 ان آپ کو جانتے ہیں اور اگر انśnieے ہند marshmallow اور ایک آب واکر Йامی promises ڈین儺 best کیا구요 adaptation ب 팔 بهگات کے افسی بریصح جب سے بیت مہدوarsi شاہیر سب� چھدی Luis با than تفسیان یا جو کیا بھی تلان بذا سار لیکن بکہ یہ ہوسی بازوی عمہ حدیث نے کہتا ہے۔ کیونکہ صحیح بہت warming بارا ہوتا ہے کہ اگر ان کو یہ بہت avoirات کرنا بھائی ہے ، معا سامولی میں جانتا ہے ، خاتر اور مجھناجحم مجھنگ مجھنگ محاولتے ہیں۔ ہی حول ایک مطالعہ ، سیدیوں کے ساتھ آ電یت کو برانکتا ہے کیونکہ سیدھا ہے قرآن سوار ہے ، خلوقہ یہاں ہوں تو اگر ان کے صحیح عمی میں مجھنگ رات پہلے ساتھ کرنا بھی ، جو ان لوگوں کو دانی مجھے بھی ساتسی ستاہید ہیں۔ اگر ان کھرے Andhra اگر دانی مجھے بھی کھرے ساتھ ہیں یا دOULی دنٹنے میں دلے پر Logic جو دورانا بھی رہے ہے۔ دورانا بھی رہنے بھی روٹی ہے۔ کھرے اگر دنٹنے میں مجھے بھی روٹی جانتے ہیں۔ اس کے بہت بہت ہوں کہ کھرے کھرے کتب ہے اور بہت اپنی چیز اور بہت بہت بہت اپنے بہت اس پر شامل سارہ ساتھ دیکھنا ہے۔ خلص یہ کہتا ہے۔ آپ کیا وہ تمہارہ طرح پاک نہیں چکتے ہیں لیکن کیا کہ heap کی تفتہ سکیل کو ایک حادیت ہے۔ یہاں سے کیا آپ کو کامیات کوئی بھی کامیت کرنے کے اگر آپ کو کامیت کی چھوڑے ہے اور وہ آپ کو کامیت ہی کیا اور اور میں کامیت ہی ہے اور آپ کو کامیت کو کامیت کیا کامیت کے مراری ہونے جائے؟ آپ کو کامیت پہلے ہوتے ہیں، آپ کو مقاومہ Ouch ساتھ انہوں کے بارے میں من Boo خیلی کی لکھنے کے بارے میں ہے Questions لیکن ایٹا ہے جو آپ اس کو نمیز ہے جب стیطہ بھی دنینقی پر حضرت جانتے ہیں۔ اس کی جانتے ہیں تو کوئی کامیں جانتے ہیں اور انہوں کو بہت ساکتے ہیں ، توہیہ ہیں ، کے لئے بہت بہت ساکتے ہیں ، انہوں کو یہ بہت ساکتے ہیں ، جانتا ہے ، پر تک انہوں کو مجھے کمپرامیز ہے ، جانتے ہیں ، ہمیچ سے بہت اپنی احت落 کیا ، اور ایک حالی ہے کہ والنے بہت ساکتے ہیں ، پھر لئے اللہ's کا حکم بہت ساکتے ہیں ، when that blemishless face will develop wrinkles if you have loved the outward face آپ سانت سینmirہ م نہیں pasti ہے گے سوفتر祂یل سب کاتیں ہوتا ہے۔ کیونکہ آپ احتالت اپete کی permett ہے exceedای بلوری کو لیا Fool Creating by Sheng  contro of the heartỹا سؤสانی executive Monsters of the phase  Entre the heart کر اپ watercolor اور now they are grandchildren you now need to guide your sons and daughters how to get married so we are looking for someone who is reasonably looking someone who has a good voice I made mention of that the other day or was it yesterday when we did say that you know it's important to marry someone who has a voice that you are at least you know attracted to you cannot marry a person whom you don't like their voice at all it's not like they are bad someone else will come along who will like that voice you know this is why we tell everyone sometimes in the muslim home we are suffering because people and let's talk about some of the women folk and what the norm is because of television and the bombardment you have a certain shape that is acceptable and a certain shape that the media has made you believe is unacceptable I have come across men who have told me I prefer big women I'm just letting you know the reason why I'm saying this is because no matter what size you are someone somewhere will definitely feel attracted to that Allah has created us differently so don't think for a moment you know what I'm not really so good looking why yes we should be healthy we should be concerned but not to the point of depression not at all because then the home goes you know how does the home fragment in that you find women prohibiting themselves from food and after a while they come to the sheikh sheikh I think my daughter has a gin why you know she sees things she sees things what does she see like stars like different things you know and they're not there you know I think there's a gin so people have come to me saying this and we look at them completely anorexic completely out of food and everything you say you know what the gin do not like dairy products so the minute you have some dairy products your gin will begin to disappear because that is you know it's like opposite poles and the gin doesn't like red meat you know and so on and you find wallahi I have had cases where they then tell you after that that Alhamdulillah the gin is gone that was just malnourishment you couldn't you had to you were dizzy whilst you were walking and all that because you didn't eat and you didn't eat because you worried about how slim you should be today if a woman is more than 45 kgs whoa it's a problem why inshaAllah you can go up or down whatever it is for as long as you are healthy you can eat it and burn it and this is why a better way than to abstain from food is to have it and burn it out مے اللہ سبحانہ واتعالہ beautify our women for our men and I'm not talking about all the men but I'm talking about the husbands inshaAllah مے اللہ سبحانہ واتعالہ grant us good homes مے اللہ سبحانہ واتعالہ the men as well and the beauty of a man is more in his character and conduct than anything else believe me if you have a man who is mediocre looking and his character is brilliant he attracts much more than a person whose character stinks sorry to use that word a character stinks and he might be a very very muscular handsome man and the people will say no no be careful this guy has only got swear words from his mouth sometimes what happens is a few moments later or a few days or months later people realize this man is not what the outward appearance says he is the same applies so this goes back to our point when we are choosing we can look at health we can look at wealth we can look at various other things just that I mentioned health obviously we know in the sharia it's important to be healthy and if we have health matters that need to be known by the spouse you need to tell them prior to marriage something major if it's just a