 Look, if you want a man to chase you, invest in you, and pursue you for the type of relationship that you want to have. If you want him to feel like you're the love of his life, the one woman that he wants to be with, and you want him to be afraid of losing you. Here are five weird qualities that will make a man chase you. The first one is uncertainty. What do the best sports games have in common? The best sports games to watch are the ones where the teams are so evenly matched that you don't know who is going to win. You're on the edge of your seat, waiting to find out what's going to happen next. Your team could win, they could lose, you don't really know. That's uncertainty. Knowing what is going to happen is boring. Uncertainty is what creates excitement in life. It's what creates excitement on a date or in a relationship. So how does uncertainty apply to men? You want him to feel uncertain about your feelings for him. He should know that you're interested, but not totally sold on him yet. Remember, the magic is in the middle here. If he feels like he's already got you, he won't feel any need to chase you. On the other hand, if you don't show any interest at all, he'll probably move on because he doesn't think that you actually like him. The right way to do this is to show interest in him, but still leave doubt about whether you're really convinced whether he's the right guy for you or not. If you do this right, he'll be begging to spend more time with you. Number two, a strong identity. Guys chase women who have strong identities. So what does this even mean? It means that if you have nothing going on in your life, you're just floating around, waiting for life to happen to you. You're going to come off as needy and desperate and that's going to make him feel like he doesn't need to do anything in order to get you. Men value things that they work for and earn. They don't value things that are easy to get. If you have a strong identity, a strong sense of self, it means that you have your own life and you're not going to drop everything just to be with a guy. He has to prove to you that he's worth pulling you away from the amazing life that you have in order for you to even entertain the possibility of getting into a relationship with them. Number three, boundaries. Some women think that men want a woman that they can walk all over, but nothing could be further from the truth. Men are going to try and push to see how far you'll let them go and what they can get away with. But this is actually a subconscious test. If you let him get away with bad behavior, he'll lose respect for you. Instead, learn to say no to behavior that isn't what you want. You should communicate that you won't tolerate bad behavior and that you only want to be with a man if he treats you like the high value woman you are because that is incredibly attractive to men. If you do this the right way, he'll not only chase you, but he'll feel lucky that he gets to be with you. Number four, high standards. This is the flip side of boundaries. So if you communicate that you have standards, you give men a chance to chase after something. If you want a man to chase you, the best thing that you can do is give him a target to go to. The way that you do that is by communicating that you have standards. I have women that come to me all the time because they're frustrated with men who aren't treating them the way that they want to be treated. And when I ask about it, I almost always find that these women who say this think that a guy should just know what he should be doing. If you don't know this, most men have no idea what they should be doing. Most men were either raised without a father figure or without a strong, well-adjusted male role model growing up. And they've also been in relationships where who knows what they were doing or what the woman that they were with expected or didn't expect from them. So if you want him to step up and treat you amazingly well and pursue you for the type of relationship that you want, you need to communicate your standards to him. If you do this in a way that he understands, he'll use what you say as a target to chase after. Number five, believing that you deserve it. I would guess that around 80% of the women who come to me allow themselves to get into situations that they don't want to be in with men. A woman who believes that she deserves a great relationship doesn't allow herself to get into situations like this. If you don't really believe that you deserve a great man and a great relationship, you'll allow yourself to get into abusive situations. You'll let men in who just want to hook up and nothing more. And you'll close yourself off so that men can't ever get to know the real you. If you want to attract and keep a great quality man who loves and cherishes you, you must believe that you deserve it. And if you want to know exactly what to do in order to implement all of these things and have a man chasing you, investing in you, and pursuing you for the type of relationship that you want to have. If you want him to fall in love and feel like you're the one and only woman that he wants to be with and feel like he's scared of losing you and he doesn't want to let you go, make sure that you get a free copy of my program, The Forever Woman. The Forever Woman is my best selling program that has helped women attract men who love them, see them, and cherish them into committed, lasting relationships, and even marriage, if that's something that you're looking for. It's helped single women get married to the men of their dreams. It's helped women get over breakups, get their ex back, and it's even helped women turn around marriages that were falling apart. 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