 In my past, I have looked on quite a few secrets. Secret Facebook groups for partners of autistic people. Yes, those exist. Please don't go looking, you'll probably give yourself a panic attack. It's not a very safe environment, as you can imagine. But then again, some autism groups probably quite similar. One of the things that is highlighted a fair amount in these posts, these things that people are talking to each other about, is a lack of empathy, a lack of intimacy, a lack of attention, a lack of any sort of validation that their partner loves them and that they care about them. And I can see where this is a big issue, but there are some things that I want to go through which I will go through eventually that will hopefully give you a lot of help in this.