 As are you do so do you want to do the intro? No, I don't. Okay, not doing the intro What's up guys I'm Brian Sakao you're watching he spoke style we have a very special guest today This is my wife Robin and a few weeks ago. Well a while ago. We put out a call for you guys to ask us Questions that you had and today we are here to answer them. Did you know? that one of the most searched terms like if you search for he spoke style or My name on YouTube like is Brian Sakao a wife So here it is Brian Sakao's wife and we're gonna get going with some questions. Rob's gonna read them off camera What's the one thing you would add to Brian's wardrobe? regardless of whether he likes it and What one thing would you remove? Can I start with the remove sure I don't know what you call them. They're the you have these loafer slip-on shoes that look like a rug It's like red and everything. It's like a slip-on. Oh, no, they're like those needlepoint ones. Yeah, I don't really wear those that much though Yeah, what you used to Didn't like them. What would I put in your wardrobe if I could put anything? I don't know. I think the last thing that we talked about you adding in was more like casual Brian Stuff and you've been doing that. So I feel like no ads Okay, you like the sweatpants. Mm-hmm. I like the sweatpants What's the one-style trait or tip that you learned from each other? You want to start? No, you go first so Robin has this Like great ability to combine different things from a lot of different You know, whether it's like really luxury to you know something, you know, you found a vintage store and You have like this ability to pull things together that that I really admire And I feel like I learn a lot from the way you do that Mentor this is yours. Yeah mine I mean, I think more tailoring Women don't normally tailor their clothing women trying to force fit themselves into a smaller size or something's too big And you just kind of like work with it So I think just seeing you when seeing how well everything fits on you It reminds me that I should if I'm investing in nice pieces that I should be Tailoring them to fit me as best as possible. Yeah, that's something like like women Generally don't think about getting something tailored either fits or it doesn't Next next How do you guys balance budgetary constraints with your larger purchases as a couple? I feel like larger purchases like suits jewelry or watches can be tough to buy if married. I Don't know that we do do a good job at Our purchases Right Yeah We have some things that are more separate So I think we pretend like we're doing a good job, but we could probably be doing a better job Right. Well, well, we have like we have like combined money and then we each have like our own separate money that we have to play with throughout the Month, yeah, so I don't see the hit when he buys a watch We're not buying my shoes, right? Oh, yeah the shoes. Yeah What is her favorite piece of clothing that you wear? I Don't know. What is it like some of your chinos? There's one pair that's a little tighter on your butt that I like Okay Not what I was not what I was expecting What were you expecting? I don't know. I thought you would say like this suit or Something like that. We have a lot of suits. So that's like I don't always see your body because when you're wearing your suit So I'm able to my what? You're It's the way John Mara says it How did you meet each other? We worked together. Was it like six or seven years ago? Seven years ago I was working well my client was working on a holiday campaign and they had their holiday theme was that they'd have like Seven different shops in the store and themes one was like the candy shop one was the black and white shop It was called the candy shop. It's all the colors. Yes And So there were seven different shops and we proposed doing seven different influencers to find those shops And I knew the women's influencers. I like knew that realm very well men's where I didn't know as much and I Found Brian thought he was cute. I had good style and put you in my desk and pitched it and I was actually the second choice You were not the second choice. You were in the first version of the deck Okay What is her favorite watch of yours? Say that again. I picked something on my life What is her favorite watch of yours? Are you supposed to is this my should I what's your well? What's your favorite watch that I have? I feel like that's easy. Yeah when I got you for your wedding, right right the car wedding car. Yeah Your 40th birthday wedding slash wedding present. Yes, it's beautiful. It's the Cartier tank American Steel 50 no 100th anniversary version. Love that watch on the back. It has Our anniversary date. Yeah What are your guys thoughts on street wear? Are you open to trying it? I'm like 40 years old I'm 41. I'll be 42 soon So I just not you know, I think for me It just doesn't fit my personal style. I'm