 Good evening. How are you guys? Yes, I have to be safe and wear my mask. What's up y'all? Welcome back. It's been a little while, took a little break. Do you like the ensemble? As you can tell I was a little bored and And You don't you decide to do some little deer farm this video Was actually a poll And the members got to choose Which topic that we were going to cover today And this topic won the popular vote so Putting yourself as a priority team When they expect you to sacrifice So many mothers know this oh so well And if you're not a mother so many daughters know this oh so well And if you're not a daughter so many girlfriends and wives know this oh so well Putting others first before Yourself Prioritizing others before you when does it end? And how can you prioritize yourself? first Now as a as a mother and a wife and a daughter and a sister And includes and all those things I have to put myself Between one and two on that priority list or else nothing will get done So uh, oh, thank you. It's scissor speech from xpornicle Um If i'm not up there, then I can't do anything for anyone else if i'm not top two I can't do anything for anyone else. And so this is why you have to make yourself a priority team Um, and you also want to try to look decent and good doing whatever you're doing as well If you're going to be helping other people and doing stuff for other people you're going to have to look good So you need to take care of yourself first First and foremost That means not rushing and jumping up to help someone as soon as they call or need a little small thing or Stop offering up your services or offering your help every five to ten minutes If someone is you know in the same room with you Stop making it happen I'm asking people if they need anything people will tell you when they need something So stop asking if people want or need anything from you That's volunteering up yourself That is putting yourself as a low priority So don't do that because I I know that I usually do that to my kids But I try to do it less and less so they become more independent And then I can start prioritizing myself On a higher level as they get older, you know, so um And when when you do that, especially in your marriage or relationship or even friendships Even your family People will start to take you for granted when you're always offering help You're always Asking if there's something you can do. Can I help? They're going to start Oh Let's see. Is that a cash out? Uh-oh. Thank you deanna sparkle sparkle girl Oh, thank you. It's Caesar um You encouraged to donate. Oh, thank you. So so special sprinkle sprinkle Yes, please if you would like to donate my cash app is below in the description bar and I'll type it in if y'all want, um, so Yeah, they'll start to take you for granted and so you can't you can't do that And expect When you need something or want something For them to show up and then all of a sudden. Oh, I'm busy. I'm sorry. I can't You know, um, but I helped you But when I was they don't care because they didn't ask you You offered so we can't feel some type of way if we don't get the help in return Or if we get taken for granted because we never I mean, they never actually You know offered Or they never asked as we offered. So that's why we have to make sure That We don't get that confused um over We don't need to get that confused so if you are, um Sorry, it's just she was seven with the little dollar signified I think Um, let me make you double sure because I haven't given that out and watching myself live But anyway, um Yeah, that's that's the same so Even kids will start to take you for granted if you buy them too much junk like I do So it's good to say no sometimes That way they they don't take it for granted I don't know how to panic Let me see if I figure that out. Okay All right, so That's a new feature Or I just figured out how to use it so You know what the cool thing about this mask is you can drink through it But it's probably gonna spill everywhere. So We're not gonna do that. I know y'all want to see my face. I'm taking it off Look, I have like marks from my lipstick. Well, at least I tried for you guys Y'all like my lipstick part Try to do some a little deer form Actually, I was playing in the mirror and some of my makeup and things like that Um But isn't this little mask so cute This is so abouge And it matches the bling on this hat. So Let me keep that there. I'm just so cute So basically all this little lipstick thing is is just my Level-up cosmetics Um Matt red lipstick and number eight And then I took like this Two-face crystal whip It's just like a liquid color, um You can use it as eyeshadow and then I just outlined it in liner I don't know. Just died those off a little deer form So I'm just going to fix my lipstick real quick while I finish talking to you guys about Putting yourself as a priority or no one else will Even at your job if you work And you're always offering other employees extra help arrive Lunt to lunch or something like that Pretty soon. It's going to be as if You're obligated to do those things that were once a nice gesture And so that's why you don't get in the habit Of doing stuff for people every day, especially when they don't do anything in return for you as a priority Put yourself as a priority Um Switch it up at least every other day. Say okay tomorrow. You're driving to lunch Don't make a habit of you always doing something That way you'll never get taken for granted and they'll look forward to it Or they'll stop taking your kindness if they can't return it In a respectful way You know So I like this because it stays on like 24 hours if you're looking for a good Lipstick that's matte and a cute red number eight and number five are the reds and the liquid met Level up cosmetics. All right so Shameless plug time. Yeah If you're looking for a more creamier lipstick Um, definitely check out The siren and the rake Definitely can't go on there Yeah these two reds definitely matte The same texture is like a matte matte lipstick and then we have burn for you This is like a really good