 What's going on you guys welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd. So today we're going to be talking about a fun one It's ten red flags to watch out for I'd say basically if you find one of these tendencies and a girl that you're dating a girl That you've started seeing I would be very concerned about the relationship now It's normal for one of these to come up every once in a while But if you're seeing this consistently, I would definitely have a sit down with yourself and ask yourself Do I really want to be seeing this person again? I have to this again and again on my channel, which is put yourself first. It's not about whether she likes you or not It's about whether she's a good fit for you in your life And if she's doing one of these things I guarantee you there's gonna be somebody else who is a better fit for you Okay, so let's get into the list number one She has no female friends. I have seen plenty of women with this by the way I've dated every single girl on this list, okay? If she has no female friends what that means and especially this woman has a lot of male friends Around her like you'll see this girl. No female friends, but she's got tons of guys who are you know We're hanging around her all the time Okay, basically what this means and this is gonna sound kind of crass I know I'm gonna get some flak for this but a lot of times not every time But what this means is that people don't really like her These guys they're kind of like beta orbiters or whatever you want to call them She Teases or they think there's some chance of having any romance with her or something like that That's why they're around us because they kind of like her But as a person Women have acknowledged that she is not somebody that they want to be around So if you see a girl or you're dating someone and all of her friends are guys or she has literally no female friends You have to ask yourself is there a reason for this is she living on a She's stranded in the middle of a desert island if she is okay, it's understandable that she has no friends But if she isn't Might be time to reflect on that number two. She talks badly about her ex-boyfriends I think it's normal maybe to bring up an ex-boyfriend every once in a while But if she's talking if she only brings up bad things about them or is talking about her ex-boyfriends a lot Or one particular ex-boyfriend a lot. That's not a good sign okay, it probably means they're still thinking about them and it probably means that you're gonna end up as One of those ex-boyfriends that she's talking badly about okay now I've seen a lot of women they come to the next boyfriend thing that boyfriend's gonna be better. Oh, I I'm different I'm different than that person dude. I've been scenarios where I've dated the girl Yeah, that guy was a total dick or that guy was an asshole and I remember I was at this girl's place And we had just slept together and she like the guy was like literally taking his stuff out of the apartment And he's got like this box or whatever and he looks at me and he's like good luck man And I remember like I was with her for two weeks Before he had said that to me. I thought nah, I'm different than all these other guys She's gonna have she's gonna have a great time with me Week and a half in I was like that guy is absolutely right. I got to get the hell out of this So watch out for that, okay thing three she gets super into you super quickly All right, this is the girl where you meet and within two days It's like the passion is super strong and you think wow man, this girl's into me. I've never had this for this is incredible It's exciting to be with that kind of girl. Okay, let me tell you a little secret If a girl gets into you way too fast you have to ask yourself why she's doing this Okay, if she's known you for two days and she's already talking to you about you to all of her friends and saying how amazing you are And she's talking to you constantly and she wants to have sex with you all the time That's really cool. But guess what you just took a first train into crazy town And the reason why is because she has invented you and turned you into this person that you're probably not Okay, it's very difficult to say someone's an amazing or the perfect person for you within a couple days of meeting them Okay, takes a little bit longer. So pay attention to how quickly she's getting into you if she's getting into you super quickly I would not want to be with that person number four. She's hot and cold sometimes. She's super into you sometimes She's borderline ghosting you. Okay, this is not an exemplary behavior of someone who is gonna be a good match for you Okay, you want a little bit more consistently with that consistency with that. Yes It's natural for women to be interested in guy that you know, I don't not be so sure okay women's emotions They go up and down Okay, they deal with a lot of stuff with their body with their hormones and things like that and you know They can be dealing with some stuff. So it's okay for that to happen naturally But if there are times where she's texting you like all day and she's super excited to be up with you and other times Where days that you can't get hold of her like you should really think about whether you want to deal with that because either she's talking to another dude or well not talking to another she's Seeing another dude and really interested in another guy and you're kind of like When that guy is ignoring her then she starts talking to you Or she's just a crazy person and you're gonna be dealing with this your whole life five never admits fault or wrong doing This is something that women and the classic argument between women and men is that You know men women never admit when they're wrong or the women are never wrong. That's the other thing Um, but I would say that if you're in a discussion and she refuses to compromise about things That you have to adhere to these rules and if you don't then we can't be in a relationship um They say in star wars a sith never deals in absolute. That's a funny line You don't want to be with people that treat things as black and white as well too. So that there should be some Compromise there should be some um, she should come to you a little bit Okay, when there is a disagreement typically when two people have a problem with each other It's not just only one person's fault And if she will refuse to acknowledge that she is uh, you know, if you both are In a in a relationship and she's not willing to accept her part of the equation Um, that's a huge problem and I would definitely be very wary of that But also too if she is willing to admit part of her problem Then you have to be willing to admit that the problem is part of you as well too So, um, there has to be some compromise on both of yours But if you've compromised a lot and she has refused to that's a big red flag Number six, she has no goals or hobbies now. I acknowledge the fact that You know for most of the women in my life, um, I don't know if there have been as ambitious as me and that's okay I really like ambition in a woman, but if she has no hobbies Uh, that's a big problem. Like she literally does nothing She's probably not going to be a good person for for a relationship And by the way, if you just want to hook up with this person, that's totally fine Like I said, I've hooked up with all of these women and had, you know, even though Some of them got a little crazy. I've had special moments with all of them Um, but if she like is literally just a do nothing