 well she was seven I'm back I'm I'm sorry about my voice y'all it think it's gonna try to make this video before it's totally gone so a lot of women have been asking me oh well how do I attract these type of men that are good and decent and not losers every time I go out I'm attracting losers no good guys will approach me what am I doing wrong I look good everything is you know nice about me I'm in good shape I look pretty blah blah what's wrong why aren't they approaching where are you going what place are you in is it a low-level place is it a high-level place is it a place that you can see a husband taking you and if you answered no then that's the problem guys that have good intentions who are looking for a potential partner or long-term relationship are not going to be in those type of places the men who are in those type of places are looking for quick thrills fun and probably not commitment so you need to find a place that you can go where you could see a potential husband taking you out on a date to or somewhere where men are not going to be looking for one night stands so you take yourself to like a higher caliber bar don't go to a club okay a higher caliber bar and the nice nicest part of town okay put on your nicest classiest you know cute outfit make sure everything on you looks decent you know don't don't go overboard because then you just stand out like a sore thumb and and your confidence is key if you don't feel like you belong somewhere it's people are going to pick that up people are going to detect that they're going to see how uncomfortable you are in certain places and they're going to say well she doesn't belong here you know if you if you go somewhere you need to fit in act like you belong you know like you've been there before this is no big deal blah blah blah blah your confidence is going to attract the person who you know is interested in you without them seeing that you're uncomfortable in this environment because it's all about environment if you're uncomfortable somewhere it shows because of your body language okay a lot of a lot of women have this problem they're afraid to step out of their comfort zone or a place that they've always gone or a place that's supposed to be cool and where their friends go go out alone I keep telling y'all men don't like to approach women what a bunch of other women around and they don't okay they're afraid to get rejected in public unless they are looking for one night stands then that that's fine because they can go on to the next one when they're really genuinely interested in you and they approach you and you're with a bunch of women you know it's worse to get rejected when you really wanted to get to know someone and when you're just looking for sex so ladies go out alone pick a good place you know in a nice area of town get out of your comfort zone wear more appropriate clothes if your you know wardrobe needs to be updated to a classier style do that okay because men who are looking for long-term relationships aren't looking for women who dress a certain way okay those are one-night stand ladies so you need to you know I've done a video like this before but people keep asking me the same question it's all about your confidence how you dress and when you hang out if you hang out with low lives you're gonna attract low lives go to a place where low lives would not even go go to a place where lame people do not go go to a place where broke people cannot get in this is this is like obvious go to a place where someone who needs a place to stay so they fight looking for a girlfriend it's not gonna be able to afford a drink at okay go somewhere nice treat yourself like you know you deserve the best and that's how other others will treat you you know a lot of a lot of women will say oh you're being snobby you're being bougie you're being bitchy you're not down to earth well think about this what kind of man are you're attracting if you are taking the less or taking the least accepting anything you know for being forgiving for someone lacking something those are the type of man you're gonna track if you don't settle for less if you have high standards if you say no I'm too good for that think no guys are gonna approach you who are gonna treat you like you don't want to be treated you're only gonna attract men who know how to treat women who know how to give them what they want who know how to give them what they expect and I'm getting tongue-tied again but I guarantee you you're not going to find losers in certain parts of town in certain areas in certain bars in certain restaurants you're not gonna find losers because they can't afford to be there so that is where you go I tell everybody this there are places you might have no idea exist in your town you need to go out and explore go you know go outside of your comfort zone if you're used to a place where there's all of a certain race and you never leave that place you know you're going to get whatever comes in that place you need to go out into the world and explore what else is out there go to a different town sometimes like the next town over maybe 30 minutes away they might have a nice place with different types of men you don't know so you have to keep trying you can't just go to the same place the same time every week and expect Prince Charming to walk in that's not gonna happen you know so I keep trying to tell y'all go where you want to be taken when you are married go where you see yourself or where you think you deserve to be don't go where it's easy to get you know guys attention because they're not looking for a wife they're not looking for a long-term girlfriend okay go somewhere where you're a surprise like oh my god I just I got off work one day and I went to happy hour to get me a drink before I hit myself traffic and there was this gorgeous lady sitting in there and I've never seen her before she looks so cool we started conversation about her drink and we have so much in common I gave her my number we're going out next week and I'm taking her to this cool restaurant that I've been dying to go to and take take someone to because I've heard so much but no this is how men with careers and means think they're not trying to go out to the club because they have they have they have work they have careers you know they they're focusing on other stuff if they do up go out to the club it's like it's not every weekend okay believe me I know so this is this is the kind of thing you want to do and like I said if you're looking for someone your same age and you're like 20 or 30 men are not as mature as women they don't want the same things at the same time as women so what you're wanting they're not going to be wanting