 We don't enjoy it. That is a turn off. You tell me, oh, that guy was this, that we don't want it. But you pretend to be listening and caring. But that is the role. That is the role you picked when you took the position. When you take that position, when you take that job position. And if we don't speak to you about it, you're like, oh, you don't open up what you want. Men are the most difficult people to please. I think so. I have just said it. We just don't know how to handle life. No. I think Storm is just, Storm thinks like a man. Ile movi nik twaji. Think like a man. Act like a woman. Some things like a man and act like a woman. That's why it's very difficult to deal with men. But anyway, remember your Facebook at 254 on Twitter 254 channel, on Instagram at 254 underscore channel. It's getting hot in here. We're just talking about dealing with difficult people in the society. We have some references. Some great men in the Bible who dealt with some very difficult people. Yes. We have Joseph who dealt with these 12 brothers. Then he also dealt with Portis Faswaif. There must be women in the mix of difficult people. He just had to say women. Okay. This old man should get out of this. Tell me anybody who dealt with a difficult person and there is no man in the mix. David dealt with Goliath. Is there a woman there? David dealt with Goliath. Is there a woman there? There are so many women in the mix. David dealing with Goliath. How is that? Goliath was married. So it was there. He was married to a child? Yes. I feel a child. So it was this woman who kept on telling Goliath that how can you be challenged by a small person like that? So you're saying he did not feel like he wanted to help you? Yes. It's women who push people to do things that they don't want to do. We are trying to celebrate our women. Yes. But we must also tell them. Don't invite us next time. Okay. We have David as well. David had a situation. David was the one who became king. Yes. It's my mentor in the Bible. It's my role model. David was the shepherd? I am. I was a leader king. I've been a leader throughout my life. Throughout my life from childhood. I started being student leader in the campus from year on till I finished. And I'm still a leader now. I'm still a leader now. He was a musician and I am a musician. Sheffard, you said Sheffard as well. Are you still a Sheffard? Yes. What are you Sheffard? Where's your flock? Is it in... She's one of them. She's one of them. She's one of them. She's one of them. So this guy had a... The only thing was challenging him was women. That's where we are different. And that's why now we know somebody said that people learn by experience. But you can't afford in this short life, you can't afford to do all the mistakes. Then you learn from them. So you have to learn from other people's mistakes. So I'm learning from my mentor's mistakes. Who's David? He's here, he's mistake was women. I deal with those women perpendicularly. Let me just say that even the Bible says behind a very... Is it the Bible or somebody wrote a voice? No, not the Bible. But the Bible says... Okay, let me say this. Just say a voice. Okay, let me say this. Even the Bible says something but I know that he who finds a wife finds a good thing. Thank you. So you're here and that other wife's person said behind a successful... Man, there's a woman. Thank you. So you're here blabbing about women doing na na na and they are very powerful women that lead poor women. What we don't know or what must we put on load that wives are very few. There are so many women. But those who qualify... Guys, I'll stop you with that. You're coming by a son of a woman. Those who qualify to be called wives are very few. Okay, how about husbands? Are there enough husbands out there? No, but that Bible says that he who finds a wife there are people who find women but they don't find wives. Do you have enough husbands out there? Yeah, they have. They have just found... Answer the question. Okay, do you have enough husbands for those wives? Yeah, they ask that. Okay. You count yourself as one of them. Great. Don't write. We have Jesus. We have Jesus. We have Jesus. We have Jesus. Who is the father of dealing with difficult people? He dealt with so many difficult people from recruiting the disciples to the people who wanted to lynch him and to King Herod. Yes. To the Pharisees. And the devil himself. And he met the devil himself. So Jesus dealt with some difficult people. The reason I love stories is that it's easier to learn from stories because as you said it's easier to learn from other people's experiences. Yes. And from what we see these guys became very successful. The people I picked they became very successful after dealing with very difficult people. So at the end of the day who determines what you are going to be? There is one thing I want to pick from your statement first that if you are not dealing with difficulties then you are very far from success. If people are not opposing you then you are not doing something. You are not doing something. If you are doing something if people are seeing something good in you then you have to meet them head on. Because the reasons why some people are difficult is because they think that the people should shine and you are getting in their way of shining. That is you are attracting some looking when it's them who should. For example, David. No David had deal with first the king of that land called Sol. Because Sol was the king and David was shining he was a good musician he was a good leader he was anointed and all that. Because David was shining Sol didn't like the shining of the David. But David kept on shining until he came there. I think the longest serving king of Israel after Sol. So if you are on your way up there must be people who are thinking you are stealing the light from them and now they want to stop you. So you must have difficult people when you are doing something right. Every new people is successful including politicians. Only one politician worldwide who shun and didn't pass through difficulties. Who shunned like somebody. Like now the most famous one of the most famous politicians in this country we know him the other side of Varshik. He suffered several years difficult people