 Hey guys JR Fisher here. I'm gonna talk to you real quick I've been getting a lot of questions lately about how to do really difficult things How do you how do you get good at stuff when you're not good at it? And you know, I was thinking about that. I was thinking I might as well share with you guys I'm in the office right now. You can kind of look around there and see starting to get it all set up I got my whole sound screens there. There's the view from the back So I was I was doing some videos in the day here So this what you guys see some that but anyhow, how do you do that? How are you going to do things that are difficult? Especially if you're not good at it. I mean, especially if you're not good at it Maybe you're not good at doing videos. Maybe you're not good at writing blogs Maybe you're not good at selling stuff online. How do you get good at these things if you're not good at them? I mean, that's that's the $50,000 question or million-dollar question nowadays, right? Everybody wants a million bucks And I want to share with you some things that I use and that I've seen that other people use that has worked Really well for them. Okay. You ready for this? Here it goes. Here's how you get really good at something if you're not good at it and before I before I tell you how to do this I want you to think about going to the gym. I want you to think about lifting a tremendous amount of weight And if I were to say to you, can you lift this tremendous amount of weight? You would probably look at me and say no, I can't do that. I can't lift that tremendous amount of weight But if I were to say to you hey, you can't lift that tremendous amount of weight But do you know a plan that you could get to the point where you could lift a tremendous amount of weight? And you would probably say to me well, yeah, I mean, I know a plan for it The plan is get in there every day and lift a little bit of weight and keep adding to it until you could lift a lot of weight So, yeah Did I just give it away? Did I just give it away? Did I just give away the secret to getting really good at things that you aren't really good at? Yeah, I did. I just gave away the secret to it. You're not going to be good at things initially You're just not you can't be good at stuff initially. It takes time. It takes effort Let me get the you got the wrong lighting here. I'm gonna get here. I'm gonna go to the kitchen Okay, so I'm in the house kind of walking around now, but to get good at things Here's the big secret to getting good at things do them Do them do those things that you aren't really good at and just keep doing them and then guess what happens after a while After a while you get really good at them. That's the big secret now You say we'll tell you what's what about the motivation part because if I'm not good at something and I'm not doing well at it How in the world am I gonna be motivated to do something that I'm not good at? Here's the answer. You won't be You won't be so what do you got to do? You got to force yourself to do things that you're not good at and you got to force yourself over and over again Until you start to get a little bit good at it and then once you get a little bit good at it You're gonna be motivated. So here's the truth force Comes before motivation motivation doesn't come before force You got to force yourself to do things you don't want to do you got a you got a Understand but see if you understand that then you don't mind forcing yourself so much So if I know that I'm not good at making a video if I know I'm not good at that But I know that if I keep doing it That I will be good at it and that I will like doing it then I'm probably going to do videos But that's the thing people don't realize that they expect to be really good at something Or they expect to be really motivated to get good at something and neither of those two things are gonna happen They're just not going to happen. Let me run back here in the office here I'm not sure if the lights better there. You guys won't come with me in here But I'm not I'm not sure why people seem to think that they let's back Let me go that way I'm not quite sure why people seem to think that They're supposed to be motivated to do things that they're not good at it doesn't even make sense if you think about it So if you're one of those people and you've been trying to get Motivated to do things that you're not really good at quit it. It's not gonna happen It's not gonna happen. You're just not gonna be motivated to think you're not good at So what do you have to do you have to force yourself? But the way you force yourself is that you come to the realization that if you keep forcing yourself You will get better at whatever that thing is whether it's singing or making videos or writing a blog or whatever the heck It's selling stuff online if you understand that principle that if you do things You don't like doing but if you do them enough you get good at them and when you get good at them It does motivate you then you become motivated Then you can do all these things that you just thought you couldn't do it's that simple So I just I was just thinking about that want to share that with you guys today if you Have had a hard time, you know doing stuff that you're not good at put a comment in the comments section below If you've got a question about that or anything to do with selling online put those comments below I'm gonna be going live a lot more often I love getting questions and comments from you guys So when you put those comments down there, you know, I can help you out. I can answer your questions I can do stuff for you and Make make you move forward because that's what you really want to do you really want to move forward You really want to get good at things. You really want to make money. I mean bottom line is this channel It's all about making money online. So I mean, I know that's what you really want to get good at is making money online But you've got to understand all the principles that go behind it It's not a lot of people say well, it's it's just finding a good product No, it's not because you can have the best product in the world And if you don't understand emails if you don't understand advertising you don't understand marketing and sales pages and opt-ins It doesn't matter what you really need to understand is how to market stuff how to market stuff online See if you can market stuff online, you can market really good stuff You can market mediocre stuff and if you're a really good marketer, you could market crappy stuff Now I'm not saying I would you market crappy stuff But the point is if you learn how to sell online it works on any product any service anything you're selling It's it's the skill to market online and that's what I figured out over the years That's why I share with you guys on this channel So that you can learn how to do these things and if you learn how to do these things It doesn't matter what the product is. It's irrelevant. I mean you give me any product. It doesn't matter We're going to approach it the same way We're going to find our audience and we're going to you know put content out there And we're going to you know have people opt in and we're going to send them emails and we're going to sell that product Doesn't matter what the product is. It's irrelevant. The skill you want to learn is not how to sell a product online It's how to market anything online how to market anything online So put your comments in there Do me a favor, you know like this video if you would share it with somebody else Don't forget to subscribe hit the subscribe Now I can't talk get the subscribe button down there if you would Also, don't forget to turn on all bell notifications. I got a bell. Wait, where's my bell? Let me get over here. I got a bell over here somewhere. Where's the bell bell the bell Here it is. Here it is. 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