  Nasıl                             today  onions studio hello                        i love your name i call it in four                             I thought it was one jagga                        I tried not many people can pronounce your name Cute From the spelling You first take a step back Like when I say But you call me How is your week started Quite a week I had some internal office I can imagine This is part of life You'll always have things to deal with engers  주고 żeli  わ                                                                                                                            when you just come and see that I'm all snatched okay Isi or fatherly has joined us via Zoom Isi how are you doing very well thank you Sayima good evening ladies how is your week starting it's been a hectic one I must say it's been a a tedious one for me but I can't complain I thank God for everything and I totally agree with you her name is actually a mouthful like Isi wakome but I try to call it's only Utis one Utis name I'm still struggling to Uti where I share me or something I'll try to but at least the components Isi wakome precisely it's only Utis name once I get it right if you will not hear me call her Uti again I will change it I will change it for her but hey we have an interesting conversation today you know it's always interesting where we get to celebrate our own part of what we do on the show is not just to talk about the challenges and everything when we also see exceptional youth doing things we also like celebrate them right and here's what we found as today's quote you are only great to the degree you impacted others with your life this is from Sunday Adilaja you may remember her from the coronation of Charles the third and Camilla where she was carrying was called the sovereign of in the royal procession in her elegant gili today we will be celebrating the life's work of Dame Elizabeth Nneka right and young that's the name and discussing the topic living a life of impact and and purpose we will do all of that but first let's quickly run off on the break we have a lot to cover what we found in the news alright you are still watching where is world 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 6 7 6 7 6 7 7 7 7 7 7 7 7 sixophrenic now i just wanted to quickly share between because again there's always confusion between bipolar and sixophrenia they said so for bipolar they are both two mental health disorders people may mistake the symptoms for one another bipolar disease is characterized by intense highs and lows in a person's mood energy ability to function while sixophrenia on the other hand has is a disorder where people perceive reality i've not like i've mentioned right in the case of bipolar a person alternates between mania and depression and in between also has normal moods during many episodes a person may have elevated moods increased energy level impulses risky behaviors or difficulty focusing while during depression phase the person might be lacking so much energy and do all that withdrawal of all of that so that's why sometimes people mistake both conditions so for i think the best way to know which is what or what it is that you're going through is just go see a medical doctor right for sixophrenia patients might grow into like they are not able to sleep you know they're just awake they're not they're losing sleep and all of that there's there's a lot that goes on i was really hoping we could get a medical doctor to come talk to us about this again because i don't know how it is lately i've seen a lot of people telling me that oh i've had to use um what's it called pills to to sleep some people cannot sleep 3 am they are awake 4 am they are awake like their eyes are closed only sometimes maybe they start to sleep around 7 am in the morning right then they probably sleep to like 10 and they are done for the day so people actually are you know losing sleep so is it possible that may be um concerns and all of that might also develop these kinds of um mental illnesses only god knows but i mean i wish we could get you know an expert to help us understand it what is the real cause of sixophrenia and you know maybe bipolar as well so whatever it is you're properly diagnosed and maybe you start to take your medications or whatever it is that would help you get better but you have any case of do you know anyone that you know has all these mood swings and all of that well now i've seen the some of the symptoms i can i'm sure what happens i feel like what happens most of the time is that we don't even know because we don't even care to find out so until you know growing up you see some people and they behave in a normal way and someone says they're calling we refer it as to either something spiritual or they're calling you in your village or someone is pulling you from your village or something has been put you know in the ground or somewhere for you you know we always term it as something spiritual until it gets out of hand so um just like you said it's very very important for us to take note of such things and actually it's you're able to actually treat some of these things in the early stages before it gets to the point of hallucination and seeing things that are actually not there yeah so it's very very delusional yeah so it's very very important that even when we even as parents or as individuals that we take note of some of these things and then you know raise concerns where needed so that people can actually check this thing out because sometimes we just walk around not knowing what is actually going on on the inside and we put ourselves through um enough pressure for our mental um you know for our mental state to be unstable sometimes so it's very very important to check yourself even you have a lot of people that you hear cases of um someone who was maybe at the club or just dancing and you hear people say about just with him at a party the other day and they just get to third mainland bridge and they jump off the bridge I mean like so those highs and lows you have to monitor and be sure it's very very easy how about you you have something to say absolutely totally I do what actually resonated with me when nj was talking was um how affects teenagers basically you know we think that you know in my interactions with teenagers I've seen where teenagers are you know a bit withdrawn they're not interactive they don't want to talk to anybody and with my taking oh is some sort of a personal or a family challenge that they are probably going through not knowing that probably the child has some sort of mental challenges which I don't want to say child has dementia or something so it is important to also look out for these symptoms like nj and go to the hospital and tackle it at the early stages because children tend to react in such a way that it's the no no it's it there is no going back about it and you ask okay why is this child feeling like this why is this child talking like this and the child tries to express his or her feeling and we feel oh you're too young to be talking like this or feeling