 welcome everyone to another video in this one I am going to be giving you three words that will destroy the narcissist and after everything they've done to you you want to give them a taste of their own medicine because for many of you they left you high and dry some of you they took you to the cleaners they did all of these things to you so you want some payback you want to teach them a lesson I understand that and that is why in this video I am going to be giving you three words that you can use to destroy the narcissist and it really will destroy them when you say these three words so I'm going to get straight to it the three words that you need to say to destroy the narcissist are I don't care I don't care that's all you have to say but it's not all about the words it's not all about what you say to the narcissist it's also about the feeling the energy behind it because they are going to sense the energy underneath those words and they are going to know if you really mean it or not so when you say these three words I don't care you have to really feel it and mean it because if you feel it they will feel it too they will feel whatever you feel in that moment whatever you feel will be reflected back to them so you say I don't care and you really feel it in your heart because at this point after everything they've done you don't care you are indifferent you don't want anything to do with them anymore because there's only so much you can take they really push the limits they test your boundaries and it just gets to a point where you can't take anymore it's like they've done so much how much more can you take you just get fed up after a while because it's just one thing after another it never stops they can never just act normal they can never behave so at some point you have to call it a day you have to get on these three words and say I don't care and you have to really mean it and feel it inside of you in your heart and if you do say these three words and you really feel it and mean it then they will sense it and they will feel insignificant they're relevant they will feel like they don't matter to you they will feel rejected they will feel exactly the same way that you felt the entire time that you were with them remember all those times I rejected you they rejected your ideas remember that remember how they made you feel small remember how they didn't respond to your texts they didn't answer your phone calls remember how they just disappeared for a few days and you didn't know where they were with remember all of that when you when you say these words when you tell them I don't care because then you will really feel it inside your heart remember all of those times all of those times that they rejected you they abandoned you they left you without any support remember all of those times when you give them those three words and they will feel it they will know it immediately that you are done you've had enough that you're not gonna take it anymore because you know that you deserve better you don't deserve to be mistreated you don't deserve to be abused no you are better than that and at this point after everything you've been through you realize it because you can't take anymore and you know that it's not right you know that you don't deserve to be treated that way so you're not going to tolerate anything less than what you know you deserve that's why you will go to them and tell them I don't care let them feel how they made you feel all of that time when they just pushed you aside they weren't there for you when you needed them so now it's time for them to get a taste of their own medicine it's time for you to not be there for them and let's see how they like that let's see if they can tolerate it let's see if they will put up with it because we already know that they can't we already know that it will bother them it will cause a narcissistic injury and they will try to get back at you they will try to punish you they will try to get revenge they will try to do whatever they can to get under your skin because that's just the way they are they don't look at what they've done they don't take accountability for anything it's just all you there's always a reason why they do what they do they always have to justify it they always have a reason or excuse no more don't accept that anymore and don't go looking for answers for why they're doing what they're doing it doesn't matter the point is that they are doing it and you just have to not tolerate it anymore by realizing that you deserve better you deserve more and to do that you just have to look back at everything you've done for them you were there for them the entire time and they just pushed you aside you gave them all of your time energy attention effort even your money you gave it all to them so you are deserving of more you are deserving of better treatment but look at what they've done to you look at all of the things that they've done and you should know that you deserve better than that you should know that by now so remind yourself of that every day write a list down of things that you were grateful for things that you have achieved things that make you who you are things that you are proud of write a list down and read that out every morning and every night before you go to bed let it sink in don't let them brainwash you into thinking that you're any less than what you are because that is exactly what they want you to think they want you to think that you deserve less and that they deserve more than what they actually deserve but we're not doing that anymore this time we've learned our lesson and we're not gonna play that game with narcissists because that is the game that you can never win they don't deserve anything what have they done for you other than mistreat you disappear what do they deserve for doing that they deserve these three words I don't care but I'm sure some of you can think of some other words you'd like to say to them and you're welcome to do that be my guest but just be careful you never know how they might react because as I say they don't take accountability for anything they don't look at what they've done they just look at your reaction to what they're doing and that's why nothing is ever fair with them it's never a fair game so yeah realize yesterday realize that you deserve better you deserve more and you've got to start doing less for them because clearly they don't appreciate it or at least they're not showing their appreciation to you and it's just not good enough all right you deserve better you deserve more tell yourself that every day or remind yourself why write a list down of everything you are grateful for everything you've achieved everything you're proud of and read that to yourself every day and see you how you feel after a few days when some cases it may take a few weeks if they've really worked their brainwashing on you you can turn that around you can get yourself esteemed back and get your confidence you can get all of that back don't worry about it it's gonna be okay and we are all here to remind you of that every day we are all here for your support and I am also available for one month coaching which you can book for my website it is Narc Survival at the Cody UK just being enjoying my day by the lake here took me a couple of hours to get here it's a great drive through the farms and the fields really good stuff back to the car Range Rover I love this car I've had a lot of fun driving this around driving through the mountains everything alright so as always thank you all for joining me on another live video and if you'd like to show your support you can give it a thumbs up down below and let me know your thoughts in the comments have you tried this already have you said I don't care to the narcissist and did really mean it and feel it how did they react what they say let me know I'd love to hear from you down below share the video 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