 The narcissist will go insane if you do this if you do this The narcissist will hate it They will go crazy They will go insane if you go no contact with a narcissist They will lose their minds They will wonder why you've got no contact They will wonder why you don't want them anymore They will wonder why you abandoned them. They will become obsessed with you They will stalk and harass you They will demand for you to talk to them. They will pop up at your workplace They will pop up at your home It will drive the narcissist insane, but it is the most effective way for you to get over them Because you cannot heal When you are around the narcissist It's impossible to do that If you're still around them, if you're still communicating with them It's why you also need to go no contact with anyone who is involved with them You need to cut everyone off If you do that, the narcissist will go insane They will lose their minds Because then you have discarded them Before they got the chance to discard you you've ruined their plans You've triggered their abandonment anxiety And you've left them without supply Which will cause them to become obsessed with you They will get their family and friends to contact you or they will try to contact your family and friends If you have children They will use them as an excuse to stay in contact with you. They will stalk and harass you They will try to track you down They will try to contain you, which is why when you go no contact You need to stay no contact Because if you engage with them again After everything they did to you, they think that you accept what they've done They think you're okay with it Which means you are enabling the abuse You're giving them permission to continue treating you that way because they see it as though If it was that bad You wouldn't come back to them You wouldn't contact them again But when you get back in contact with the narcissist It's going to be even worse than it was before Because now they have to punish you For going no contact with them They have to punish you for making them wait In their minds you have no right To withhold anything from them They feel entitled to have whatever they want to whenever they want to And that includes you Which is why if you go back They will make you regret it They will show you every reason Why you should have stayed no contact They might reward you in the beginning To make you feel like you're doing the right thing But eventually It's just going to get worse Which is why you need to realize That you don't deserve to be treated that way You need to realize that you deserve to be treated with respect Because otherwise You're going to accept less than what you deserve You're going to accept the abuse You're going to accept them as treatment And the narcissist is not expecting you to be strong They're not expecting you to respect yourself Which is why they're so persistent Which is why they keep attacking you Which is why you need to stop Which is why you need to stay no contact Thank you for watching I hope this video resonates with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching queries You can email me at coaching.narcsurvivor.co.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon