 Every time you upgrade you to a different version of you, you're going to have drama. Because the people that prefer the old version of you are going to keep talking to you about stuff you have no interest in anymore. They're going to keep inviting you to things that you don't want to go to anymore, because they're still packed upon the old version of you. Oh, what's wrong with you? You used to love this, and no awareness that you've changed and moved on, and you don't want to be part of that WhatsApp channel anymore. You don't want those conversations anymore. You don't want those energies anymore, because you have had the courage to step away from it. And this is particularly difficult if you've been a people pleaser all your life. Some of us were raised to be people pleasers from childhood. And now in our adult life, we still find it difficult to say no, create a boundary about what we will and won't do, and do and don't enjoy. We don't do any of that. So we still feel taken advantage of and unseen and blended in, because we're just the person that's supposed to say, yes, I'll be there, fine, sure. And that starts with your own families, by the way.