 As a big shot. So Pamela Benson gets a lot of credit. Okay. What was your first question because I forgotten it? Yeah, I mean, I hate the term privilege as the way the weight is used because Because what is what is privilege mean privilege means some special grants of favor that you have received because of You know, it really comes from from the days of aristocracy where the aristocrats had some You know advantage before the law they had some advantages granted to them by government by by and and so You were not equal before the law. You were not equal in rights. You were not equal in liberty You were granted a privilege. You had privileges that other people did not have but it was granted to you and The way the way it's used today is any advantage that you have Whether it's because you were born out of a wealthy family or whether it because because you were born White which supposedly is a is an advantage Whether you were whether you were born, I guess heterosexual Or whether you are heterosexual somehow all of those things give you an advantage that is recognized in some formal way as a privilege by the authorities and and and that is just nuts and it's it's it's offensive and it's wrong and it's It's it just it makes it impossible to have a discussion because they use it as an immediate You're irrelevant because you're privileged. So you can't even listen to you That you have no you have no voice. You have no say You have no worth and and you certainly have earned nothing because whatever you have is a consequence of this privilege Nothing is nothing is actually Nothing is actually yours and if you if you're white and heterosexual and male then forget about it You might as well go hide in a corner put put, you know tape on your mouth because you can't say anything and And and and feel guilty for the rest of your life. So You know, it's it's just It's it's just a horrible horrible way to treat people and and to and to and to perceive Reality and this is the left has really spent a lot of time and a lot of effort in in establishing this idea of of Privilege in order to shut people down. It's they use it now as Much if not more than calling you a racist, right? Because they realize racist is a little tricky Yeah, you have to show some evidence and also people immediately go back and we're not racist But privilege wait a minute. I am white. I am male and I am whole heterosexual So therefore automatically I can't say anything so I I'm shut down and so many people have internalized that have accepted it have Induced it and internalized it and now walk around. Oh, I'm you know I need to feel guilty because I had a privileged life now now. There's certain sense in which one should feel Good about having a good life I mean, I certainly am happy that I did not was not raised by abusive parents I'm happy that it was born in the 20th century You know after World War two, so I was not killed in in in in the Holocaust But but that's just this you know, but that's meaningless, right because it's metaphysical I just happen to be born that way but I Certainly don't feel guilty for the fact that certain positive things happen to me certain positive things happen to me By accident of birth good I mean great and and if somebody if somebody is raised by parents that are abusive I'm saddened by that that they you know But it doesn't mean that I am guilty because they are suffering This suffering is not a claim against me. This suffering is not my moral condemnation You know, you should feel sorry for people who have been unlucky and or bad stuff has happened to them but you should also Say to them, you know rise up above it lots of people have had screwy childhoods and done great so at the end of the day, you're responsible for your own life and And and you know go out there and make the most of that life Given whatever context you have and yeah, some people have screwy context I'm not I'm not denying that Not pretending the war born equal that that or the luck doesn't play a role in life But some people take advantage of luck and some people don't some people mess it up And I don't deny the fact that some people have better genes than other that some people have better Uprings than other but then the question is what do you do about it? I'm just not gonna feel guilty because somebody else is Suffering and I don't think anybody should feel guilty because somebody else is suffering unless you are Responsible for that suffering and then you should feel guilty, you know, I'm assuming it's not just All right, Skyler great. Thanks for calling. Thank you really appreciate it again. Thanks