 Back for another one Another live video when the narcissist won't leave you alone. It's like just when you think you've got rid of them Here they are Plot in another scheme To get your attention To get your focus away Off of your own life Why do they do that? Why do they keep coming back? Don't they get the idea that you want nothing to do with them? Why do they keep distracting you? Why can't they just leave you alone? The narcissist won't leave you alone because they have no other purpose in their lives You give their life purpose they have no direction They have nothing to do If they had anything else to do They'd be doing that but they don't have anything anything else to do and that's why they keep coming after you That's why they won't leave you alone If they had anything in their lives that was more significant Of course, they would be spending their time with that, but clearly You must be the most important thing in their lives And that's why they can't just leave you alone. They spend all of their time Distracting you Trying to get your attention because they have nothing else to do If they did have anything else to do They would be doing that they keep coming back because They have no purpose or direction, but they try and make it seem like it's something wrong with you They play the victim And that's why they keep trying to pull you back in But you know the only problem with their narrative is That the victim doesn't go chasing after the abuser The predator the perpetrator No, that doesn't happen The victim just wants to be left alone in peace So their narrative doesn't make any sense They're not wanting peace That's why they keep chasing after you That's why they won't leave you alone Because they're trying to take your peace away from you. That's why The narcissist won't leave you alone But what you really need to do when the narcissist keeps doing that Don't allow yourself to get all worked up about it just sit back and just Observe the insanity Observe the crazy-making Let their actions prove to you who they are let them show you who they are While you just sit back and be you don't let them change you Continue to be yourself Because when they're doing all of this That's really what they want They want a reaction out of you They want you to get all worked up and worry about it, but don't let that happen Don't let them control your emotions Because that's really what they're trying to do They're trying to scare you They're trying to make you feel bad When that's how they should be feeling After everything they've done to you they should be the ones who are afraid They should be the ones Who feel guilty and shameful after everything they've done But no they want to project that all into you You just have to decide that you're not going to deal with it You can just sit back and watch the crazy-making play out right in front of you It should only reveal to you everything that you were dealing with Yeah, the narcissist Is not going to leave you alone because They want your attention and These thoughts in their minds They don't know how to deal with them so they need you there to regulate that you're like their Emotional tampon but if you Just stand up and you finally say no I'm not going to do this anymore I'm not going to be your puppet I'm not going to be your emotional punching bag. I Can promise you they will leave you alone They will finally get it That you don't want to deal with them and then they will just move on to another chump Another fool who is willing to accommodate all of their BS But don't let that be you Don't deal with it anymore. I'm not saying that they will just completely go away No, they They're narcissists. They're difficult to deal with They will try to come back by other means Through another person or situation They may try to make false accusations about you and play the victim They may try to take you to court They may try to get you locked up Homeless Losing your job losing your family and friends. They may still try to do all of that Because they can't get to you directly but It's either You will let them You don't let them get to you direct directly Or you just sit there and take it all for the rest of your life Is that really what you want to do? You just want to sit around a person like that and take all their crap all day That's no way to live so yeah, well, it may be difficult at first when you leave and They start throwing all of this garbage at you. It's not going to go on forever It's going to end at some point and at least you won't have to be in contact with them directly Because that's what really pulls you down When they have direct access to you So yeah, which is why I do advise cutting their asses off Go in no contact and moving on with your life. You'll never be happy while these people are around you Never because all they're ever going to do is bring you down Your only option is just to get out of there Go no contact move on with your life but please Do be cautious Because you don't know how they're going to react They might do things that you haven't seen before So protect yourself and you may even have to cut off our members and friends Who are still in contact with a narcissist? Especially if they're still following the narcissist narrative Because they're just going to even indirectly or unknowingly Manipulating you or gaslighting you Into this false narrative that they may be Validating and believing in But you should want no part of it because you already know enough About this person as to why Your desire in to get away from them in the first place So once you already have that thought in your head That you need to get out of there You just have to keep them moving because there's a reason Why you're thinking that way so Don't let your doubts consume you just needed to get out of there You need to cut them off and just move on with your life Because they're never going to change they will always be narcissist They will always treat you the same but you can change you can move on You can be better you can do better it all starts by Detaching yourself from them Because they're the ones that are holding you back Yeah Why the narcissist won't leave you alone? This is it They want your attention They can't deal with Not being able to control you anymore Because once they've Targeted you They just see it as though you're their property for life You're this object that's meant to serve them You have no other purpose But one day you just have to wake up and decide You don't want to do this anymore You don't want to be someone's puppet You don't want to be controlled Our freedom is so important Never let anyone Take your freedom away The only reason they're desiring to take it Is because they have no freedom of their own They're controlled By this inner dialogue inside their heads And they can never break free from it The only thing that suppresses it Is when they have someone that they can control Then that takes the edge off of them But why should you have to do that? Why should you have to give up your life To be an emotional regulation tool For someone Who clearly doesn't have your best interest in mind Which is why I advise To leave and go no contact Because they're never going to see your side of it They're never going to understand you But you can change You can move on And your life will improve greatly Once you do that I have started a new series on the channel Narc Survivor Shorts Where I have short videos Summarizing A lot of the topics that I've already discussed on the channel It's great if you've only got a short amount of time To learn about this disorder The videos are Anything from 20 seconds to Two minutes long So definitely check out that new series if you haven't yet Narc Survivor Shorts And I am now available for one-on-one coaching again So if you are ready to understand more About your situation In a tailor-made session for you And you are desiring to move on and heal from it I do recommend Booking a one-on-one coaching session with me And you can do that on the website Which is And yeah, thank you all for joining me on this live video I hope you all have a great day And there will be more live videos very soon