 Hey guys welcome back to the 21 convention. I'm here with Socrates spoke the first day here the kickoff speaker I was I was amazing speech kind of mind-blowing just a Topic I wasn't expecting whatsoever, but well I was expecting it from you But not not a real common topic to you know the general twist of things Can you give the viewers just a quick overview or something? Yeah, we went a little long Unfortunately, I wasn't able to cover everything I was intending probably about two-thirds of it and a lot of it pretty quick But it dealt primarily with understanding the age in which we live in The you know the dating contextual environment understanding both the age when we live in the cultural context The political context and then ultimately the biological context and drivers that shape our society and many of the things That men have to respond to and obviously how do we you know create? Relationships within ourselves screen partners efficiently and then project that out into the life and build the structured relationships that we actually want and You know we answer that by developing relationship skills management skills and then relationship maintenance skills I think you you called it the relationship talk or the sex talk that your father never had with you That was the alternative pitch to a really long-winded one that was kind of a search engine Created type of element, you know I think the original title was that relationship building in the earthquake landscape of post-feminist culture That yeah, that just didn't roll off the tongue But ultimately was the discussion your father never had about you know with you about relationships And I think it's vital that everyone hear this talk. I mean it's it's so important people just you know They go into relationships without any plan without any idea what they're doing and then they end up Well and to be fair, it's the talk I give myself I mean it's it's not just that I know all this information It's stuff that I reflect upon on a regular basis about my personal life What's going on in it and the day-to-day kind of coaching that you self do to make sure you do have relationships whether they're intimate relationships business Relationships personal relationships or or whatnot. You know, they're they're very very apical across a broad range of relationships and What brings you to the event? Why is it that you come god? You know to sit out and say I want to hear the speakers would be the primary one, but that's not where the real energy is It's it's in the discussion Between events and this year in particular was really dramatic from the standpoint that you had a number of Talks being given and there was a common thread it seemed like throughout the entire Three-day event and how different groups whether it's fitness health nutrition Whether it was men from proving their personal and sex lives, you know They all kind of relatively had this common thread of being accountable to your own life Self-educating and really getting out there and trying to do new things and discovering and finding the measures in which to measure your life bar and to hear that from a number of different ways was phenomenal and was it was through small Conversations it was through group conversations in between and then hearing the latter speakers actually tie their talks in from previous ones So they fed upon the other and it was just a absolutely tremendous three days. Yeah, really was I agree. Yeah, thanks so much for coming Thank you for having me. Socrates guys