like this do you have any problem are you paying any deal are you paying never bill I do you have 50 children or something that you're thinking of how to feed them or stuffs like that not knowing that probably that child has some psychological issues that the child is trying to resolve and maybe for some reason I think you actually get to know what causes it but whatever happens is it's essential that when a child is depressed or when the child is going through some sort of mental problem and the child is not expressive about it it's important that the child seeks help either through the parents or the child is taking to a professional absolutely so what did you find for us in the news easy okay my news it's a few good story basically and it's all about brain implants basically and it is it's so interesting to me because the the story is about an individual who couldn't walk and he was giving that yardstick or giving life to be able to you know walk again this is a story from BBC sorry I have a cold this is a story from BBC and it is about a young man who couldn't walk I'm trying to dig out my story give me a second please just a minute so this is story about the young man who couldn't walk and he was paralyzed and they had to implant some sort of electrical what's it called some sort of electrical stuff into his brain for him to be able to walk and all he just has to do is to think about it basically for him to be able to walk is a case of you know it's a case of the power of the brain and the power of the mind how the mind works basically and a self-motivation he is a young man who had the positives in his mind that he could walk again with the implants in his head and when it was implanted in his head his name is Gert Jan Oskam a 40-year-old dutch man and he was paralyzed in a sighting accident about 12 years ago he says that the use of the electronic implants that wirelessly transmits his thoughts to his legs and feet has changed his life completely now why the story actually resonated with me is the power of the mind the power of positive thoughts pardon me the power of positive thoughts and how it affects the body sometimes we think positively and we think oh when we think positively it doesn't have any you know impact in our body yes this is a simple example of the power of the mind and the neurons that we have in our head how it affects our body our brains how it affects our body and the power of technology as well which is we which is currently totally almost absolutely yes amazing another thing that yes another thing that actually resonated with me is affordability for those in developing countries when will this we will get there we'll get there some of these things i mean healthcare is not healthcare is not cheap anywhere in the world right so i mean we'll we'll definitely get there but i like the fact that you know everything they say the battles of life starts and finish in the mind so if you are able to conquer what some of the things you know your your deep seated thoughts you know i was just having a conversation with someone last night and i said see a lot of times we self sabotage because our thoughts are not in alignment with what we say or what we want or what we want to do right so until you are able to align your thoughts to you know like the results you're expecting and all of that then you start to see results in your life and and i like the technology because again it goes back to how powerful the mind is you know i like that all right so ng what did find personally news well my news is not so not a feel good one yes um this is it come the news has been brought to us on about bensi nidaho the bensi nidahosa university final year students who died due to alleged negligence um the student who was identified as bruno chigose the um in some posts in on instagram you can see him share him and his friends sharing news of his death because he was left unattended to for hours at the school clinic which was not properly equipped and when his friends insisted for him to be taken to a nearby hospital um they were refused um access why that they needed an official to approve for them to be taken for the student to be taken to the hospital and then when that was done then it became a case of the there was no fuel in the ambulance so there was there was a lot of you know there was a lot of incidents that led to this and while all that time was passing here was a student who was in dire need of medical attention was left unattended to and due to that he lost his life a 400-year student so it comes as um you know very sad news because um the school would have to give a an account and a report on how um on what exactly transpired and how this student lost his life on the grounds of the school premises and it's quite you know we've been having we've had certain um conversations about situations and issues like this you know the school not taking proper you know control of how the process is this is a case of an emergency there is absolutely no reason why a student who needs the medical attention should be left unattended to for over five hours that is a very long time so you can imagine if it was something that maybe he was convulsing and you know how quickly that seems to be the also university is the one that is owned by the dahusa family right that's different from we need an university no very different families okay so i think we would have to you know would have to write to the appropriate authorities you know to call whoever because like it does not make any sense to me you understand it's not in the heat of an emergency you start to say you want to go and look for for permits or exit permits and all that that's that's like i don't understand how we value human lives in this country right this is a needless death you do understand that so there are some things that you know that we did everything possible and this thing it just had to happen the person had to die but this one right if there was a medical attention and i think if it is if the and if the parents would allow let's have an autopsy let's stop having all these things is a god as giving god as taking let's have an autopsy if it is proven that if he was taken to the hospital between maybe first first to the first hour when the whatever happened the medical attention was needed and he was immediately attended to he would have lived it's an automatic shutdown of the school in in in sense you know it's an automatic shutdown of the school for me the fact that this kind of situation has happened several times and people even the school has gotten away with it if you understand what i mean it just shows you how we value life in the country not even about the university it's not about the university is it that's what i said it's human lives because a lot of lives have been lost you take maybe there's an accident you rush the person to the hospital the individual to the hospital and then the hospital will tell you that they need a police report it's because of the kind of system that we have put in place and that is why it almost seems like we have no