 Do I look cute? It's just so I can put it together. But do I look cute? Huh? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm, it's not a good answer. We're wincing time. Okay. Well, I don't know if this is the best angle. You're gonna have to look at this, and you're gonna wonder why you've decided to marry me. I don't even have my ring on. It's just for the audio. I know, but I'm not prepared. Where's my ring? Shannon! Baby. Just focusing. So, we're engaged. We're engaged. You wouldn't know that because I don't have a ring on because I'm not prepared for this moment. But... You're not. I'm joking! Jesus! Just relax. We are getting married. Yeah. Does that serious, Hayden? Are you afraid when you hear that? Mm-hmm. No? Mm-hmm. Okay, so, Jared, break it down. Why? Why did you go get the ring? I created my professional personal site with Squarespace, and one of my fav features is their secret link option. So, I made a secret little private link for all my lovers out there with some photos from myself and Jared's engagement shoot that I didn't post anywhere else. So, after watching this video, go to shanbudram.com slash private. And, if you just want to go play around and make your own Squarespace site on a risk-free no-credit card entering two-week free trial, go to squarespace.com slash shanbudy. I went and got the ring because it was just Tom. Like, we lived together. Like, I already knew that I wanted to, you know... I'd already chose you forever. So, he's like, huh? When? Mm-hmm. I like it year-end. I feel like you have been leading us. So, I was actually just reading, because you know how I was on my Android yesterday? I was just reading through our old text messages. That's cute, I know. I do that kind of stuff. But, it was the... I love your conversation that we had. Do you remember that? You still have that? I tweeted, because at that time, I was dating a lot of different dudes. Not a lot, maybe two other ones than Jared. But, like, just like way less serious than Jared. Jared and I were sexual. Jared and I saw each other frequently. They were just people who lived in different cities. And so, I was like, man, I'm learning so much about love, not being in Aeros love. Do you even know what Aeros means? I googled it. So then, I get this text while I'm on the plane from Jared that said, it's our love not romantic. And then, I just text back like, but do you love me? Because, like, he had never said that before. And then, you said, yeah, I do enough to get jealous, and I don't say anything. And I said to you, I love you, too. And your say means everything, because you mean the most to me. And then, you said, I know, that's why I don't early trip, because I know how you feel about me. Which is a weird thing for someone to say who's never said, I love you before. Actually, you didn't know how I felt about you. I did. You're not too hard to read. You think you're so clever. You're so sneaky. You're not. And then, we went on a trip together to New York maybe a few months later. And then, we were at the MTV party. And then, I would make a comment about just, like, how great we get along. And then, you said, that's because I was made for you. And even at that time, that was a bold statement to make. And the final thing is, when you and me and Stefan went to that palm reader, Stefan made some kind of comment like, oh yeah, but like, you guys aren't a forever thing. You're just dating or some kind of like throwaway comment. And you were like, no, this is it for me. And I was like, really? Really? I think marriage is less about love and more about more about like, the perfect partner. Yes. Rather than like, Disney. I think you could have all those feelings and those magical things, but the label that you choose shouldn't be the heart of what you would feel. I'm not saying this well. Sound like me. Facts. No, I wouldn't marry you because you just make me better. And I've never really met another human that I trust as much as I trust you. I feel like my view on marriage is that, you know, it is a title that automatically demands respect. People kind of respect you and your relationship a little bit more. And so I feel like with marriage, the relationship between me and Shannon is not really going to be different. However, when we introduce each other, that's when things get a little bit more respect. A little bit more of like, you know, put some respect on a relationship. It is a label that expresses to other people how much somebody means to them and what their partnership means. What is the difference to you between a relationship and marriage? I don't think there's a difference. I think there's a difference in symbolic. Like marriage is like, hey, we're moving forward as a unit. But that's what I think you just played out perfectly. There actually isn't a difference. I think there's a difference to y'all. That's why marriage, I'm choosing marriage with you because I want every time that I introduce you to people, they understand this is not a temporary person. This isn't just a person. Like this is a big part of me. I live with you. I love you. I share my body with you. I share my inner thoughts and my fears with you. So I already have a life with you. I already know your family. I already know my family. We've already built a life together. We have shared friends. All that has already happened. So there's nothing greater that I have to share with you through marriage. There's no parts of me that I've been holding back until we get to that step. But marriage is about creating a legacy together. It's been way easier than any of my other relationships. I never, I mean, we have arguments, but if it was an argument of scale, the one to 10 of like, 10 being the worst argument I've ever been in, it's probably like a three. Like majority of them at the time, like I think, I mean, 80, 20 is your thing, right? Can I always use that? You know, I mean, if you're in a relationship, you should be getting along and seeing eye to eye 80% of the time. But 20%, yeah, like you can have, you can butt heads. That's where growth happens. So growing pains is called up for reasons. It might be difficult in those spaces of time. So I think that we do have times where we don't see eye to eye, but I don't know, I always feel that I merge out of those feeling closer and, you know, understanding you more. The answer is qualities about me that make me marriage material for you. You have the strange ability in heat of a moment. And maybe not in the very heat of the moment, maybe like soon after to recognize, oh, I'm being driven. And then you have a natural, what can I do? And this is going to sound weird to a lot of feminists, but you're going to have, you have a natural ability of saying, like, what can I do to serve? And you're very, very, very, very, very, very good at being social. Like I'm huge on that because I'm not good. So I needed a partner that was like very good at being in the public. Your ability to take criticism is massively number one, because I feel like marriage is saying yes to who someone may become. And I know with you that you're always going to evolve. And so if I have something that Jared does that bothers me, if I communicate that to him, don't get me wrong in the moment, I'm not going to get the response I'm looking for, but the next day he'll put that into action. I've seen you do that time and time again. The second thing for you is that you make everything around me better. And you give me space to make things better if you're not directly involved. That means my work, my friendships, my relationships with my family, my relationship with myself. So like you facilitate an environment where I get to grow. And sometimes of course, like work-wise, we own a production company together and share entertainment, but work-wise, you directly help me and you're in there. And sometimes even family and friends-wise, like you counsel me. I finally have a new website that I'm so proud of. Thanks to Squarespace, I am rebranded and rebooted to make my business run smoother and the user experience for all of you more seamless. Now, if like me, you weren't ready to hand over a wad of cash for someone else to build your professional site, then Squarespace is the solution. It's a one-stop shop for your portfolio, online store, or legit, whatever you need. They have a ridiculous selection of stunning templates catered towards every profession or purpose. It's easy to customize. And for me, who's not a coder, there was definitely no back-end drama. 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