cough don't say look I don't know if you want to marry me I've got a cough but if it is something major then definitely it needs to be said so we can look at the issue of lineage the issue of wealth the issue of status and so on that is not to be given preference if those come without the religion we'd rather stay away that's what Islam teaches us because the success according to the end of the hadith the true success is connected to those who have become successful with the deen and now I want to pause for a minute to tell you a typical scenario when a person marries someone whom they have seen not dressed properly perhaps in a nightclub perhaps at a party perhaps you know doing something wrong and that has attracted the man and the two of them get to talk to each other and they decide after some time we'd like to get married and they marry and they get married can I tell you what has happened and I'm talking reality sometimes what happens is the woman at some stage realizes that I need to develop my spirituality so she wants to start covering her hair perhaps she wants to put on something the husband says look that's not the woman I married I didn't marry that woman so the fact that we were not dressed appropriately and we allowed someone to love our outer looks we become enslaved by that forever it may block us from developing religiously because the man will keep on saying look that's not the woman I married I married you because of how head and shoulders looked in your hair and I married you because of how the Levi's jeans looked on your legs and so on so if that's the case now I want you to dress like that forever if you don't I'm going to get another wife you sitting saying but can't I get close to Allah my beloved sister it was a mistake that was made years back and I hope those who are not yet married we can take a lesson and I hope the brothers who are here if there any one of us who might have made that type of choice allow them to the growth in spirituality don't be embarrassed by your wife when she covers up properly after she hadn't been doing that for long it will help you and your offspring remember when you sow a seed then it grows so you cannot sow a seed of cactus and expect apples to grow yes mind you there is a cactus fruit for as long as you rub off or you scrape off all the little the prickly points on it you might enjoy that cactus fruit I don't know if you have it here but who wants to handle that when you can have a proper apple my beloved brothers and sisters the beauty of Islam is such that from the beginning whether it is the upbringing of the child or how to select a spouse اللہ سبحانہ و تعالی has laws in place that will help you from the family fragmenting breaking up so if we followed the rules from the very beginning then we will find that the family unit will not break however sometimes we have as you know cases where we didn't look at that we might have overlooked it we might not have been that religious at that time and so on there are still solutions you see we are taught to attend the nikah to witness the nikah of people it is a sunnah to have it in the masjid when we are getting married it is an act of worship and it is in fact taught by the prophet peace be upon him that as far as possible try to have the officiation within the masjid اِجَ عَلُوْحَ فِی مَسَا جِدِكُمْ according to one narration try and have it in the masjid because it's the house of Allah imagine you say I'm having my wedding I'm having my officiation and I'd like to have it at this hall or that hall it's okay it's not like it's not going to be valid but say I want to have it in the house of Allah the one who made me now I want to tie the knot in his house Subhan Allah that is so blessed over and above that we need to know that we are encouraged to attend when other people are getting married you're encouraged to attend to be witness one of the reasons of that لما have mentioned many reasons is that you need to ponder over your plight and condition you are either a person who's married or you are not married or you've lost your spouse through divorce or death you cannot really be any other probability you're either married or not married yet or you've lost your spouse through death or through divorce so when you sit and you watch this groom a beautiful you watch them watch them properly and the imam says have you accepted her as your wife you find in a lot of cases especially you know the innocent ones when I say the innocent ones I mean not those who have now gone out for 8 years and you know they probably have had you know how can I word it respectfully they have had relations deeper than what married couples would have had then they just want to halalize it 8 years later we don't want that to happen Islam has made marriage very easy Islam has made marriage very easy one of the reasons is let's not block our children from getting married sometimes you have a man who says no I want you to finish your studies and so on it's important to finish your studies we are not saying no very important but don't you want to protect them from the sin that is being committed right now at the varsity when nikah is so easy you can put in your rules and regulations and there is no harm you can say look if we get a nikah done you will not live with one another until the age of until you complete your studies and so on but the link you have now is halal I'm only suggesting a solution and I'm not sure if some of you may find it applicable or not but we have found it applicable and we have tried to encourage some who have engaged in it and they have not regretted it