 Then on the other side of the fence, you have to actually express that you're interested in them as a person, as a human being, who they actually are, what they're into, what's going on in their life, right? I've had plenty of encounters with women where there was just that sexual tension, there was just a fire, and sometimes it's just a quick exchange, sometimes it's making out, sometimes it's even more than that, but then the next day comes and she doesn't respond to my texts. What happened? We had this crazy sexual connection. She kind of had a chance to think about it, she had a chance to back away from it and realized, well, there wasn't really anything else there other than just this kind of quick sexy thing. Oftentimes, it's not going to be enough to make a person say, I really want to see that person again. Sometimes it will. There's plenty of women out there who are looking for a crazy, hot, romantic time for that night or for a couple weeks after, but unless you actually develop a more personal connection on a deeper, who are you, what are you about, what are you into, really trying to get to know them, really trying to understand them, then there's a good chance that it's not going to go anywhere. Once again, that's where everything I talked about last year comes into play or two years ago now, is are you once again listening, are you giving them space to open up and express themselves, who they are without trying to make something happen or trying to do something? Are you genuinely curious? It's once again, starts and ends with the feeling. Are you really curious about who is this person? What do they do? What are they about? Letting them feel that, asking them deeper questions, being vulnerable, sharing yourself, not talking on and on like you're trying to make them like you more because of how great you are, but when they're opening up saying, I want to share who I am with you as well. So yes, I'm so glad you asked this question because you need both parts because if you just have a great platonic conversation, this is so cool, we're connecting, we really understand each other, we have so much in common, this is amazing. And then she doesn't respond to your texts or calls, what happened? Well, there wasn't, she didn't feel that spark, she didn't feel that fire. But if all she feels is that fire, if all she feels is that crazy, there's an equally good chance that it's not going to go anywhere. So that's why you need to develop both, that's why you need to practice both. Thank you. Great question. Nick, you said you wanted to add one more thing, but can you take one more quick question? How much time do I have? Ten minutes. Cool. Yeah, let's do it. Sure. So how many times did you and your partner have to practice to make that minimally awkward? We didn't at all. I basically said, okay, you have to pretend that we're attracted to each other for up here. And we exchanged a couple of glances and everything, but yeah, we're usually just kind of buddy, buddy and one more quick question. If you're somebody that's starting at zero, like let's say you have social anxiety, you really want to get sexual, you have the urge to it, what is the best first step to take? If you've got zero, I would start off with first of all that first building block that we were just talking about. I'd say that that's more important, and you can practice that with everyone. Guy, girl, doesn't matter. First, just learning to really connect with people. First just learning to express that, wanting to really get to know them as a person and make those personal connections and practicing doing that. Because if you're not able to do that, you're not going to be able to just express sexuality and make that happen. You have to have that foundation underneath of genuine human connection first. And then once again, meditating on those feelings of sexuality, reading something, thinking about things that stir those feelings up in your body, meditating on it, and then starting out with maybe women who don't intimidate you as much. Because it's a whole other thing when she's just making your heart pound out of your chest, not to revert back to overthinking, getting scared. First, just developing that muscle of being able to express yourself sexually when you're around another person with, once again, every single woman you come into contact with, with respect to where she's at. And then after that becomes, you're not only able to hold that connection, you're not only able to express yourself, then you're going to have a lot more success being able to do both of those things together around people that are already naturally making you go crazy. So, thank you for the question. And so really quick, I'd just like to finish off with this. I'd like to go back to Tony, my client who once again happened to be in a wheelchair. And just like to share with you how a week after the program, I got a nice big old email from him, and I request emails from all my, the guys I worked with to follow up, making sure they're on the right track doing things properly, but I had the pleasure of, of him sharing with me that, that Saturday night, he happened to spend it in the arms of a woman who, he happened to find very attractive. Now, I'm not sharing this with you to, to brag. And then certainly, the goal of my program is not to hook up. The goal of, of my work and my coaching is not to have sex, right? Success in what I do is being happy, being content with this part of your life, not having any questions, not having those nagging insecurities of I'm missing something, I'm doing something wrong, have complete confidence in this area of your life. The reason why I wanted to share that with you, though, is I just want to express that there's no excuse for you at this point, right? If Tony can overcome the messages that he's been told his entire life about who he is, about, you know, what he's not. If he can overcome that, if he can push himself, if he can pick himself back up and say, no, I can do this. You really don't have any excuse whatsoever. Maybe you had an excuse back when the information was crappy, back when you were only getting the messages from the movies in Maxim. But now our industry's involved to a point where there is great information out there. And so any excuses you come up in your head, oh, I can't do this because of that, or that people will do excuse, excuse, excuse, excuse. It's all bullshit. You don't have any excuses from having this part of your life handled, from being happy, from being content. Just like with getting sexual, you just have to get out of your own way. Thank you very much, guys.