 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head dating coach and founder of commitmentconnection.com and in this video We're going to talk about how to flirt with a guy over text messages So everybody's using text messages these days, and it seems like nobody wants to talk on the phone anymore Even though it's a lot more intimate to talk on the phone So if we're all going to text you need to know how to flirt over text To connect with and attract the guy that you're talking to so that he doesn't disappear over text messages And so I've got three different text messages that are fun and flirty and Really really great. So I think you're gonna love these the first text message I have is called the dream of me text and so you're gonna send this to a guy after you meet him for the first time if he doesn't Text you first you can Send this to him. You can even if he does send you a text first you can send it to him at the end of the night It's kind of a flirty text and it shows that You're showing interest in him, but you're doing it in a very attractive way without coming on too strong And so though this is what it looks like it says I hope you had a good night dream of me wink And really what you're doing is you're just You know you're just showing interest in him in a in a very flirty way and you're you're kind of being like hey You like me, you know dream of me tonight, you know and make sure you throw that wink in there Because that's important So the second one is making boring fun and and I love I love these text messages. They're they're Really really flirty and they're awesome and and what you're doing is you're taking a normal Boring question and you're making it fun by guessing answers to it that couldn't possibly be true so You can do this with any normal boring get to know you question to make it fun and playful and flirty and so For instance if you if this is a guy that you know and he's a white guy Who's obviously from the United States somewhere you could always ask him so where are you from originally wait? Let me guess China Right and so basically you're you're you know, you're kind of teasing him You're like you're like hey, where are you from? Oh, you're you're from time, you know China and it's like well obviously he's not from China, but it's it's a joke and it's It's actually it's really funny over text message. So just do it. It's funny Okay, and so the last one that I'm gonna show you is called flip the script and This is kind of a fun way to play with gender roles and make a game out of it if he adds so for instance If he asks you what you do what you could say is why are you a gold digger? You just want me for my money wink, right? And so you're flipping the script on him. You're you're acting like a guy right who is Afraid of a gold digger, you know trying to get all of his money and it's kind of funny and It kind of breaks the ice and it turns It turns a normal question into something that's that's fun and interesting kind of like the one before but You're not making a guess. You're just playing with gender roles So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract Mr. Right into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon