 Hello everyone. Welcome to another live. Just going to wait a moment for more people to come in. Just moved into a new apartment. So today we're going to be talking about the aging narcissist, which is something that I have talked about a few times already, and I think it's time to talk about this topic again. So the aging narcissist, what happens as they get older? Narcissists are driven by their need for supply. All they care about is supply. Attention, admiration. This is what narcissists live for. And when they're young, many of them do get a lot of attention. They are admired by a lot of people because when they're young, they are physically attractive. They're charming. They may not have much responsibility, much stress. So when they're young, it's a lot easier for them to get supply. But what happens as they age, as their looks begin to fade away, as they're no longer as mentally sharp, they're no longer witty. What happens then? Well, as the narcissist ages, it does become more and more difficult for them to get supply. And as we know, a narcissist without supply is a very dangerous person to be around, because they've got to get supply somehow. And if they can't get positive attention and admiration, then they're going to settle for negative attention. They're going to provoke people so that they can get some form of reaction, because as long as they can make people feel something, it's better than nothing. At least they can still feel like they matter as though they've caused something, as though there's something significant to someone, even if it's just because they've hurt them. It's better than them feeling like they don't exist, like people don't even notice them. So as they get older, that's what they will become. They will go from being sexually provocative to being provocative in other ways, irritating people, going out of their way to cause problems for other people. And they will find great joy in doing that because they can't be happy, and the older they get, the more bitter and resentful they become, especially to those who are younger than them, because they look at people who are younger than them. And it reminds them how they weren't happy when they were that age. They didn't have things together. They didn't have what they have. And it really gets them because they know they can't go back. They can't fix things in the past. It's too late. And instead of trying to make themselves feel better by helping people and then maybe living vicariously through them, which is something they can't really do because they lack empathy, so they can't fully share another person's experience as their own anyway, so instead of doing that, they go out of their way to tear people down, to destroy their happiness and contentment. And by doing that, they just end up pushing people further and further away until they end up alone. Miserable. They have no one there for them. Or if they do have someone there for them, it's usually someone who they don't really like, someone that they don't really want to be with. But it's just a desperation pick. Because as they age, at that point in their lives, they're no longer physically attractive. They're no longer in good shape. They're very miserable people. Not someone that you'd want to be around so. They have to settle for less than what they really want. As they age, they begin to accept their fate. They're not out there looking for the best or the best anymore. But remember when they were younger, they always had to have the best. They always had to be with the wealthiest, most attractive, powerful person. And it had to be someone that they could manipulate and control. Someone who's under their thumb. But as they get older, anything will do. Even if they're not physically attracted to the person, even if they're the ones who have to pay out to help this person, they will do it. Even if their supply is not an empath, they will even be another narcissist. And that's how you will often see with older narcissists that although they hate each other, they can still coexist. They can just about put up with each other. Because they know that it's either that or they're going to be alone. Because at that point, they're probably not going to find someone else. I mean, remember, these are narcissists that we're talking about. For the rest of us as we age, I mean, a lot of people don't like to age. And that's understandable. It can seem scary for many of us. But we work on ourselves on the inside. So we have many other qualities other than just superficial things that we can give to another person. So even as we age, we're going to be okay. I mean, we may not be able to attract people on a superficial level, but what kinds of people does that attract anyway? I've never heard of it attracting anyone good. So we may even find that as we age, we attract more and more high quality people. People who look past the surface and see what else we have to offer other than just looks, money or appearance. But for narcissists, that was really all that they had to offer. And once they don't have that anymore, it becomes clear who and what they really are. And it becomes difficult for them to deny the truth to themselves. They have to accept that they are nothing. They have nothing because their entire lives, they never worked on anything other than superficial things which were designed only to attract people, and not to keep them. You see, there's nothing wrong with looking good, having money. There's nothing wrong with having those things, but when that's all you have, it creates a problem. Because although that may attract people, it's not going to keep them. At some point, the money may run out, the sex may get boring. And then what are you going to do? And that's why narcissists are very good at attracting new supply, but they're not very good at keeping it. But yeah, as the narcissist ages, they become more bitter and resentful. They begin to hate everyone and everything, but they may become more covert, more manipulative. Because they have to. They can't just rely on external things anymore. They have to trick you into thinking or feeling something about them. Because there's really nothing else that they can use to pull you in. At that point, all they can use is their words. So they will become more manipulative. Many of them will age and then be alone. Some will even die alone, but narcissists do fear death. So they're going to try and do whatever they can to avoid having to experience that. As they age, their standards and expectations will drop. They may seem more humble and modest because they're forced to accept that they're not going to get the kind of supply that they used to. And that supply may be you. They're forced to accept that they can't have someone like you anymore. So yeah, there isn't really anything for the narcissist to look forward to as they age because they haven't done the work on the inside. They haven't done the work on their relationships, which is really what supports us as we age. So I would say that the older they get, the more difficult things become for them because they value superficial things so much when really as we age, the older we get, we're meant to realize those things don't actually matter. We're meant to become wiser. It's our wisdom that gets us through the ageing process. But narcissists don't develop that wisdom. Let me know your thoughts on what I've said about the ageing narcissist. Do you agree with it? Let me know down below. I'd love to hear from you. As I said, I'm just at my new apartment here. I've got the Christmas tree. It's Christmas soon. I'd say everyone got planned for Christmas. Let me know down below. I think this year I will have to do a Christmas special. I didn't do one last year. But yeah, I highly recommend checking out those videos as well. Check out my Christmas videos. Also I did some for Halloween too. But I didn't do them last year. I believe it was the two years before that. But yeah, check those out. I would say that my newer videos are the most accurate. But there's definitely a lot of good truths in my older videos too. So definitely check out the older videos. If you haven't seen them yet, sometimes I like to go back and watch my earliest videos. And it surprised me how much I knew back then. I've been doing this now for over four years. And I have learned a lot since then. My research over the years has definitely changed my perspective in many ways. And I think it reflects that in my more recent videos. But yeah, I'm going to end it here. I'm going to get ready for sleep. Then I'm going to do some traveling tomorrow. And hopefully I will have time to do another live video as well. So yeah, you all have a good day. And I'll talk to you soon.