so I always suggest go for a little bit older and someone who has a career I can't stress enough if you have if you don't have your list by now and career is not on that list then you're wasting time you're wasting your time because if you're trying to get a man with a job versus a career that's financial struggle just waiting to happen okay you need to be picky you need to be picky and you need to know what you want otherwise you're gonna track everything to you because you don't have a clear list of what you want so you will entertain whatever approaches you you need to have a clear list okay career this this that okay so guy approaches you and they say hi how are you my name and you know but they might seem nice they might say the right thing then you ask them what they do for a living and they say oh I work for whatever or oh you know if it's just a regular job and they're not in school and they're too old to you know be doing anything there's too old to still be in school like getting a degree unless they are getting a degree see this is what you need to know are they career bound do they have a career are they in school for their masters bachelors or something doctorate if they just have a regular job and they're satisfied with that that means you're probably gonna have to work and they're not gonna take care of you you find somebody with a career who has potential to gain more money in the future who get bonuses who get vacation days who have insurance benefits you know that's what you want okay no lame losers gonna have that so put that on your list and you only have to deal with them you just don't even after they tell you what they do just like okay well you know it's really nice to meet you oh that's my boyfriend calling or oh you know I gotta go my sister needs a ride you exit okay don't even entertain those people don't even give it the time of day why because it's not what you want okay don't make excuses for someone oh well they might be a nice person oh they might be the love of my life oh they might be the financial burden of your life oh they might just want to come be with you because you know you have more than them oh they can't help you when you need help oh if your car breaks down you can't go to them for money oh oh oh yeah if you're dating someone and they cannot help you if your car breaks down if they can't give you money to fix it if they can't help you pay a bill if they can't help you do anything why are you with them they cannot do anything for you okay they can't do anything for you all they can do is lay in your bed have sex with you tell you some lies can they do something for you then you know if you're gonna keep a person in your life they need to add to it not take away from it you know if they're taking from you they're taking taking taking as a grown man who's physically bigger stronger who does not have certain things to hold him back career-wise who has more potential to gain money and then you do then why are you entertaining them I don't understand a lot of girls get wrapped up in the moment and da da da look when you look at a man look at him five years in the future say okay where's he gonna be at five years when you go out look at people five years in the future are they gonna be worse off or bear off okay don't look at them for right now because right now all they're doing you know they're either they're on their way somewhere where are they on their way to are you gonna be there with them are they gonna be able to help you are they gonna benefit your life anyway okay so you see a guy he might be cute but think about where he's gonna be in five years after you've gotten all his information okay he does this he does that where's he gonna be in five years I don't know doesn't look good bypass okay I don't care how good he looks how good he tells you you look how much attention he's giving you it's for a reason he's overcompensating for lack of something okay so men like challenges okay they shouldn't be they should not find it so easy to have you okay be a challenge challenge them don't accept every phone call don't accept every text or text back away later if it's too easy they'll they'll experience you and be done with you quick you gotta you gotta keep them hanging on the string you gotta keep some mystery in it don't be so desperate don't be so thirsty men know this okay be a mystery be you know don't text him for two days or text them one text and that's it leave it okay men always want what they can't have if you're too easy they're gonna get you use you up and throw you out don't be like that mm-hmm also don't be afraid to be a bitch to men they like that secretly they'll remember you though they'll always remember you I remember when I was young I used to go to the club all the time and I would just be so rude to guys bitch you know they would remember me every time I walked in they would remember me and they would like me more and more I came in the more I dissed them they would like it like one day one day you're gonna be you know one day you're gonna be my girlfriend or something stupid like that and they would buy me drinks because I will be rude to them I don't know why it's just oh okay you think you all that okay well let me buy you a drink let me loosen you up you know when you're rude to people they respect you for something I don't know what they do if you're too nice if you're all up in a guy's face you're rude to people who's like excuse me they might cut you out but they'll always remember you and then when they see you the next time they go that's that lady she's so rude I bet you I bet you shoot you they're intrigued by it for some reason you know and nowadays you have these violent people who you just can't do that too so you know I would I would suggest just keeping your distance not being too nice you know back when I was younger it was a different time these days you just have to kind of be snobbish you don't have to say anything really you can just you know you like that and a man always want but they can't act so you really like a guy you think someone is cute you want them to approach you ignore them look at him like you know he they're gonna be like oh my god what's wrong with me oh she don't like me she's not even looking at me oh you know what did I do then they're gonna start down themselves and they're gonna be like hmm they're gonna find you more interesting so y'all keep that in mind everything is a game a mental game all is mental okay that's one of the universal laws all is mental you can get them up here you can get them physically okay I will see y'all later thumbs up and if y'all have any video suggestions put them in the comments and I'll see y'all