not comfortable with it, you know, so nah, it's not for me I feel like it depends on what you categorize street wear as like I feel like if it's more casual like women's wear it's more of um Like how you style things it's not so much as like the pity Peacock though there are some of that in women's wear I feel like street style for me is more of like what I'm wearing now like more casual Jeans more relaxed I think they mean like, you know, you're walking around soho and you see like these younger folks Wearing like very urban. Yeah. Yeah sneakers or whatever. I don't know. I can't do it. I feel like we do street style when We're walking cocoa That's true. Yeah, the most I'll do is sweatpants All important here What amount of honey do you consume in your household? Yeah If there's honey in the house I'll eat it. Well, so I would I would eat for breakfast for a long time um Greek yogurt granola and like a banana and I would put some honey on it So yes, I was going through a lot of honey at that time However, I have transitioned to a different breakfast of bagel with peanut butter and banana That does not include honey. So our honey consumption has dropped significantly since then What are Robin's favorite one or two fragrances that you wear? I bet I can guess them, but I'll let you say you could guess the one number one No, black afghano by nasa motto because it reminds me of shampala aliyata, of course What's the other one? I like a lot of the tomforts. I don't know that I know the different ones that you wear Ood fleur, that's you've got that for me in paris. I like that one Yeah, that one Robin does his interesting clothes drive you crazy because that's normally a woman's thing Actually, no So before I met brian, I had probably the same amount of clothing that I have now um, probably more now But I never I only wore it out to work because if I Was going out to like meet a guy or going to date. I definitely um desaturated everything and I just wear like, you know, you never know how tall a guy is going to be in a date So you don't wear heels and you I feel like I didn't want to scare someone off with too much print and vintage stuff. It was definitely um I don't want to say more boring, but definitely not who I typically would be Before I met you. So I feel like his Love of that and more being more relaxed with that has made me Embrace who I am a little bit more and I'm not afraid sometimes I am afraid of wearing something with With you, but like like what if it's too much print or something or like a weird boxy Thing I'm like is he gonna think I look like I'm wearing a paper bag, but You could wear a paper bag and you'd still look beautiful. Thank you Nobody yeah, I appreciate it and it I feel like it helps Balance it each other out Right because I'm really boring What are those of your careers? I work in advertising digital marketing mainly uh, okay, and I Do this he spoke style and I am also a member of the United States army fieldman a lot of you Now from youtube have you know found that I play the saxophone and I'm in the army So that's something that's my it's my day job He doesn't play it for me though No, only for the watch guy. Yeah Robin was there any time brian was more dressed up than you? Yes when I feel like when we started dating and we were commuting back and forth from new york And I would pack a small of a bag as possible and then not thinking we were going anywhere and then You would get ready to go to dinner and I only had like one outfit and you were much more dressed up as me and Like that was that was it. I still like that's still the same Like we'll go out to eat or whatever and we get dressed independently And sometimes we like come together and we have like the same exact thing on but then there's times like I feel like more times than not I Come into your room and you're like you're so dressed up What what now I have to change. It's not that you're dressed up I think it's because when we go to the restaurant all guys are going to be wearing like shorts and t-shirts So for men, you're very dressed up versus me. Yeah, okay. I'll remember that next time What do you both normally wear on a date? Depends on where we're going. Yeah. Yeah, is it a nice restaurant? It is a kind of casual We sort of dress for the occasion Robin, what's your favorite outfit of rimes? Ever ever I don't know. I don't know. We were looking pretty good in that wedding tuxedo when you were in london, but I didn't have socks on Okay Because that again, it's like very clean cut and you had like the it's not even just the outfit It's like how you style it. You looked very different On our wedding that you did in london because you had like some more scruff and everything I liked it How open is brian to your style advice and does it bother you if he doesn't listen? Did you give you advice? He's open to if I feel like when you ask me for advice a lot. Oh no, we're leaning back. No, we don't have to When you ask me for advice. Sometimes I'll give it to you, but you just Do what you want anyway, but I would say I might do the same thing. And you're like, why do you even ask? Yeah, yeah, it's like what which tie do you like better? And I say which one's like, oh, well, I really like this one I'm like, okay. That's just looking for validation If it's any consolation, he does the same thing to me Brian are you happy with her sense of style? Very much so Why? That wasn't the question It's it's it's cool. It's eclectic Um It's it's unique It's it's not like your typical like basic girl. Like, you know You could do that if you want, but you like put your own little twist on it always And it's always like like this like this is a french cuff shirt And you've got it rolled up like it's just a white shirt and jeans, but that's pretty cool How is it to live with a man whose wardrobe space is bigger? I suppose than yours I don't know that it is it's not bigger because I have the walk-in closet, but she has an entire room First world's problems I would I mean, yeah, I think his Yes, I have more space right now. You have a very nice walk-in closet Yeah, but I think I have more things than he actually does though. He has more brown shoes than I do Yeah, I get it another pair of shoes. She's like, oh another pair of brown shoes They're all different. There's like brogues and derbies and you know Rob, what style tips do you have for other women? We're to start to set this one out I would say I think what we were talking about before tailoring I used to work in retail and even just seeing friends over the years women Will squeeze themselves into an outfit. That's too small because they want that size It's more about the size on the tag than it is how it looks So I think women just stop looking at the size of the clothing Put it on if it fits Get it if it doesn't fit go a size up like you look better when your clothes are fitting you Another thing I don't know if it's I would say everyone would do this But my comfort level with clothing that's more fitted is if I'm wearing something Tighter or more fitted on the bottom or the top. I make sure that the other piece is a little bit looser I just feel like I don't like to be on display. So I like to have a little bit of a A balance there Yeah, that's like a Thing that you do all the time if there's like a tight top you have like a very Kind of loose and flowing skirt or vice versa. Yeah, unless I'm on a mission like with this one I feel like I don't do top to bottom Tight What do you mean What are your favorite movies Together let's say together okay together, um to catch a thief um You just watch rear window rear window liked anything with grease kelly Some with karry grant. I feel like he has too many to say anything you've seen north by northwest We watched it together. Did we yeah Okay Individually, I feel like we like very different movies. Yes What would you say for me? Oh, um Michael Michael. Oh, yeah, Michael Clayton. I love that movie yet. I'll watch that or the godfather The godfather tinker tinker tailor soldier spy. Yeah, I wouldn't put it on the same level No, but yeah, the Michael Clayton one I've watched it twice with him And Every time you watch it like the next night I think he's kidding, but I don't know if he's kidding and he will ask me if I want to watch it again Uh your favorite movies Let's be nice. We have an audience Um, I don't know. Um Troop Beverly Hills That's a favorite movie. I love that movie, but I don't know if it's a favorite He watched it with me. He liked it. It was cute. Yeah, it was cute I don't know. I like more comedies. I feel like at work. I'm Stressed and there's a lot of work and a lot of pressure. So when I come home I would rather watch reruns of that 70s show and like friends and Stupid movie that I've seen 50 times then watch something new and pay attention Okay, I don't know if that's a good quality or not No, it's just like you're Need to you're not It's just like passive and it makes you feel good. Yeah If you happen to gift bryan a watch, what would that be? I already did. Yeah No more. I'm sorry. That's it Please what would if you were to gift me a watch? What would it be? Well, I know that there's a question coming up that addresses this but someone so there's a question Should does she want a matching nautilus No, I know you don't but you you would you really like the gold royal oak The autumn rpga gold royal. Yeah Matching gold ap royal oaks. Yeah Yeah Most opposite or wild thing you do in regards to how you hear in videos Wait, what? So so like so I think the question is like people see me like a certain way and the video usually Yeah, yeah, why don't you do it? um well when The camera's not rolling you and robber. Well, I don't know if it's rob, but you're making like far jokes No a lot or I know what it is Uh, brian thinks it's really funny. Wait, I don't