 Every year we take a vacation to an exotic place, which we have a travel ritual, holiday ritual, family get-together ritual. You know, you can see it's all rituals of form, repetition of things that we do to keep our relationship spiced up. Patterns. It's always patterns. And this what we're talking about is holding on to a purpose and really wanting to communicate. You know, really wanting to say, well, the form isn't so important. Darling, I may not be spending you with a Valentine's Day card this year, but let's sit down and have a heart-to-heart talk for three hours or something. That would be kind of an expression or a symbol of moving towards wanting to really connect with the mind and and that could even be in terms of Valentine's Day card. A lot of people do try to really put a lot of thought in selecting something that, you know, really says something meaningful. Well, any of that, you know, whether it's sending a Valentine card or whether it's cutting fresh flowers for the table, it's all a matter of what's the intention from which I'm doing it. If it's a symbol of my caring and my, you know, extending, then that's one thing, you know, and if it's a way to get something, or done out of obligation or guilt or thinking that it's causative in some way, that it will add to in some way to maybe the relationship or, yeah, then that's that's something else. And it's in the intention, and I would say that again, you're moving to a place of seeing that the really the only thing you can share and the only thing you want to share is ideas. In other words, Jesus was not a big philanthropist. He did not go around when the beggars were begging and just go here are some gold for you and, you know, this and that. I mean, he he shared his ideas. He shared about his father in heaven. He shared about the kingdom of heaven and how it comes to the kingdom of heaven. He wasn't big on gifts, you know, there's not a lot in the Bible about him. They talked about the three wise men bringing gold and her and frankincense and this and that, but there's not a lot of mention of Jesus going around like Santa Claus. Santa Claus is like the ego symbol that it's covered over Christmas with because what better symbol of the reversal of Jesus's idea of just sharing these beautiful ideas of going around and turning into a materialistic holiday, you know, that's Santa Claus in many respects. If you really look at it is it could be a symbol of the ego of trying to cover over this unconditional love that Jesus represents with forms and rituals. So it's really important as you move along more and more you can see that initially when you believe in stuff and it may feel real comfortable like Beverly saying to spill as a symbol to give cards or flowers to people or do this and that and as your mind gets clearer and clearer and you're called on to be a teacher of God then even those things I found in my life start to you know, dwindle away. If I go to a birthday party, they're glad to have me there at the birthday party to be the presence and to show the ideas. It's gotten to the point where they are looking for the other stuff because it's not there. The presence and the ideas is the gift and that's truly how you keep them in your mind is by giving these ideas away. It's not like I'm trailing around the country trying to enlighten a bunch of other bodies, but really it's just I do it because it's my joy. That's how I keep them in my mind is let them come extend It makes sense. That's how you keep you keep something in your mind is by giving it away