 video. In this one, I'm going to be talking about why the narcissist hates you. Because by now it should be no secret that they do hate you. They can't stand you. But a lot of you may not know the reason why. And I am going to get into that in this video. But before I do that, just like to change my glasses for you so that you can see my eyes. So yeah, that is what we are going to be talking about in this video. The reason why the narcissist hates you. Because a lot of you may not understand the reason why. But I'd just like to say, you know, there is a fine line between love and hate. They're almost the same thing. Because either way, there is an intense feeling. You care about it. You're very interested. You're very concerned about it. To where it fuels these emotions. And that's what it really is when they hate. As I've said before, narcissists, they are haters. And they may even tell you that they hate you. But if you ask them the reason why, they probably couldn't tell you. Because they lack self-awareness. They don't really know why they do what they do. But the reason why they hate you. It's because they have an inferiority complex. They feel inferior to you. They think that they are less than you. And that you are more than them. So they hate on you to make themselves feel better about that. By making you miserable. And they're doing that while you're trying to be nice to them. You're just trying to love them. You don't see how they see. You don't see it that way. You're not thinking about who's better. There's not a competition in your mind. But they cannot receive your love. Which is why it's like no matter what you say, no matter what you do for them, they cannot reciprocate your love for them. Because they're not receiving what you're putting out. They can't receive it because they're very insecure with who they are as a person. And they're looking at your achievements and accomplishments as something that just happened. It was luck. They're not thinking about all of the work that you put in. They just see this finished product of what you've become. And when they first meet you, initially they do admire that. They like it. But then they start to turn against it. Because then they realise that they are not you. And they cannot control you. And that is when they begin to hate you. And that is the reason why they never complimented you on your achievements or success. They were aware of it. But they never gave you credit. Because they don't see the hard work that you put in. They only see the finished product. They don't see all of the steps that you took to get there. And that is why it's so easy for them to devalue you, to put you down and hate you. Because they secretly wish that they were you. They wish they had what you had. But of course they know they can't have that. Because they lack the discipline. They lack the ability to maintain a commitment despite difficulty. And they are also very ungrateful. Which is why they were never satisfied with anything you did for them. They lack determination. They lack a strong character, a purpose. And these are all typical traits that narcissists possess. So of course they're going to hate on you. Because you have those positive qualities and traits that they lack. The determination, the strong character, a firm purpose. And you have made use of those positive qualities and traits to get to where you are today. Because your mindset was different. And that is why you became successful. But of course they don't acknowledge those positive qualities. Because they're only thinking about instant gratification and immediate rewards. Which is why they don't want to work on anything. They don't want to commit. But they will try for a short period of time. But then they will disappear very quickly. And the reason why is because they don't have that right mindset, like you do. The mindset that produces success. Which is why they become very envious and jealous of you. It's why they start to hate you. Because they have an inability to produce what they desire. So they become victims. They feel like the world owes them something. They become very entitled. Because they're looking at it like they're no different to you. So in their minds it's unfair. Because your success, your achievements and accomplishments, it's making them feel worthless inside. But it comes out as arrogance. Where they are exaggerating their abilities and importance. But what they're actually doing is they are trying to compensate for their feelings of worthlessness. That's why they have to exaggerate a lot of who they are. Because they're trying to compensate for how they really feel about themselves. And the problem is they're not doing anything to try to change it. There's a lack of accountability there. And that also prevents them from achieving the result that they want. Because they don't even want to work on anything. They just develop this victim's mindset. Because they feel like they're never really going to achieve what they want. They're never going to get what they really want to have. And that is what causes them to engage in this extreme behavior. Some of them will cheat, lie and steal. Because in their minds they are the victim and it is unfair. So why should they have to play by the rules? Why should they have to act right? This is why they are so impulsive. This is why they make such reckless decisions which leave them even more worse off in an even more less advantageous situation. Or even decisions that affect other people's lives. Because they cannot think logically and rationally. They cannot make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions. Because they are out of touch with normality and reality. They don't have an exit strategy. They see no way out of it. They just feel like everything is against them. Everything is unfair to them. So they become a hater. They begin to hate you. They have no regard for what you've accomplished and achieved. They disrespect it. Or they ignore it. They just don't care about it. Because it's not them that they secretly in desire and wish that it was them. They don't respect what you've done or what you have. They're just trying to find a way to steal it from you or trick you into giving it to them. Because they do not want to put in the effort and work. They don't believe in behaving honestly and fairly and following the rules. So yeah, they greatly dislike it when they see your progress and success. It really gets to them. Because you are happy. And you're doing well. But they don't believe that it can be done fairly and honestly. They think that you've got to lie and deceive and manipulate people. So what do they do? They end up