make fart jokes I make fart jokes. Rob makes fart jokes. Sorry. Thank you. You don't make fart jokes, but you When you see a dog outside and it's pooping You start cracking up So I started every time I would see a dog pooping I would take a photo and send it to you and now you and your best friend Have a poop chain between our dogs pooping And send it to but you're now you're naming it Like they have to have names. Yeah. Yeah, so give us an example of the the tip of my finger Like the dog is in the distance and then like, you know how people like hold up the leading tower of pizza The dog is on the finger You also got me a calendar of poop. Yeah, uh Yeah, poops pooch is pooping. Yeah, and every month there's a different photo of a dog pooping And that's I think in the closet down here To add a little less, you know seriousness in the studio It's just it's so hysterical because like the the like The what they contort themselves into and then they're like don't look at me And then they say pick it up and then you don't look at me and you take photos Okay, I'd also say but this is like he's very serious in work and anything or a family guy They like when they make their stupid jokes or it keeps going on and on and on I love the little Okay How much input do you have into each other's wardrobe decisions? She doesn't need my input, you know I used to ask for permission, but now I think I might Hide things and just be like oh look at this thing that appeared in oh you mean like buying things or just yeah input Yep, I just file that away. Yeah, and you have things that appear sometimes and I just It's fine next because I know I have things in the car You enjoy casual brine or dressed up brine or it depends. I feel like if he's being I like both if he's been Getting dressed up a lot recently. I like the Juxtaposition of casual brine or if he's been if I've only seen him when we're taking care of the dog now And you're always wearing sweatpants. I like it when you start, you know, you're wearing a normal outfit Both. Yeah Where is your last name from? It is polish um, it is missing a z s a c z a w a And uh, it would have been pronounced depending on where you were from in poland such ava or son sava What is your favorite gift that the other person got you? Other than the watch She got me for my birthday once the st. DuPont line to gold lighter that I have. I love that. It just it's like the perfect Little thing, you know and Yeah, I love it. Is that the one that makes the sound? Yeah the ping. Yeah I feel like the obvious one would be The wedding present you gave me uh, what it was a Never used. I don't know whose closet this came from. I think this woman had multiple bags So she just never used this but he when we were looking for his wedding present And we went to pick up the watch to make sure he liked it. There was a 1967 66 lives like 65 or 66 um never used uh Kelly bag Hermes, yes black Kelly bag pristine condition and I think when he brought it out. I actually growled. I don't know how loudly but I definitely growled I gave it I gave it to you when we did our first look photos. Yes, but that I mean, I think that's like but that's a very um Big gift. I personally like the I've saved every single card note paper towel napkin that you've written on Those are my favorite things because you don't always verbally say things like you're Like day in day out. So like those things are like my most prized possessions I think that that you've given me that why I get up in trouble if I don't write a card Okay, yeah, even when I remind you to do it And I would like those other shorts that you got me But they don't fit me anymore. Oh They still fit you Not for public Was she bribed or blackmailed into marrying me? I don't know why I would need to be Now, that's nice. Were you bribed or blackmailed into marrying me? I mean when you had like my arm twisted behind my back, it's really that really hurts We'll edit that one out What are your favorite albums to listen to together? I don't really listen to music Yeah, he doesn't listen to music. He can sit down here and work and he wants quiet I like more music. I don't know I mean if we've listened to anything together like maybe jazz Never like sat down and listened to a whole album of anything if we're in the kitchen and listening to music Yeah, it's more of a like jazz playlist What about I love my 90s hip-hop That's the playlist that's always on when we're doing the outfit videos. I know when you're filming when I start to hear the You know snoop and tray Okay Did you know your husband had a youtube channel called he spoke style? No, I didn't know you're just finding out scandalous Hit that subscribe Where is it? Where is it down here? We're subscribed on the video We're left upper left. No, that's to like look at other videos and things that pop out What advice can you give on communication throughout the wedding planning process? Have a wedding planner. Yes. Yeah We yeah best I what did I say to you when we got her? Getting a wedding planner will be cheaper than having therapy I said if we didn't have a wedding planner, we wouldn't have made it to the wedding. Yeah, we didn't we made decisions throughout We got approved. We gave her approval tweaks edits Too much money. We gave in put the whole time but She really we gave her mood board and she was executing it perfectly and if There were any other than one bump if there were any other bumps throughout the process. I had no idea about it Yeah, we're both like so busy. We wouldn't have been able to have like the wedding We wanted if we didn't have someone helping us out with it. Yeah What is the best trip or travel that you've taken together as a couple? I'm gonna say our first trip to Milan That was cool. Milano. Yeah, I like that one or Florence Because we got to hang out with on and matt I don't know All your work trips have been fun that I've been supportive on and tagged along when you and Rob went BMW the BMW. Yeah, that was awesome trip. Switzerland Zurich Milan to Munich Munich Lake Como even though that was two days, but I feel like our trip. I really liked To loom Which to loom which one The ones where I didn't get sick the one where I got sick But I think I've never gone away to just relax and decompress and that was really nice to to explore something that neither of us had been there before Yeah, you always wanted to like do too much on vacation And I like tried to convince you to not do anything but The first year was like we did half activity half pool Usually when the music played there was a CD that would play Over and over and over again with terrible american music When it played the When it starts, but that's how we that's how we learned about al al stewart Year of the cat. Yeah, great youtube comments on that. Yeah, go check out that video on youtube And maybe we'll link to it up there. Read the comments. It's worth it Anyway, next question Robin, what do you think about men dressing up? I think men don't dress up enough and One of the my favorite things about watching old movies with like race kelly and Carrie gran is that everyone was so dressed up and you go out now and it's shockingly scary at how people go out in public and to work and Even not like not even dress up like people don't even wear jeans anymore. Everyone's wearing leggings and But talking about men here But men too men are I feel like men don't get dressed up Yeah, it just takes like I think it's like a People like just don't put the time into it. Yeah, that's all I would prefer to see more men in suits Nothing makes a man look More handsome than a very well tailored suit for women Can you do a house tour and what led you to buy a house? We'll do a house tour Not done decorating yet. Right. So we'll do a house tour in about 10 years Like a year let's do a year. Okay within the year. All right. Yeah within a year It's never it's never gonna be like finished and perfect though. Just more if we don't have any we haven't painted A few rooms and just to put a few more things on the walls. There's a ton of stuff down here, but upstairs There's no pictures or paintings anywhere. Why do we buy the house though? We weren't planning to buy a house. No He when we were wedding planning. He sent me a link randomly for a house And I think I just rolled my eyes and put the phone down Uh And then I thought that we got new management at the apartment building that we didn't love and then he Sent me a link to this house and it was Newly renovated. It was perfect. It was exactly how we would have decorated a house And we 30 days later we had a house. It was definitely not planned Happy with it though. Mm-hmm How do you guys stay so freaking cute? That's from garbani. Oh garbani It's not easy. Let me tell you A lot of money on skincare date nights Yeah Would you buy your wife a matching hook? Sorry. That's fine. Don't have to have it in there I wanted in there. I feel like we weren't very cute in the response. It was cute enough Look at this. This is cute right now Okay, so cute. Cute. Would you buy your wife a matching novelist? No, no, she wouldn't want one She wants the gold royal oak I don't even know which one The novelist is this one. Oh that one I don't wear watches. I like bigger watches, but I feel like watches. I have a very thin wrist and I don't like how most watches look on me Though a big gold one might be nice How do you define your style as a couple? Classic Yeah, I I guess I would say it's the same way that I describe my personal style, which is with this Classic with a modern sensibility I like that. Who made the first move? No way You made the move We won't go into details about what the moves were It was the stop short Any Seinfeld fans? How did you know you were ready to tie the knot? She told me it was time That's not true I don't know. I felt like we'd been