who dealt with him and now he is shining. He is not become president but he is one of the best politicians and one of the African leaders the first person who comes to your mind is Mandel. He suffered. He dealt with difficult people. So if you are dealing with difficult people difficult people are coming to your life they are throwing you are doing something right. You know you are doing something right. You have a big destiny right there. You have a destiny. Okay. How about you my dear? I think what you said that who defines you I think you define yourself. First. Yes. Self awareness. Self conscious. Yes. I know that I am this and this. I know that I am not this and this. So if you come to me and you are giving me a difficult time because you think I am this way and this way that is your problem. You deal with it. Because as for me I think to have peace of mind like to be peaceful and to accept who you are is the first thing that helps you to deal with difficult people. Okay. And then the second thing I wanted to say it's like in reference to Jesus you know Jesus had to deal with a lot of difficult people but what let me say this what inspires me the most is that Jesus there's no way there's no point that he just sat there kept quiet and did nothing about it. He always did something. He always did something. He always knew what they were thinking and he told them all for that. So if you are out there thinking that life is going to be easy and no one is going to bother you sit down comfortably, get fat and continue enjoying poverty. But if you want to be successful in this life Deal with difficult people. Deal with difficult lives. Handle them one by one. Handle them one by one. Now all they have come here I know you are difficult I am going to do this for you. I'll deal with you but sometimes just tell somebody I know you hate me so much and I'm so sorry that you I had to be given birth to and you had to hate me but we are in this world together can't we just try to get along life is too short to be dealing with difficult people stay in your lane and stay in my I'll do my best not to to close to your lane I'll make sure you don't see me in this corridor if you are workmates and you hate me so much I would just come to you and say I know you hate it along this corridor together I will make sure that during lunchtime I let you walk in first so that I can walk in after just don't be so focused on people who are making your life difficult and forget your potential I think the people make you feel difficulties because they fear your potential they look at you and they see your future because they will not be giving you difficulties if they are not seeing something great in you so they try to suppress it but if you overcome that fear of their difficult people and just deal with them you realize you become more and more successful in your potential one of the words right there let's sample what the viewers have to say and this is my Twitter Facebook I took on a professional skomos and I said I'm locked from Kipia I'm stuck on Y-54 like glue Nisha Ipatana and principal Kim Moda and they say I suffered play for me my Maserati by all career alright so Maserati is a lady lady take care of yourself Maserati is a cow I know you are not a you you are becoming difficult alright but he is saying the conversation has helped him and he is the principal he is very difficult isn't there an easy principal there is never an easy principal but it's a tough job so you have to be tough principal is a fatherly deputies deputies are worse deputies are worse why you want to come soon I know my hands alright but the husband he is saying husband we have locked the case he is saying Walu wa two kahau una lenga storya utawa lenga ce na thank you husband he is called husband shout out to his husband they are free otawa lenga je alright I like them we have what you have where you puff up in the family there he Jiya is saying lock from home Kupanish akonikli, izi ka wakumetsu mua rivi ejo biaki This is an approach Ya, it's not can help But karma is real also You know when you mess up somebody, it's always going to come back to you Kama umtastia mahali Kutam taftia wa ben, nasu wewa tu Hala fuwa semeni wewa ulim leda Stom ya Uzi ga stove ya Alright Kalale wa you guys saying Washen from Kitale I love this Alright Mr. Hope Iza ga na sema Kutam be kutam be Kips Vincent se go ya na sema Washen life from Naguru County Ya watu kaha wa ko Si wong wa especially ya kia una maisha ya ko Iki change kwa Mzuri ana kwa umbea Upate ma baya Siji kama mungu jipu eza ma umbea Ma umbea watu ana Iki he mingikia ati They are some prayers that God just looks and laughs So, they can hit back on you Munguana Chiye Kabayu ros muand Ya ma Heza dumunguana Chiye Kaaba Not enough Love probably already Awo wa tuwa kuna Uwaku de reply unesa tuwa Ni ku kimya Nakusonga mbali naaw We have two ways of dealing with this. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. We have two ways of dealing with this. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. We will see what we can do for you. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. You go low, they go low. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. We will see what we can do for you. We are going to mix the two and find a perfect solution. you see, no the wish. beides. alright. thank you very much for your thank you very much for sliding in the Facebook and being part of this conversation right there but we need to wrap it up I'd like to get your last insight to refer to some of these comments. Kuna mese ma kuchezachini. I'd like to know your take on kuchezachini as a solution to this problem. Kuchezachini. I think kuchezachini ni kama kwa kip silent, kwa kip off. Kulenga story and that works if you have the patience. Kwa na jwa mtu aiziku kwa zaki leksiku na kuchezachini. Pero leksiku iteli puka. So there's room for...there's room for explosion. So I think you do what makes you feel better. All right. I see kaisu as a conflicted opinion right there. You can kuchezachini for the start, but with a warning that this is not going to continue. If you continue a love to rise and stage it with you, you can choose a chini, but let her know that you will not be that way forever. Ya, mtua