 Stop saying these four phrases immediately to change your life drastically. Number one, responding of course when something goes wrong. That just reiterates in your mind that of course everything goes wrong for you, so of course are going to continue to go wrong for you. Cut that out. Two, hope for the best, expect the worst. Again, if you are expecting the worst, then hoping for the best doesn't mean shit. Number three, and we all say it so often, I'm so broke. Even if it's just a joke, even if it's not true, the more that you say it, the more that that is being imprinted into your mind and your subconscious, stop saying you're so broke. And the last one is, I just want enough. I just want enough money to pay the bills. I just want a man or a woman that'll do the bare minimum of relationship. You are setting your own ceiling, stop doing it.