married before we got married. I felt like we were married for Not in a bad way Tell me more. No, just you know, it's like easy and well, it's not always easy But I don't know it's just like there's like a there's like a comfort I'm not gonna be able to stop laughing There's just like a comfort I have with you that you know, I can be myself and Yeah, I feel like we we talked about getting married or you're gonna keep laughing We talked about getting married and we were commuting and it was more about us being in the same place versus Getting married like that was the biggest Step at least for me. I don't know. Yeah. Yeah, I felt like I felt a little bad plucking you out of new york and I miss it, but I'm still good to go up there Who is more stylish her Yeah, best dress superlative in High school 2001. Yeah, though the photo and outfit was terrible We're gonna have to find that and put it up so people can see Yeah Has he spoke style acted as a relationship wedge or a glue between the two of you? Well, we met through it. So I'd say a little bit of glue I'd say in the beginning it was a bit of a wedge you're In generally even not he spoke style when we first met you were very serious and every minute you wanted to work I think remember like we I wanted to like sit on a bench with you and you're like for how long Five minutes you're like I could be working like it was just you were so focused on that So I think it wasn't just that it was like your work ethic, but over time Before when you had the studio in the apartment, it felt hard to disconnect But somehow it's not the same with the studio down here. Hmm interesting. Yeah And I mean as far as like glue like we've had a lot of amazing opportunities Together through he spoke style. So I feel like a trip through he spoke style for both of us would really Pull us together again Someone wants to send us to Europe again All right Who takes longer in the bathroom? You do Sometimes though getting ready you take longer In the bathroom not in the bathroom, but getting ready Depends on if you know what you're wearing or not No, it depends on you definitely stand in front of the mirror more putting your tie on and fixing the pocket square and doing everything longer Yeah, well, it takes me longer because I'll get dressed and then I'll come into your room and say you're gonna wear that No, you're too dressed up and then I have to go change. So that's why it takes me longer Mm-hmm top three marriage tips Communicate Is there a certain level of communication? That you want to put a filter on? No, just good communication. That's very important um Make time to do things together Uh regardless of whether you Um are super busy Um or had a crappy day at work or whatever you know and Have empathy for each other And try and and communicate. Maybe that's part of communication In communication try and take a minute and understand where the other person's coming from even if you don't Totally get it try to understand So maybe the third one's just laugh with each other Right We do that a lot. Yeah How old are you? Him. I'm 41. I'm 36 Though I look no not a day over 20 five Has either of your personal styles been much influenced by each other's I think the things that I like about your style are a little bit harder for me to Incorporate into what I would consider to be my personal style You don't want you to take my my dressing tips Work clothes. Um, but the one I would if I had to say one thing it would be that You really like gold and brass and that sort of stuff and I would say Prior to meeting you I was more into the like steel white gold, you know like turquoise Not turquoise. No, but but like I like you've made me really like Those warmer kind of tones and I think you You getting dressed up. I don't feel like I'm going to be overdressed when I get dressed up. So I don't Worry about being too dressed up like I used to Though I can't I don't can't always wear heels because then you'll feel like I'm too tall or I'm taller than you Tall as you Do you match outfits? Not purposely, but I feel like more often than not We get dressed in separate rooms and then we come together and we're either Coordinated or we're kind of wearing the same outfit more than not Yeah, we we try to coordinate for Whatever event we're going to like a wedding or yeah, or even if it's just going out to eat or something, you know Robin, what do you find most attractive about a guy who dresses up? Maybe like we answer that question already it I don't know. I don't know what it is, but it's like if a guy goes from casual To dressed up in a nice suit and tailored and you know the hair is nice It's almost like you put a really nice like filter over it. He just looks much more put together and Presentable and I don't know that there's just something very handsome about a well-dressed man There's a reason why people still love Carrie Grant and all those guys. It's easy top at