kwenberas bele ya watu, uchese 2 chini, siya tazue ya? Tazue ya? Tazue ya baka sasa kujem, baka bele ya? So there's only enough chini you can play? Ya, you can choose a chini, but without warning, without caution. Revenge as a solution, I'd like to know. Revenge never works, revenge never works, for me I think revenge never works. It's better to forgive and forget, I think so, because if you forgive and not forget. If you forgive and not forget, that means you've not really forgiven, you see, because you keep remembering. But if you forgive and not forget, you're not leaving room for that person to come and do that thing again. Oh, so you should forgive and not forget? I keep thinking that this might be offensive to the Christians. So if I keep telling you that... The Christians might come for my neck, but that is just my police. That you should forgive but you don't forget? Yes, remember, just keep that person... So that when it comes to baby 8th time, you tell him, on Monday you told me that you forgive. All of the stage you did this, I forgive you. So you keep remembering them and then you say, now you've done it again, I'm dealing with you. Yes, that is the next step. The memory is not for the ultimator to deal with the person ultimately. The memory is just to keep them at bay so that they don't get a chance to do that thing again. No, if you keep on remembering, that means you're planning on revenge. Yes. You're planning on revenge. At least we agree on something with the Buddha. Hey, thank God. So revenge is not a solution. Forgive and forget? No, forgive and forget. I think forgiving and forgetting doesn't mean you entertain that nonsense. You kick the nonsense out of him or her and tell him that I'm not willing to get into this fight because I'm a Christian or because of this and that. And please, if you continue, I may not go on forgiving you. All right. We have this situation of following your dream. You have the haters, you have the discourages. You have everything going against you. But it gets to a point where the dream is not valid anymore. Or you feel like the dream is not valid anymore. Why should the dream stop being valid? Because if you have a dream, you have a vision, you should pursue it till you get it. I told you about the vent side of the meat. That white meat. You try chewing. People are eating. People on the table are eating. You try to finish this. It's not getting over. It's getting tasteless. It's just there. You are not getting satisfied. You are just chewing. It's like chewing gum. It's like chewing gum. And people are continuing to eat. So there's that vein you can decide to put aside and continue eating in other flesh. Oh. Okay. You don't always have to give up on the whole dream. Yes. You can pick some specs. Yeah. That aspect. That is it. Okay. Okay. In case you are very wise, that's why you have a wise plot like this. That's why you wear that hat. All right. Hat of wisdom. All right. What about you when it comes to giving up on your dreams? When it comes to giving up on your dreams, it's because if you are starting to think that I'm going to give up on a dream that was important to me, it's because you are giving the people who are giving you difficult times a chance in your life. Like they are now defining you. You no longer define yourself. They are defining you. So you are listening more to them than listening to yourself. Their words have an impact. Yes. Yes. So you are not thinking, that may be true. I'm not caught up for this. So I'm going to give up on this dream. That was very, very important to you. So my point still goes back to stop listening. Be your own self. Look at yourself. For John. Yes. Another thing, if you are set up for a journey, go for it. Stop throwing stones at every dog that barks at you. That you are from here, say you are going to state house. And then... It had to be state house, because you don't have your center. Yes. It's so good. It's so good. I am high. Senior comrade. Okay. You are going to state house. You can be surprised that one day you can be president of the state republic. I'm very hopeful guys. But we'll have to start with Senate. It is possible. Senate president. Yes. So when you are going to state house, people, some dogs could be barking at you. So when you stop every time, pick a stone, throw at a dog that barks at you, you can be late for state house. So just go. Just go. Just go. Sometimes don't listen to them. Yeah, don't listen to them. Don't even sometimes react to them. No. They may run after you. Thank you very much. I've learnt a lot today. Yes. I've learnt so much from you guys today. And I hope our viewers have learnt as well. How can they catch you on social media so that they get more of this wisdom? Palikwa DMs. I am still the storm everywhere on all social platforms. Just look them straight into their eyes. Again, which one is that? That one or that one? This one. I am still the storm. Just I am under school there. Storm everywhere. For more wisdom, check I am still the storm. All right. For me, from me. Why span from you or everyone? There is the source of wisdom. All right. Sky is low limit. Go where you want to go. And you can go whether people hate you or not. And the fact that people hate you, people are fighting you, is one factor or is one indicator that you are on the right track. Because there is no, the trees that don't have fruits don't get stoned. It's only the trees that have fruits that get stoned. You can't chop that. You can't chop that. You can never stone a tree that does not have fruits. You only stone a tree with fruits. So if they come at you with stones, it means you're doing something right. No how to deal with the discourages, no how to deal with the haters, no how to deal with the obstacles that come your way. And always follow your dream. And never give up on the whole dream. Just find some specs and put aside and carry on with the journey. Forge on with it. This has been Qwens Wednesday. We had, I am still the storm. Oguda kaisu, Sankhara, Senya Govredi. Kaisu. Kaisu rather. And myself by Moses. Tomorrow is hip-hop. Thursday. You don't want to miss it. Don't go nowhere. Don't take that out because we still have a lot. I'll end up for you today on why to fight for.