لا أمنوا و لا آمنوا نفسي و لا آمنوا نفسي على مراءة شوها but he said I don't trust myself with an ugly woman but I don't trust myself with an ugly woman and Imam with ذهب he straight away صدقا رحمه الله told the truth and Imam with ذهب he said عطاء told the truth because the hadith is very general because the Prophet said ألا لا يخلو أن دى رجل بمراءة فإن الثالث هم الشيطان a man should not be alone with a woman except that the الشيطان is the third أبي حكيم أبي حكيم he said خرج حسان ابن أبي سنان رحمه الله يوم العيد حسان ابن أبي سنان one day he left on the day of عيد okay he left on the day of عيد فلما رجع أقالت له إمراءة when he came back his wife said to him who is this حسان ابنه سنان رحمه الله بمثب upon him on a day of عيد on a day of عيد he went out when he came back home his wife said to him come إمراءة حسنة how many beautiful women قد رأيت اليوم have you seen today because it is عيد women are going to definitely dress up and what not and there are those who are نقل أبي الله so how many beautiful women and she is a wife jealousy creeps in so she said to him how many beautiful women have you seen and he went silent فلما أكثر when she became excessive in her questioning he looked at her ما نظرت إلا إلا في إبهامي my wife I have not looked at except my finger مذو خرجت من عندك when I left you حتى رجعت إليك until I came back to you the minute I left I did not look at except my finger that's all I pondered on until I left and I came back الحسن إبنو صالح الرحمه الله he said الحسن إبنو صالح الرحمه الله he said ما سمعته I never heard I never heard sorry الحسن إبنو صالح الرحمه الله he said I heard that shaytan said to a woman to the women but he said to a woman that shaytan said to a woman أنت نصف جندي you are half my army وانت سهمي you are my arrow اللذي أرميه به in which I throw a people فلا أخت I never get it I don't miss it وانت موضع صري and you are my positioning of hidden you are my hidden agenda وانت رسولي you are my messenger في حاجتي in all of my affairs you are the one who fulfills my desires and my matters for me that I want to fulfill سفيان الثوري رحمه الله he said ما باعت الله عز وجل النبي الله he never brought a prophet and he never sent a prophet إلا وقد تخوف عليه الفترة من النسة except Allah put fear in that prophet regarding the affairs of the women the trials and the tribulations that complicated women إن شاء الله today's benefit revolves around that I will conclude it إن شاء الله سبحانك الله وبحمدك أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله أستغفرك واتوبوا إليه