 So Sheikh we have a question from an anonymous viewer and it reads, there is a brother that I really would like to marry but he is the wrong color in my parents' eyes and is a widower with a young child who is two years older than me. How important is it for me to receive my father's blessings? My father will never give in or never give his blessings as he is being impossible and I don't want to marry anyone else. I make my own money and I'm 31 years old and this is from, as I said, a sister in the UK who is an anonymous sister in the UK. There's a lot of sections to this question Sheikh. Help us out, help us out. Her out really? Yeah indeed. Someone's the wrong color, I don't know what the right color is. I actually wanted to understand, I don't understand what's the meaning of wrong color. What's that by the way? I don't know. Because Allah is the best of all colors right? Indeed. Allah created all the colors so I don't know the wrong, the right, but indeed. There is no right, wrong color. Yeah. Not in Islam but maybe she did specify in her dad's eyes. Islam doesn't encourage the idea of racism because if you look at the life of the Holy Prophet ﷺ you could see him with his companions from all over the world if I can say. Yeah. And Imams of Ahlul Bayt ﷺ not only that their companions were from different ethnicities but even they married. Some of them are Imams, they themselves had features of people who are not from Makkah in Medina for example Africans and you have ladies from Africa who are married by Imams, so Islam doesn't entertain the issue of color because of colors, marriage can't happen, that's very wrong. And maybe to say that someone as a parent, as a father or mother if they have this idea and notion that we will marry our children only to a certain people from certain background because of color then they're committing haram because this racism is haram in Islam. So what does a child do where we're taught to respect our parents and we need their blessings, we need their daughters and they're saying okay this person's, I mean it could be anybody could be Arab, non-Arab, everybody is precious about their own community. So what is a child's responsibility that the parents are committing a haram as you just said? So what can that child do in the context?