 What's up you guys welcome to the single guy channel. My name is Lloyd. So today we're going to talk about basically Signs that she's interested in you over text Okay So I get a lot of my clients who worry about this sort of stuff and especially now that we're in quarantine You know people are staring at their phones a lot They're wondering if the girl that they're messaging that they like is interested in them So what I'm gonna do in this video is I'm gonna list a bunch of the things that I've seen that I think Will basically tell you if this girl is interested in you or not now Don't stress about this too much you guys like if you're looking at your phone and you're stressed out over like whether she's Set in an emoji or not you're not in the right place It means there's something wrong with your environment and you should change your environment So that your regularity getting fulfilled and happy from it You know whether that's having other options of women that you can message or whether that's having you know a support system For yourself so without further ado Let's get into some of these if you if one of them isn't working for you That doesn't necessarily mean she's not interested in you But if you're not getting any of these dude, yeah, you should find somebody else to text because that girl's not interested, okay? So thing number one She responds, okay, obviously if a girl's responding to you There's a chance that she likes you doesn't mean for sure You know she might just be responding because she's bored or she wants attention or whatever it is You know a lot of those things can be applicable to the situation right now But if she's not responding to you at all definitely not interested in you, okay thing to she's writing a lot If you give her like a lot of text and she writes a lot of text back, that's good You know that means you know she's for however much value you're giving her she's willing to give that back now Sometimes there are women that don't text quite as much as you and that's okay You know I have I'm actually dating a couple girls right now I don't really like to text that much they text like very very short and I'm We have a very good relationship and I know they're into me but other times I have been texting women where it's like Or so I'll have this with my clients where they give like a long block of text and then the girl just says okay or lol Basically, that's like f off if she says that all right Also, too if the next one we're gonna cover is from my list here She gets back to you quickly Okay, she gets back to you quickly. It's a pretty good sign. That means she's at her phone She's you know replying to you very quickly however, even if she doesn't get back to you that quickly There's still a chance that she's interested in you Maybe she's busy with something or maybe you just wrote a lot of stuff and she's taking some time to think about her answer Okay, this happens a lot Usually when guys are like sending a bunch of text messages and then they try and make plans with a girl And then she takes a super long time to get back. It's cuz she's thinking about it. Okay, or it means she's gonna blow You off, you know either way don't stress out about it too much like I said if you're worrying about these things a lot Probably putting her too much on a pedestal Okay, the next thing that I would say is She listens. Okay, this is probably the most important one a Lot of these other things can be looked at individually and you know There's a chance that she maybe she was near her phone or whatever it is But with this one this is one that I really look for if I'm messaging girl I'm looking to see whether she actually listens to what I tell her, you know if I tell her that That I'm getting a haircut or something like that This hair If I tell her I'm getting a haircut and she brings that up later That's a pretty good sign that she's interested me because she took the time to listen to what I'm saying if I say hey How was your day going? I went skateboarding with some of my friends today, blah, blah, blah And then she tells me how she's doing and then follows it up by saying oh, that's cool that you were skateboarding I actually liked I've been longboarding for a while to something like that It shows that she actually read what I wrote and took the time to respond to it If you send her that text message and then she said something that's completely unrelated and then she doesn't really like address What you said or answer your question, okay? That means she's not listening to what you're reading what you wrote, which is not a good sign You know I'm there's a chance that she just has poor social skills, you know some young girls are like that But there's also a big chance that she's just not interested. She's not really paying attention to you okay all right She texts you first a lot of guys look for this a lot of guys look to see if the girl has texted them first At the beginning you got to keep in mind if if you've started to message her first like you've hit her up or you've you know Maybe you got her phone number something like that It's your job as the guy to be messaging her first at the beginning But if you've been dating for a while or if you've been texting for a while and she never hits you up Then that's a problem. Like that's usually a sign that she's there's something missing. Maybe she's just not that interested Or maybe she's just really really shy either way, you know I would if you've been talking to this girl for a long time you might want to ask her about it or You might want to find a different girl if she's just never willing to give you that amount of attention that you want But like I said at the beginning the guy should be the one who's messaging the majority of the time or the guy should Be initiating the majority of the time All right, next one she remembers what you said so this is kind of related to her listening to you You know, I like I said before if I mentioned that I was getting a haircut and then she asked me about it later on Then that's a pretty good sign that she's interested in me If she doesn't bring it up and I or if I said that I had like a big event going on that day And then I text her later and she doesn't even ask me okay That's probably a sign that she's not remembering. You're not a very important person to her and she's not that interested Or I mean she has poor social skills Either way, I'd rather text somebody who does care about the things that I do Okay She asks you questions This is kind of related. So if you ask her how she's doing she says blah blah blah blah like I'm this I did all this today And then doesn't ask you how you're doing. It's not a great sign Either it means she's rude or just never poor social skills Or she's just not interested. So if you get a lot of this where you're always you're the only person That's asking her questions. You know, that's not a great sign Okay She sends you photos That's a big one too. If a girl's sending you photos like that's a really good sign that she's interested in you Obviously, there's times where girls are interested in guys where they don't send photos Maybe they're a little I know a lot of women that are shy about sending photos to me So they don't want to do it unless they look really really good You know usually if a girl sends you a photo, that's not the first photo that she took She's probably taken a bunch more even if she's like just woke up like this She didn't just wake up like that. Okay, but if she does take the time to send you that photo You know, what is that saying that's saying that she's putting in effort that she you know She really cares about what you think and she wants you to see her being pretty or showing her personality or something like that It means she's interested in you man Okay And the final one that I have written down here is she tells you what she's doing or like what she's wearing and that Sort of stuff. So that's kind of an old-school one. I used to text girls like that all the time like what are you wearing? What are you doing? And if they answered they told me what they were wearing what they were doing. Yeah, that means she's I mean She's definitely interested in you. Okay, so if she's doing that just out of the blue She kind of just tells you what she's what she's doing right now or what she's wearing Yeah, that girl's interested in you Okay, and the final one that I'm gonna put down here that a lot of guys think is is a good sign For those of you who are on dating apps and you're like messaging a lot of girls Like there's occasionally gonna be some girls that are just like bored and will sexed with you So like you walk in and the first thing she's like hey daddy And she just starts like sending you a bunch of back-and-forths about like some sexual stuff She might even send you with like a couple nudes Yeah, I don't know if that girl that's always a good sign Typically if a girl's sending you a lot of that stuff and you haven't met up yet You're probably never gonna meet up or if you do it's just gonna be very quick and you know That's gonna be it so a lot of times guys think that that stuff is a sign that she's interested You know, I'd say it's more of a sign that she's bored or Maybe she just wants to have sex right then and there and if you're not there at that moment Then tough luck. She's probably gonna text some other guy. Okay, so yeah That's just one caveat that I've seen come up with a lot of my clients that I thought I'd comment on Anyway, you guys that's it. That's the list that I have. Thanks for watching if you may tell you can just subscribing I come up with videos like this every single week if you're interested in getting coached by me personally There's a form down below fill out the form and we'll schedule a call with you So thanks a lot you guys