orangy fall color I Like the little stars on it and if you like the dark deep fall color um Royal it's like a purple color perfect for this time of year and If you like hot pinks This is called ribbon. This is really nice. It's very bright and vibrant and then of course we have our Mascara, I don't know if we still have this but we are getting some new lipsticks in very soon With the same color. Uh, it's going to be named something else So I'll let you know when that stuff Arrives and I can put it up on the website um So yeah, get your level up Don't lack too short-bodied lipstick, baby. Shameless plug level of cosmetics dot us link below in the description bar Also, you know, it's almost Halloween. So we have the level up cut in um face sponges And soon we have palette coming out It'll be here soon as long as along with lipsticks So get your Anyway, just in time for Halloween. Is this a real lip lip piercing? No, I drew it in, baby Y'all know I'm gonna get my lip pierced I took this It's just like a liquid color That's not I did that then I took some black liner And I did it baby. Let's see You just take some liquid liner and then line it up make it look like a lip piercing Let's see see You don't need to get your lip pierced. You just need to draw it in I think this lip liner is out But you know how it's supposed to look likes it Um, so putting I'm putting my lips as a priority right now. So y'all just gonna have to wait Literally I'm putting my lip as a priority. Hold on. Let me fix it if I look crazy like I got one tooth sticking out Mm-hmm. So now what I'm going to be for Halloween this year Let's see if y'all can guess. I know one of y'all gonna be able to guess thing Vampire Michael. Oh no, I'm not gonna be Michael this year. I'm gonna be another celebrity though That's a hint. It's gonna be a celebrity Eric Abadou. Yes, Antoinette got it I'm gonna be Eric Abadou. I'm gonna be Eric Abadou when she goes to award shows Y'all know that she'd be wearing the same outfit The big old giant Top hat Ned Babadouk outfit that's me It's gonna be me This year I'm going to be Eric Abadou. Yeah, I'm getting me some hazel contacts from the beauty supply store And I already got the rest of that outfit in a week so How to be a priority to married Sugar daddies, I feel they come and go as they please also I know you said to ask for money on the first date, but they asked me what I want from them and to be sure Thank you for the donation Emani's so You if the sugar daddy is married, you're probably a priority to them More so than their wife Especially if they're if you're getting money from They are probably simply just having to be at certain places at certain times Due to the fact that they are married So you you may be getting more or you're maybe getting enough to make yourself a priority I would definitely treat myself as a priority when you're around them and make them make you promises And when they ask you what is you want Don't just talk about the money talk about I would like you to keep your word On everything you ever tell me and I would like you to Make me a priority and give me some money put those three things in there and They will be surprised you didn't straight up ask for money for the you know Majority of whatever you were telling them that you wanted um, put those things on the list And then you will be because they'll remember that like they she should have asked her This is not but she asked to be a priority and for me to keep my word when I or keep my promises and Then she asked for the money So asked in that order When they ask you That way you won't seem like such a gold digger, but just you know One that has a high priority of themselves Okay So I know a lot of a lot of ladies ask me What should I do if my family keeps asking me to do stuff for them? or um Mother or siblings or how do I put myself as a priority when I'm young? Be unavailable be unavailable To do any of the things that you don't want to do This is an easy way to put yourself as a priority without people really Putting pressure on you Is to be unavailable Always have something to do basically I have a doctor's appointment. I have to go here. I have to go there I already promised I would do this for someone else even if it's not true and um, you're not Wanting to just tell them straight up no to their face You always have a prior engagement and make sure you write that down and put it in your phone so that when that Time comes around you're not in their face You're actually going doing something I don't care if it's if you got to go take a bubble bath Or if you got to go shopping at the mall or just go sit in your car around the corner. It doesn't matter Make yourself a priority go listen to audio book if you ain't got nothing else to do or anywhere to go You know, um, but you don't have to always do stuff Just because you're not busy That's another thing just because your time is not occupied does not mean it's someone else's time So that's what you need to um realize just because your time is not occupied does not mean it belongs to anyone else And they they need to remember that as well um If you have a job and you're it's your day off and they call you in don't answer your phone And if you do tell them you're not even in town On it's my day off. I'm out of town So make sure you don't give your free time away to people when that's supposed to be for you Um If you answer that phone as oh your it's your day off. They don't call it every time somebody don't show up Also, um If it's a man And they call you last minute. I know a lot of people will say yes or Um at the last minute or they've been taught to say no at the last minute If a man calls you up and you've already gotten plans or they didn't ask far enough at advance If you want to go Tell them you have to think about it first At least have them waiting and you know on their toes Tell them you have to think about it first and then you give your yes or no At the last minute to them So for example, if they are trying to go out with you tomorrow And they had you know all week to ask you