 Have you ever heard women tell you what you should be doing? Well as a man, you should be x y and z. You should be pulling out chairs putting coats over puddles You should be walking me down the street. You should be Scheduling dates. You should be paying for dates. I will never pay for a first date You should be taking me to the fair the farmers market the festival. You should be that's the entitlement of women in which they are putting a Silent contract on you with the commitment. Oh, you know, if we were together we would be together forever and it would be fabulous There's a whole bunch of invisible ink and fine print connected to that That you're not aware of you're only thinking about sex. Oh, I love having sex with her Yes, you'd be great to have around and then she starts saying you should be doing this in order to keep me You should be doing what spending going out to to the fair money energy You should be giving me your energy You should only give me your energy. No other woman Attention pay attention to me when I come home, and I'm telling you a story. Don't look at the football game Matter of fact, it's one minute left in the football game and hear her ass come Tie score quarter back about the drive back. Hey, can you pay attention to me? You're gonna hold me That's in the contract because if you tell her as get the get away from me Oh, I'll go to someone that gonna give me attention now You lost a girl and everything you invested time You don't spend any more time with me. You're always on that computer. Look at that coach reg Adams Okay, you're always doing this you're always doing that is the silent contract that you exchange with your commitment and many people are entitled to it This is causing the disruption on the dating landscape It is a one-sided thing in which you're struggling to figure out how to balance this out the people who master this This is why you watch them on YouTube And I say the free agent lifestyle Basically these broad 90% of them are trash. I ain't paying no attention today at they be lucky if I give them a piece of slum Right then guys are like, how you gonna do that? I have discipline. I Understand what the silent contract is. I want no part of it But you want to go along with the silent contract, what about the social contract? What about the social contract?