it, right? What is the saying every girl's crazy about a sharp dress, man Though I would say There's nothing more tragic than seeing a well-dressed man in a perfectly Tailored suit and then the nails are just like eaten down or not clean Your nails are good I How do you maintain a healthy marriage and relationship while being social media personalities? I'm not a social media person. I consider myself a social media personality I don't know. It's like I'm no I'm not a different person On camera Or we'll say things differently than I would as A person just in the world or like being with you like, you know and youtube especially I feel like I've been able to just do what I do And it's whatever, you know, so I don't really see like a distinction between what I'm doing here or social media wise and then The way people do think you're like a celebrity sometimes like Matt Shout out to Matt that my colleague You saw you in the impenstation and oh, I thought you were Yeah, that was crazy following your run, bro I think it's your husband and then he went to say hi to you and Got nervous. I'm like, he's just a person. He's fine. He's not a celebrity. That's funny. Yeah When I went up to him in the train he was like you like jump Is there one person both of you consider to be a style inspiration? one together Or you go, who's your style inspiration? I don't know. I'm gonna say I'm gonna say john polo Because he's like, you know, he's Effortless Yeah, he's effortless. He's he's like this genuinely like generous and caring and like beautiful person with a great personality You know It's like very tailored, but then he has tattoos and all the like stacked turquoise and everything. It's like a very cool Effortless thing that if anyone else tried to do it, it would probably look ridiculous on them for me I think I don't see her as much now in street style and at fashion shows but tailored to mossy hill another redhead I don't think either of us are natural. She might be I'm not sure But her style it's very It's all it's very classic. It's very eclectic Some of the outfits are kind of crazy and if I tried to do that exact outfit It would be too much but for some reason everything she puts on it's just very very cool What is love for you? That's exactly what I thought of That's a don't hurt me That's what it is for them See that's For me love This is a very This might sound weird, but I knew I loved you when um You were in my apartment for a while and before this if someone even a friend was staying in the apartment For a few hours overnight in the morning. I'm like I'm just 11 In the morning I was I always felt like when is this person going to get out of my space? I need my space and then you were in it for a long time and it didn't bother me And then when you left it kind of felt like something was missing and I didn't like it So it's not that's not what love is but that's like comfort Yeah, I would say missing of something. Yeah Yeah, I can just be myself Too much so sometimes. Yeah What is your least favorite thing about each other? Oh boy who wants to go first? You go first Get ready Am I gonna cry on no no no sometimes You can be very impatient. Yes That I know and see I I Italian like we said at the wedding Italian Jewish girl from new jersey. It's there's I Working on it, but there's some stuff that you know jersey and Italian flood I considered myself to be a fairly impatient person until I met you All right your turn come on come on Um Not always Oh wait, I know what it's gonna be Not always empathetic. Yeah understanding of If I feel something or you know, it's like that's not what I meant. It's like well, that's how I feel I mean, it's you know men and women sort of to understand the way that we feel feel sometimes Yep, I need to be more empathetic I need to be more patient I've been better since you met me Yeah Next question, this is the last one, isn't it what is your favorite thing about each other? Oh, thank god That I can um favorite thing about you is that you allow Me to be silly and um, I prefer you don't You don't judge me for my weird things that I think are funny Yeah, there's a lot I'm trying to One favorite thing I don't want to say your work ethic, but There's something about your work ethic of if I Try to do this on my own. I would probably be taking naps all day long and It would be hard to motivate myself, but you have a very like regimented Personality that like you want to do something you get it done. I've been wanting to do something for months and I'm still like Like trying to find the reason to start you just like start and you do it and you figure it out There's something very admirable about that Thank you And you're I'd like your face Face is really nice and and I think that wraps it up. That's all of the time Questions, man, how long has that camera been going? 51 minutes and 25 seconds. Wow. 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