tell them you'll let them know Let them know at the very last minute If you if you're gonna go and then it's always still your choice to say no That way they're not trying to find your replacement while Um after you had said yes or no or no So just give them the very last No, I'm sorry. I'm not gonna be able to go when it comes to Making time to get ready to do your hair. You'll make up your nails. Whatever you're trying to do to go out even if it's just You time to go out and spend with yourself Don't put yourself last um And if you don't have a lot of time make sure you carry your little makeup bag with you and Stuff with you make that a priority to have extra Stuff you can carry in your car um But always make time to make yourself up make yourself look cute Don't rush and spend time doing something else for someone else who can do it for themselves I know a lot of times women tend to want to Do stuff for people. Oh, let me make you breakfast. Oh, let me do this. Oh, let me do that They if they got two hands And they're in the kitchen And they know how to make food then you go sit there and make up your face and let them Cook for them. So they're gonna have to do it eventually anyway. So Don't rush to put other people as a priority when they would not do it for you ever Okay We can't do that anymore because that's when people start thinking that You are Obligated to them You notice a lot of friends will expect you to help them get ready. But when it's your turn, they're rushing now I would always say I'm let me get ready first Then I'll help you Because I'm I'm I'm gonna rush whatever you're doing. You're gonna look crazy Because I'm gonna try to be getting back to me because I'm the priority So let me finish getting ready and then when if I have time I'll help you That's what's gonna have to be Or let's get right at the same time And that's it Because what's gonna happen y'all gonna go out and they ain't even looking better than you With your assistance Okay, don't do that You say sometimes I don't pick up the phone really all the time I don't pick up the phone unless it's my mom And sometimes I don't even pick it up still um I pick up the phone maybe one percent of the time But if you you lucky if you're my boy You like it's a miracle um If they feel you look better than them they will delay where you've been going They will delay where you you're even going That's why you need this they can't see You ain't gonna see what I look like till we get there And that's another thing If you're afraid you're gonna out they're gonna out if they're afraid you're gonna outshine them Do something different that they won't Try to outshine or won't try to do like you show up there looking like this They're not gonna copy this you show up there like this Hi, they're not gonna copy that they can't outshine it. It's too blingy Don't don't try to look alike Have your own style like Oh, sorry, y'all my ear Don't try to don't try to look alike all the time. Have a style that they don't want to copy And something only you can pull off like oh Darling Have a signature or something like that. That's why you always gonna stand out Do you go somewhere? Throw a hat on it. This cute mask. Automatic mystery. Who is that? I gotta go see who out of you I like your mask Why thank you darling. I like your hair Um, I didn't wear this or this but you know, I wore the rest I got I think I got hit on two times almost today Um By people that thought I was way younger than what I was. I'm like, oh my goodness That's why I stay in the house Um Young and them young and be looking. Oh Y'all keep y'all eyeballs. Y'all here. I'm too old Um Ain't you hey You know that makes me more uncomfortable than an old man looking at me a young man It feels strange just like more I hear sasha laughing at me. Are you laughing at me sasha? I hear you She's in there in the next room laughing You dropping Oh sasha she was there, you know Crazy child Yes, so putting ourselves as a priority Not caring what other people think as well Like Not always asking people do you like this? Do you like that? Should I wear this? Should I change? Not waiting for other people's approval of whatever it is you're trying to do like Let's say if We were getting ready to go out with a group of friends, which I used to do back in the old days, but And I said this is what I'm wearing and they had a problem with it. Oh my god, you're gonna wear that Why wouldn't why'd you wear that? Why don't you wear this dress? No, this is what I'm wearing and Stay confident in your choice and keep yourself as a priority. Don't let other people change your mind for you And you know stay an individual Stay unique because you don't want to Look like the next chick and you also don't want to Always take advice from people who may or may not have your best interest in mind You know what's going to get the attention that you're trying to get stay who you are some people just want to sabotage you or Maybe they don't have the confidence that you do to pull off whatever look you're trying to pull off Or maybe they know it's going to grab more attention than them so stick to whatever you like Don't allow other people to change Whatever you want to do and make yourself a priority um Oh, I have more advice. Okay, so let's let's pretend like You want to go out you have a boyfriend or a husband, right? And Sometimes men tend to dress sloppy or don't look good as the woman when they go out Especially when they get comfortable in a relationship, but women always looking, you know trying to look cute and stuff like that if you don't want Your your husband tagging along or if you want him to dress better You know pull off and pull out an outfit that's you know not to be um Set next to wearing jeans and a t-shirt or shorts and a t-shirt you come out looking like Oh, you can't go with me because you're not dressed well enough sorry It's not casual night, so you can stay home. I'll be back later You remember hate women who cheat on Or me to their husband why she get cheated on many times I don't think people should judge other people