 Välkomna till mina vänster, idag har jag tänkt att läsa lite av min bra visstum Jag tänkte att ta in till diskussioner om incellerna Nu Jag är säker att du har sett och hört många kläder för att vara expert på hur att vara populär mellan djuren eller hur man kan ta djuren eller vad det kanske kan vara. Jag är inte en av de djuren, jag vill faktiskt säga till dig att stoppa med att tänka om djuren. Så jag ska inte tala om hur du kan vara så populär med djuren. Jag ska tala till dig om jag kommer att rekommendera dig Jag kommer att rekommendera dig att stoppa med att tänka så mycket om djuren. Nu, som jag har sagt, jag är inte Kassanova, jag vet inte om alla djuren men jag kan bara supposa att det är supremligt att vara attraktiv med en män eller en män eller en män som går runt och är svårare om vad djuren kommer att tänka om. Nu, innan jag började att läsa på min visstum, jag vill säga att du ska tänka om du ska tänka om vad andra kommer att tänka om du, när det kommer till hur du pröver dig. Så vara så bra som möjligt, vara så bra som möjligt, vara så bra som möjligt, vara så bra som säkert, vara så bra som säkert att ta bort djuren och aboveall annat, ta bort att vara socialt plötsligt, socialt, socialt skillnad, så att du har de här sakerna i plats. Men beyond that, om du går runt och försöker upptäcka djuren, att ha det som djuren, att vara approved by women, that is a it's a faulty hierarchy in a more reasonable and traditional society. You look to the other men of your tribe for approval. Primarily the older men of the tribe. Those are the ones you want to impress and who you seek approval from. Now if you seek approval from some loose women, because the women who use the term incel, they aren't how shall we put this diplomatically? They aren't perhaps the best of women, they aren't perhaps the women who would make for good wives and mothers. So you know if you get upset by some modern woman calling you an incel, yeah, it's not too much to worry about. So if you go around viewing yourself in that way, that you base your identity upon the fact that you can't gain sexual access to loose women, I mean that's not a good way to view yourself or to view the world. And I can only suppose that women will pick up on it as well, that they say, okay, this guy he views me as an authority. And of course that's not particularly attractive in terms of hierarchy either. Instead focus more on my teachings, focus less on women and more on my teachings. Some people might say that I'm arrogant, that I have a big ego, I don't have a big ego, I have a big heart. And I care about you, that's why I say it, I want you to have a good and happy life. I don't want you to go around being sad for the fact that you to use the terminology of the normies that you aren't getting laid. I try to meet the normies halfway by using their lingo. Anyway point being, I don't want you to spend or waste time identifying as something that isn't really all too impressive. Now I've met many impressive men over all these years because of the various situations and contexts I've been in. None of them have cared all too much if they are attractive to women. They have been attractive to women precisely because they haven't thought about it because they are pursuing their own goals because they are concerned with other ideals than what a modern woman will think is sexy in them. It's unworthy, it's cringe worthy. All men, if you think this way please stop, I implore you, please stop thinking in these terms. No, in terms of your happiness, your quality of life. Imagine if you are a 23 year old guy who isn't currently getting any access, sexual access. You can either go around lamenting this fact, thinking about it, oh life is so bad, I can't get this. And then if you constantly focus on the things you don't have, yeah then you will not enjoy life as you should. Instead if you think this isn't really a concern for me. And yes I understand it's easy to say that oh you shouldn't think about sex or women or whatever. But the strong of you at least you can do this. And if you can turn that energy into something productive then you will prosper. It's ancient knowledge. Ancient esoteric knowledge right here. So anyway, then a few years go by the 23 year old guy suddenly, I don't know, a few years older at least, and he finds someone who will become his wife. Then the problem has been solved. And he has been happy that he didn't worry all too much about it. But instead that he pursued his own goals. Now related to this is a great lie of our modern era. And that is that you need to have sex. Now if you are in a loving relationship it's all good. Then of course you should have and enjoy it as a natural part of life. Sex is good, it's something that God mother nature has given us to enjoy. So this is not some religious life denying attitude towards sex. This is not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is that if you don't have, if you currently don't have access, sexual access, then don't think oh this is something I really really need in my life. This is something I must have because it's really not. Especially if you know that sooner or later you will have it. So it's not something you worry about. The things you need is to be out in nature, to get some sun, to train, to eat well, to have good friends, good friends, more important. This is perhaps a topic for another video. That instead of focusing so much on women, focus more on how to find friends, how to be a good friend. You need camaraderie. This is perhaps even more important in this day and age when many guys feel alone. Find friends before you start worrying about women. So if you think oh I'm missing sexual access in my life, but then you don't have any male friends, yeah find the friends first. Then you start worrying about things that are farther away in terms of importance. Sex you can have later, you absolutely don't need to have sexual access at this particular moment. Especially not if you're a younger guy. One thing if you get to the age of marriage and having children and stuff like that. It's a different situation but if someone says to you that if you don't have sexual access at all times you are bad and you're doing it wrong. It's not true at all. It's nothing impressive by living that sort of lifestyle and it won't make you more impressive. It won't give you more opportunities later on. So keep that in mind. Again if you believe this lie that as a young man you need to follow your urges and you need to have sexual access if you don't you're bad. If you choose to listen to those people then it's not good. Instead listen to me always. Listen to me when I say that don't worry about it. I'm not saying don't worry about it as some sort of hippie nonsense. I'm saying it because it's true. I'm saying it because I want you to focus on finding friends, creating yourself into a higher being, focusing on your own goals. If you want to find happiness as a man then you have to find a purpose and a quest. And then you spend every waking hour focusing on how to reach your goals. That is your focus. Now to end this video I will paraphrase a section from Bronze Age Mindset. Justically a chimp in nature does not play with himself so to speak. Because there is no time. He is too occupied with mastering space, mastering himself. Only a chimp in captivity will do this sort of things. You can view it in the same sense. Both when it comes to touching yourself and sexual access out of a loving relationship. You can view it in the same way that those things aren't only a waste of time. More importantly they are a waste of vital energies within you that you can use for a higher purpose. So anyway something to keep in mind. And yeah, those were my thoughts for today. Thank you for watching. Do read Dauntless, check out all links in the description box below. Ex-exo, boom!