 Some days ago my parents called me and during our conversation They chipped in that they needed some cash for feeding for the month a few weeks before I had sent some money to them for their upkeep Well, I took some time to reflect and then realized that wow suddenly now I have to take care of my parents Yet it wasn't so long ago when I used to live with them and they would take care of me as young people It is so easy to think the time is slow But time does fly one minute you're young and the next minute you're getting married and starting a family Life comes upon you so suddenly and so delaying on changing could set you back faster than you think when really this doesn't have to be Whether you like it or not as you grow older you will make a lot of changes Those changes will either be forced upon you by life or you would make them before they are even forced at all Which have a way one of the highlights of getting older is that you start to drop some old habits Suddenly some things that used to matter when you were younger stops mattering again because life has showed inevitable Responsibilities into your lap in today's video I'll be sharing with you five habits you should change in your 30s if you're new here Subscribe to this channel so you don't miss other interesting videos like this one Start loving yourself more your life success is based so much on how much you love yourself Because your self-esteem will either be improved or decreased based on how much you love yourself I know it is sometimes a difficult thing for young people to love themselves Hence why they tend to hang around wrong friends to feel cool since your life success in all its entirety is based on your self-esteem Love yourself that means start to appreciate yourself Understand how smart you are and why you're different you may not have the same talent as others But you sure have what others do not have the basis of loving yourself is finding out who you are what your strengths are And what your weaknesses are then you would know what you're capable of doing and will be content to put yourself in your place all the time Love yourself. This is the beginning of achieving a life of success to start building your dream private life Your 30s are a great time to start to build your dream private life Whatever you desire to be in the future have a home start a family achieve a career have kids You should start to work on them during your 30s Some goals you ought to have started in your 20s can still be started in your 30s Your personal life will play a major role in your life success and satisfaction So get started on the goals you have set for yourself right now Lay out plans on what you can do each year now that you're in your 30s and start to deliberately work on them There is so much you can and should do in your 30s, which you may not be able to do in your 40s 3 start pursuing work that you actually love if you don't love it Don't do it if you're not passionate about it. Don't do it. That's a personal mantra Maintaining firm backing on new endeavors in my life. Why is this important? Because you only find constant happiness fun and satisfaction when you pursue work You actually love many people wake up each morning to resume a job They hate and live frustrated lives even though they seem to be earning big love what you do And if you miss that kind of work in your 20s do all you can now that you're in your 30s to find such work It is in your 30s that you can build the solid base of happiness fun and satisfaction for yourself people Usually experience mid-life crisis because they do not find themselves doing what they love and all this years They had been doing what did make them happy. Don't wait till the time you're older to find out. You made a mistake For stop comparing yourself to others Nobody is better than you and you're not better than others Stop making that mistake that someone is better than you neither Bill Gates. No, Matt Zuckerberg is better than you We all have different games to play in life and we aren't all suited to do the same thing I learned this a long time ago and have used it to appreciate my gifts and talents more Appreciate your own talents gifts and strengths more You are right where you're supposed to be in the country Society and environment you need to be to achieve the kind of success you life was made for there may be external changes You need to make to succeed But the most important thing is to believe in yourself to never be unwise to think that someone who knows Mathematics is more brilliant than you the same person made this like English lessons and poetry Whereas you love poetry and art you both aren't less special So don't compare yourself with others social media will make you do this your so-called rich friends who pose their pictures and social media Probably have never seen the insides of a luxurious building. So don't kill yourself over that Find your place and stay there five start being content with what you already have Learn to be content with what you have rather than being bitter and envious of others be patient and continue to work patiently Indiligently until your own success comes personally I hate reunions for the reason that you start to compare yourself with others Wondering why someone else was enjoying more success than you when you thought you would be the other So hang around people who encourage you to be content with what you have while you're pursuing your goals and dreams Don't neglect to appreciate what you have Khalil Gibran says your living is determined Not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life Not so much by what happens to you as by the way your mind looks at what happens if this video inspired you like the video We love you