hating you. Now they can't stand you. And why? Because it takes a lot of time, energy and effort for them. Just to get a mere fraction of what you can do so easily and effortlessly. Because you put in the work, you figured out how to do it. And you know how to do it well. And you do it by using your own qualities, talents and skills, which are things that they do not have. Things that they do not possess so it irritates them. Because while it may be so easy and effortless for you, for them, they have to put in a lot of time and effort. So their entire life becomes this big hustle where they have to work tirelessly and rapidly. But there is a lot of disruption, confusion and uncertainty. Because everything is rough and harsh. Everything is very hard for them. So if they have to live their lives in that way, while they have to watch you have it easy, or at least they think you have it easy because they're not looking at the hard work that you had to put in. And that is why it affects them so greatly. And it makes them envy you, it makes them hate you. And why? Well, they hate you because they know you are better than them. In many ways, in more ways than one. And that is why they hate. That is why they can't stand you. Because they see it that it's so easy for you. At least that's what they assume. Yet everything is so difficult, so hard for them. That's why they hate, that's why they envy, that's why they become so competitive. If you notice, though, it's like they always see everything as a competition with you. They're always trying to be better than you. They're always trying to act like they don't need you. You're not important to them. You're just not, you don't even matter, you're not even relevant. They go out of their way to make you feel that way. Because they do actually recognize your significance and importance. But they hate it. Because they want to be that. They know that they can't. But this is why, once you've been around them for enough time, they act in opposition to you. In rebellions and defiance. They want to fight against you. They want to show you that they're different. They have to always be in disagreement with you. They can't act at accordance with what you want. And this is why it's because of that envy, that hatred, for your success and accomplishments and seeing as though you have it easy. Well, it's so hard for them. But this is why you cannot sustain a meaningful connection with them. And this is the problem that a lot of you get into because you're looking at it like, I want to build a relationship with this person, have a future, maybe even get married and have kids. You're looking at it the wrong way. And this is why things always go wrong. Because you're using them for the wrong purpose. They're not designed. They're not built for that. And that is why, in most cases, it doesn't last long. And it doesn't end well. Because if you look at it, that all they're really trying to do, all they're trying to show you, all they're trying to tell you is that they're not designed for that. They're not designed for the things that you want. You want loyalty and commitment, relationship, marriage, you want all of that. But you're seeking that from the wrong person. Because all they're really good for is something short term of one night stand. And while I don't advise for anyone to engage in that type of behavior, that's really what they're designed for. Just a short term fling. That's why they don't last. That's why they can't stay committed to you over a long period of time. It just doesn't work. And it doesn't matter what you do. It makes no difference. You can give them all of your love and affection. You can promise them the world and even take action to deliver that to them. You can give them all of the reassurance, even if there was the perfect relationship part of walking the gear that would not be enough because they're not designed for that. And the reason why they're not designed for long term commitment and relationships, marriage, the reason why is because they have no image of that in their minds. They never learned that in their childhood. They've never seen that before. They don't even know what a relationship is or how it should be because they've never seen a relationship function. I mean, many of these narcissists, they come from single-parent homes, parents who have been separated, divorced. They've never seen real love, loyalty and commitment. They've never seen it work. So they don't really have any faith or belief in that anyway. You come into them with all of this hope and enthusiasm about things working out, things getting better, but having a future with them. To them, it's completely hopeless. They're looking at it like a lost cause, a means to an end. They don't see it working out because they've never seen it work out before. So how can you expect them to trust you or anyone else? And people like that who they lack faith and trust and the commitment and the staying power, the discipline. You cannot sustain a relationship with someone like that. Their only purpose, all they're really good for is something short-term. Maybe just one weekend or one night stand because after that, it's not going to go well. It's not going to last because they're not meant for that. They're not built for that. They will only turn against you. They will only hate you. They will resent you. But I would advise to not even do that with these types of people. Don't even engage in anything. No one I'd stand, no short-term relationships because it's only going to hurt you in the end. Remember, they don't really feel anything like that. It's not going to hurt them. They don't attach to you properly but you're just going to invest your emotions into it and you're going to desire more. You're going to want to have a future with them so it will just hurt you. So avoid anything short-term as well if you can. With these types of people it's really not worth it. It's just going to hurt you in the end. All right that's it. That is why the narcissist hates you. If this video was helpful for you please give it a thumbs up down below. Let me know your thoughts in the comments. Let me know if you agree with this or not and hit that subscribe button. If you haven't subscribed yet then you will receive the notifications for my future videos. If you'd like to book a one-on-one session with me you can do that through my website. It is narcsurvivor.co.uk and check out my Instagram as well. I have new pictures and videos on there every day. It is narcsurvivor.co.uk on Instagram. All right that's it for this one. I'm going to go out and get something to eat. 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