value for human life it's quite unfortunate but that's well i think they should the appropriate authorities should really investigate the situation and if something needs to be shut down please i mean people i'm a parent johnerson like after all the years of investing in the life of that child you know after you now lose the child at 400 level over what medical negligence it's not something maybe something happened maybe a tsunami came and took the child away no this this debt should have been avoidable why do we even have universities without well-equipped medical centers so i get it right they might just have very very my because even in my university it was a what's it called like it was a small clinic and all of that when my sister had a medical emergency i mean it was we rushed out to the clinic we were able to like stabilize her before you know before yeah before someone came all the way from benin to take us to to benin to to because there was no hospital but because there was an immediate attention at least she was stable before we now went to the hospital you know and all of that i'm saying to you that this it doesn't make any sense you understand even if you don't have the equipment at least have something that caters to an emergency how do you have an ambulance with no form i'm just saying okay so my story i want to take two stories actually there's one on some young children in nasaba i think there's a school in nasaba that is they believe that these children are being initiated to some some kind of secret cult by marking their hands and all of that i mean this ties back to again what kind of schools are we having who are the people like monitoring these children i remember when i was growing up i have this mark on my on my on my arm right i have the same mark on my arm and i remember we used to do that with matchbox right where we just put it and you know just to test our capacity to withstand heat but this is actually very troubling because from the guy doing the video right he had over 60 something children that it is a is a way of initiating they call it snake bites they call it a snake bite is a way of initiating the children so whatever it is once you have that mark if anybody tries you if any teacher whatever they would they will fight for you they will attack the teacher on your behalf so many things will happen so the the the man making this video was just calling on the education board to please look into it that children are being initiated and these children are all below 15 years old right yeah i saw very very tiny children there so all of them have this marks on their hands and you know he did a survey so he said the way they make this mark i think they use like a paper the paper will be extremely hot they use it to mark you there were some that they marked that the mark didn't show so they had to turn the other side of arm you know where they draw blood from the vein side to to mark it it makes no sense and this is a secondary school a match like the student have been initiated nobody's raising any alarm is this done by students is this done by students by students so students initiate so when you come into the school i would if i've been initiated and i've come i'll mark you so that's how they just continue to transfer the the initiation you know and all of that i don't know what the implications of these initiations are apart from the fact that they say okay whatever it is they fight for you they whatever they attack people on your behalf and all of that but this is this is alarming this is alarming all right so um quickly i want to take another story on let's fix right so is he was saying something i said the school authority should be questioned as well because yeah i'm telling you schools are scary so let me tell you my experience when i was going to serve right nyst i had my baby a tiny baby my arm they posted me to one secondary school in legos here on the mainland i won't call the school just to protect the identity of the is a government school but i was posted there i went to the principal to report to say okay i'm going to be teaching physics right because that's what i studied in school and all of that then she started giving me a long list of um of rules and regulation that if the student talk to me i shouldn't talk back at them if the students are rude i should just leave them if the student do this i said so what's the point of teaching in a class so if i'm teaching and they're making noise i can't caution them i can't correct them that if i do that that by the time i'm coming out they would have slashed my tire they will mark my car the yeah this is a government secondary school in legos here on the mainland right a lot of them are like that so immediately she said it i said please i have a toddler i'm breastfeeding please madam just reject me i know i just told her there and there i told her please reject me so immediately she rejected me i went to a school within the estate i was living a smaller school a private school and that was where i did my youth service because it didn't make any sense i'm i'm already you know partified like this thing that i'm i'm a breastfeeding mother i'm a young girl it's not like i'm particularly old you know some of these children they are bigger than me and all of them you don't tell me that when they are talking when i'm teaching i should not i should not do the i should she gave me a long list i said see immediately she finished i didn't even let her finish i said madam please just type my rejection letter i i take or beg you it's the same love that you have for me that you told me this use the same love to give me a rejection letter send me a love for you though you said she did have a lot oh yeah she loved me enough to to to caution to like prepare me ahead so please another that says with this love that you have just please finish the love send give me a rejection letter and that was how i left me packing all right so i was just going to mention the netflix for those of us that are that let me know about koba the way that our Nigerian guy i'm going to i'm going to i'm going to deal with that boy and he was apologizing the way koba does for uk visa so netflix is saying that i'm going forward i think in the us all the people that have like password that they are sharing password and all of that you will not be able to do that i think they've been able to do some level of crackdown passwords so in case you were planning to say you're not doing um uh what's it called uh what's it called uh you're planning to share your password and all of that if you're in the us is no longer going to be possible will you say breaking news right yes uh the queen of rock and roll tina turner just passed away at the age of 83 that's quite unfortunate wow i loved her energy that woman yeah oh gosh she was oh wow tina she was trying to inspire me gosh past her breakers she sang some of the best she was simply the best yeah simply the best all right so let's go on a break when we come back from the break we want to tell an inspiring story stay with us we'll be right back