 The worst thing the Narcissist does to you. During the time you spent with the Narcissist, they did some really sick and hurtful things to you. They did things that you probably wouldn't do to your worst enemy. They treated you in a way that you did not deserve. I believe that there is one thing that the Narcissist does to us that is worse than anything else. You may or may not agree with this, but it is something that I would like to share and I hope that it resonates with you. The Narcissist strips you of your freedom. They strip you of your power or right to act, speak or think as you want. You are no longer free. You are no longer free to think how you want to think, feel how you want to feel or act how you want to act. You become imprisoned or enslaved. They take away your freedom of choice or action until you no longer have the equal opportunity for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. You are no longer free to be yourself. You are no longer free to participate in the very things that might identify you, the very things that might indicate your characteristics or qualities. You become an empty shell of who you used to be. You lose everything that once made you you. The Narcissist was once attracted to your characteristics or qualities. Your characteristics or qualities attracted them to you because they offered something of interest or advantage to the Narcissist. It was something that they believed to benefit them in some way. Something that they could make use of, but then they tried to contain it. They tried to keep it all to themselves. They tried to suppress or hide your beauty from the world because they already knew that they were not deserving enough to possess it and they didn't want anyone else to make you aware of that. So they hid you away and suppressed everything good about you and they tried to make you believe that you were not as good as you are. They had to make you believe that you were less than them. If you were to know your true worth, your true value, you would be wondering what you're even doing around them. You would realize that you deserve so much more. You deserve someone that understands you. You deserve someone that treats you right. But the Narcissist doesn't want you to know that. They don't want you to know that you deserve so much more than the scraps that they are given to you. They want you to think that that's all you're worthy of. So they take away or suppress anything good about you, anything that makes you stand out, anything that might cause you to outshine them. Now you can no longer be yourself. You can no longer do what you want to do. You can no longer think for yourself because any time that you try to have your own thoughts, the Narcissist forces them to alternation onto you. Any time that you try to express your own feelings, the Narcissist forces you to accept that they are invalid. You feel trapped. You feel like you can't get out. You're stuck in a loop of trying to seek validation from a person who can never be satisfied. You're changing every little thing about yourself. But it seems that nothing you do is ever quite enough. It makes you feel like you can't leave. It makes you feel like you can't get out because they have trained you to believe that you're not good enough on your own. You can't survive on your own. Without them you've lost all confidence in yourself. And now you don't even know who you are anymore. Your characteristics and qualities, your values and beliefs. They took all of that away from you. And now you're left with nothing but an empty shell of who you used to be. You can't stay with them. But then you can't leave. You were a bird flying through the sky. Just living your life. But not just any bird. You had the most brightly coloured feathers. And the Narcissist was very attracted to this. They saw you flying around, enjoying your life. And they knew that you would never be around them. If you knew their true intentions of wanting to take advantage of you. So one day they set a trap. They lured you in by displaying something that you wanted to see. They placed some bird food on the ground. And then they grabbed you in their hands. And placed you into a cage. You could no longer fly. You could no longer be free. And in this cage they began to take advantage of you. They began to use you for their own benefit or gain. Without any consideration or concern for you. They enslaved you for their own amusement. They took away your freedom. They took away your power or right to be you. And that is, in my opinion, the worst thing that the Narcissist does to you. It is very damaging. You no longer enjoy life. You become depressed or even suicidal. Because we're not meant to be imprisoned or enslaved. We're supposed to be free. And that is why I make these videos. That is why I am sharing this information with you. The Narcissist may have locked you in a cage. But this information is the key. The key to your freedom. Be free. Remember who you are. Fly far away and never look back. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching and inquiries are coming in with me and ask for other coaching at gmail.com. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.