 Just checked in To this four-star resort and I'm right on the lake As many of you know You do like lakes So on to the video in the end The narcissist does this Now what they do in the end? It may surprise you It may be something that you do not expect because what happened Towards the end Well, they devalued and degraded you They called you all of these things They said you're Nothing You're bad. You're wrong They pointed out everything that is wrong with you They said they want nothing to do with you anymore. They cut you off They discarded you so you might assume that Now they will forget about you and Move on with their lives If you're all of these things that they said if you're no good But actually they do the opposite Because in the end they end up watching you They become an observer to your life. So you may find that They end up stalking you they might follow you follow you around Show up at your house or your work They may stalk you on social media They'll be watching all of your posts and you might find this very strange because You might think If you're so interested in me and what I'm doing Then why did you have to go? What was all that about? Because they were acting as though You're bad something is wrong with you So why are they still watching you? It's almost like Once you've left or once they've left you They suddenly become obsessed with you They have to know what you're doing They have to know who you're with Because they feel like they're missing out and not only that The last thing a narcissist wants is to live with a regret They don't want any regrets after they have left you so they need to keep checking in on you To confirm to themselves that they made the right decision They need to keep checking in on you to make sure You're not doing anything special You haven't moved on you're not with someone else Because otherwise they might feel like they made the wrong decision They might start to feel regret So that is why they end up watching you and it's also Think of it like this The criminal always returns to the scene of a crime Because they want to see the effects they want to see The aftermath of the damage that they have caused And it's the same thing with the narcissist They end up watching you because they want to see the effects of what they've done to you They know exactly What they have done to you They know that they have hurt you they've confused you they know all of that So they come back And they start watching you because they want to see the effects of what they've done They want to see if you're still in pain if you're still suffering If you're still thinking about them if you're still longing and yearning for them Because they're hoping that you are But what you got to do when they come back And they want to watch what you're doing you got to make sure that you give them something that will spoil their stomachs Give them something that will make them sick and to do that You've just got to live your best life You've just got to do things that you are passionate about you've got to get better and greater Go on a trip go on vacation Go to the gym Hang out with your friends Or if you've met someone new let them see that Because they will come back and start watching you This is the thing with Narciss Because while they were with you there was always a problem. They couldn't attach to you They just couldn't get along with you They couldn't build a meaningful relationship with you You did everything you could to build that with them But they couldn't reciprocate they couldn't do that with you So they couldn't attach to you they wanted you to attach to them But they didn't want to attach to you because they wanted to have power over you They wanted to have control So that they could feel special and important they could feel attractive and desirable Because it left you chasing after them for validation Which they Withheld from you they kept you on this endless hamster wheel trying to please them So they couldn't or wouldn't attach to you But also They have an issue with detachment So they cannot detach from you properly as well Which is why when you go or they leave you they're still holding on to you They haven't moved on they're still watching what you're doing and they are also Very envious of you They're envious of who you are as a person the envious of what you're doing That's why they were so competitive They was invalidated you They never congratulated you on your achievements or on anything that you did well or Anything that you did for them they never even said thanks they never appreciated anything Because they are envious of you and They're in direct competition with you as well and many of you don't realize this until later on And that is another reason why they ended up watching you because they want to compare What they're doing in their lives to what you're doing and They're hoping that What they're doing is better than what you're doing Because otherwise it's that regret again They're gonna regret leaving you or letting you go and that's really what it comes down to When they end up watching you it's really just that regrets It plays in their mind. It becomes an obsession With a question in themselves. They're thinking did I make the right decision? and of course If they hop on your social media and they see you're not doing nothing special then They're gonna feel like they made the right decision They're gonna think that they did the right thing by getting rid of you or by letting you go but if they Watch you and they see That you're moving on You're happier your life is getting better without them and they're still stuck in the same state They're not progressing or advancing. They're not doing anything different than what they were doing with you Then They feel like they've lost the winning lottery ticket They feel like they had the winning lottery ticket in their hands and they just threw it in the trash especially if they see you as someone new because then it's like Someone came along and picked that winning lottery ticket out of the trash and it belonged to them But how someone else has it? Like they missed out on the jackpot and that's how you want to make them feel after everything they did to you If you're not already you need to become that winning lottery ticket You need to be that jackpot that they missed out on And I know it's hard for a lot of you After the the condition that they left you in all of the stuff you went through I mean, I'm sure for a lot of you the last thing You can even think about is just moving on with your life and things getting better. I Understand that It will take time, but you will get there. We are all here to support you and to encourage you to become the best version of yourself because we all believe in each other here we all Must believe in ourselves as well Because that's all it really is when it comes to moving on and healing from the abuse It all starts with your belief your beliefs Create your reality Whatever you believe That will become your reality That will become the truth So believe that you can move on Believe that things can get better And things will get better for you. So yeah, that's it In the end that's what the narcissist does they end up watching to you and you may be quite surprised by that because They told you they don't want you. They told you you're bad. You're wrong. You're crazy all of this stuff so You're assuming they want nothing to do with you You're assuming they don't care about you anymore And they're just gonna leave you alone. You're not gonna care for them again But then they show up at your house or your work They stalk anyone social media And it leaves you very confused it might even Lead you to think that maybe they do want you after all But that is the wrong way to think because narcissists do not want anyone The only thing they care about is themselves They do not care about you. It's an illusion of significance. They make you believe That you're special to them but nothing and no one is special to them. I Can tell you that right now. No one is The only thing they care about is themselves So don't think When you see them, they're stalking you. They're watching you Don't think that they miss you. They love you. They care about you. No, they don't Because listen If they really loved you and cared about you They would have done the right thing while they had the chance They wouldn't have left you Or they wouldn't have let you slip away If someone really loves and cares about you, they're not gonna do that people who love you They don't want to hurt you that is the last thing that they want to do love is not pain If you consistently feel pain around someone That is not love. Of course if you're hurt and Someone loves and cares about you They're gonna notice And they're gonna want to make you happy they're gonna want to make things better for you But you don't get that with narcissists If they know that something is hurting you Guess what they're gonna do it even more As soon as they know That something is causing you pain they're gonna do that again and again And they're not gonna care about how it's affecting you Because like I said, they don't care about anyone but themselves They really don't but they will continue to watch you to observe your life and Yeah, I mean you just you can't stop them from doing that really I mean If they want to stalk you they're gonna do it and Yeah, just let them watch that's what they were gonna do let them watch you live your life Because they couldn't participate in it. They couldn't be a part of it like a normal person So all they can do is watch observe Monitor you it's really a sad way to live, but That's all they can do That's all they can do So let the narcissists watch and you go out and you live your life you live your best life and you enjoy every minute of it Because life is meant to be lived as I've said before Life is meant to be enjoyed Not endured So enjoy every minute of it. Okay, we have 98 Live viewers in you right now Please give this video a thumbs up down below if you enjoyed it and As always I will talk to you in another video very soon. You all have a great day