girl I really think that that's a red flag You know, she has to be interested in something because if she's interested in nothing And you become the only thing that she's interested in Holy cow that is going to ruin your life So make sure she has other things going on for her besides the relationship or Just Netflix or something like that. Um, those are important things And if she's young, you know, maybe she's taking time to develop her interests Encourager to go out and try new things But if he's not trying new things and still being a do nothing girl Dude, you got to move on and find someone who does have interests Seven, she doesn't know what she wants. Okay. If she doesn't know what she wants Um, it's probably not you Who puts you that way Um, women who are in this category, there are men that, you know Oh, I need time to figure out my feelings and they're like, oh, I'll just give her some space and have her figure it out Dude, I've never been that guy. I've never been that guy. I am not This is gonna sound mean, um, but it's true. I am not in The fixing women business If they come with Issues problems and they don't know what they want and they haven't figured those things out themselves Uh, I'm not going to be the guy to figure them out for them. Okay. They got to figure that out for themselves And if they can't I'm not their paid therapist. I'm not there, uh You know, I'm not there to psychoanalyze them. That's not me and if you are that guy, we'll expect to be Kind of a needy simpy boyfriend that uh, that you see you we all make fun of okay Don't be in this business. All right. If she doesn't know what she wants You should know what you want and that should be a girl who knows what she wants So find that girl. Number eight I was having trouble wording this but basically she shows a lot of man hating behaviors I don't really know what else to say this, uh, but it's kind of a girl who you know Is around like I don't need no man for anything and look I Independence is sexy. I I the girl that I'm dating right now. She's a very independent person She's got her own business But she acknowledges that she wants and in a certain sense that needs a little bit of masculinity male attention in her life And that's important because if you're not a part that's wanted if you're a part that's constantly resented And you see this with a lot of like and this is not all of them But like some like really hardcore feminist women some like super Just like they think all men are xyz if she says all if she if you hear things coming out of her mouth Where all men are xyz? um I'm not sure if uh, unless it's a joke or unless she's not taking very seriously like I'm fine with that I think it's kind of funny when people say this stuff like that You really got to watch out for it though If it's coming from a place of hate if it's coming from a place of negativity Okay, clearly this girl's got some issues clearly this girl's got some things going on that you aren't going to be fixed And quite frankly if you're with a woman who hates men If you're with a woman who doesn't even want a man, then she doesn't get a man and that man Especially isn't going to be me number nine She lies Okay, I know this might not seem like a big deal. Listen guys Everybody lies. I'm telling you right now if you want your partner to Tell you to the truth a hundred percent of the time all the time You're gonna be sorely mistaken. Okay, you have to forgive people a little bit but If she is deceiving for you, maybe she said oh, I was just hanging out with my girlfriends and then oh look Turns out she was hanging out with a lot of guys And one of those guys is the guy she used to date Okay, that's a huge red flag Okay If she lied about that to you, I can guarantee you she's lying about other things to you She's probably texting a bunch of guys. You don't know about you know, if it's the very beginning of the relationship, you know That's not that bad But if you got to acknowledge the fact that if she's lying to you about that stuff at the beginning She's probably going to continue to lie to you about that stuff. Okay So, uh, yeah, pay attention if she's lying to you and especially if you catch her on a lie And she refuses to accept responsibility for it and make some other excuse about it. Then do Find somebody else number 10 and this is the final one She doesn't know anything about you Okay I've made this mistake previously like years ago I would be sleeping or having sex with a girl and she would literally not remember what I did for work And it's not that hard to remember. I'm a dating coach. Like how many dating coaches does she know? Probably not that many if she can't even remember that Chases are she doesn't care about my life. She doesn't care about anything She's clearly just using like I could be anybody She just wants to have a guy who maybe seems important Or maybe has my certain kind of look or has you know, my game or whatever or who is like Maybe some other girls want to sleep with me and she just wants it for the status or something like that Okay, she's using you. This is not a good person for you to be with You want someone that actually is interested in you that remembers things that you tell them And it's fine if they forget things every once in a while. I mean, that's totally okay But if she doesn't remember anything about you She doesn't even remember the basic things that you told her things that are very important to you that you've repeated to her Holy cow, dude You've got to find the girl who is going to remember that and you deserve that in your life The girls that I was telling you about there was no chance that we were going to go anything beyond us Just hooking up occasionally when we were drunk Okay For women like that that I was actually going to care about They'd have to care about me first too Right So if you see any of these 10 things you guys i'm telling you if you see them consistently You got to find a girl who's not going to have these things have respect for yourself You know a lot of times I find that when guys fall into this trap the reason why they're doing it is because They don't have a lot of they don't think that they're good enough They think that oh, it's okay. I can deal with that or oh, I won't be able to get a good a girl as as uh As hot as her or as good as her So I should put up with these things or you know, it's not a big deal They are a big deal and you should deserve someone who doesn't have these things going on with them And so yeah, if you find these things This is something that I help with my clients out a lot to be able to identify these things pretty quickly So you're not wasting your time and ultimately you want to put the right energy out there You want to conduct your life in a way where you're attracting the right kinds of people in it sounds crazy But I really don't get that many of these girls that have these red flags going on I used to get them all the time I used to wonder why am I dating all these crazy girls? Why am I dating all these girls that make me life my life like hell doesn't happen anymore? And it's because I conduct my life in the right way And if you want to learn how to do that I suggest that you reach out to somebody who knows what they're talking about and get coached But it could be me or somebody else or keep watching videos on my channel You know, I cover this extensively Cool. Well, thanks a lot you guys If you made it to anything consider subscribing. I come with videos like this every single week Good luck out there