and what they do in their relationships unless they're willing to give them money to move out and pay their bills Sparkle sparkle Okay That's number one y'all already know I have been on youtube for so long and I have Given advice to many people And I have told people to do this people to do that I know I've told people to cheat if they want to I've told people to not cheat I told people whatever was necessary for them to keep themselves as a priority And to keep their self-love and their self-esteem. That's what I told them to do And if people get mad at other people for doing such things then make sure they got that bank account number So they can transfer funds to help them make better decisions. Okay That's what I tell people because you know, we're not going to judge people Especially if you're not going to do anything about it Family of friends try to sabotage. They are jealous. So where what makes you feel best and look best? That's right You great advice you agree even some of them are jealous of their daughters Yeah, that's sad, but you know, it's true. I've seen a lot of people like that I just say everybody try to look the best they can look And do the best they can do No need to be jealous And if you jealous of whoever you hang it out with go hang out with somebody less attracted. That's the best thing I can tell you Okay What I'm always going to say that If you want to teach someone a lesson By always putting them first or without, you know Making yourself a priority Do it almost as a joke like If you're supposed to be going with someone or if you're supposed to be giving somebody a ride Like your kids or if you're supposed to be doing like something with someone And they keep asking you to do stuff for them. Say, yeah, sure. I'll do it. I'll do it. You know, I got it I'm gonna I'm gonna handle it And then when it's time for you to go or do the big the big grand finale thing Oh, you know, I can't do that because I just did so much for you So you have a good time, but really what you're doing is going out with someone else or by yourself Okay Or oh, I'm sorry. I can't get you right. I gotta go somewhere um Call your friend And then oh because I spent so much time doing all those things for you. I didn't have time to do anything for me So I'm not going Mm-hmm So You said guess what I made your plastic surgeon give you a breast implants for free for real. Wow He must like you girl Or he must That's good. That's what you want He puts you as a priority Obviously What about when you ask for things and your man refuses You already know when he asks us up until we asked what also refused That you want he he won't refuse Phil Y'all know that game if he refused you refuse For as long as the day Well, y'all know how to play this game if he say no, you say no Oh sprinkle sprinkle Kayla So, yeah No, sir Remember that time I asked you for this all right Yes, I guess you have the answer the same one you gave me. Nope What to do when husband pays you for sex 100 dollars per session, but you don't want to 100 dollars How long the last two minutes is longer than two minutes And you got to do stuff and you guys you change this later then double it maybe trivially If if if you're not just laying there for two minutes, then no, you need to ask us a moment like this Like if you guys actually got to do stuff 100 dollars ain't worth it 100 dollars. Just a later. Okay Sorry Everything else is extra everything else is 50 dollars extra Just like the menu at the nail the nail and pedicure place that he's a big old menu And they got all the different pedicures and many cures on there with the different squirrels and stuff You need to make you a menu Just laying there for two minutes 100 dollars then add on that little the little extras I wear perfume and shave my legs for one fitting Uh I wear lingerie for 200 and then keep adding on red is extra Okay Lights can be off lights off with candles 75 extra shoulder massage That's another 30 That before you know, he's gonna fit his whole jet over there. Okay To touch music For me to talk about it what you tomorrow is 20 extra dollars Shit Husband should invest anyway before away like now so my Your type of language. Uh-huh. I just have on some black slacks with wide leg bottoms No biggie and then this is just this top from sheet in But um, yeah, so another another way to put yourself as a priority and Not doing stuff you don't like to do Okay This is a this is a major thing. This is major There's something you don't like to do never do it Never attempt to do it or do it as less as possible That way you're never asked to do it And people will make other arrangements But make it well known to everyone, you know I don't like to do this Or I don't ever want you to ask me to do these certain things And if they ever try or if they ever attempt to they already know the answer is going to be no So they won't be as disappointing But always make sure always make sure That You have your No, I will never do this or no. I'm not doing this. But don't even ask Okay From the start because if you don't people will start to ask Mm-hmm, you say looking like the female future. I got the keys keys Yes men that try to get with us And our married do we acknowledge that fact or act obvious and try to get wherever we can from them or bring up America Well, I always ask and most of the time they're going to lie Even if they are married, so even asking will not guarantee you the truth But if they are going to be honest with you, then they they figure that you already know the deal And And depending on what your goals are That's what you go by, you know, some people have different morals and goals So if you don't date me either say, no, I'm sorry. I don't date me or me or you're like, okay. Well, no, I'm gonna need this this But remember most of the time they're gonna lie to you if they are married so Just make sure you do your own research on that Make sure you do I know from personal experience Um What if you say no and they act as if they're angry Then chart then give them your price Well, if you would like me to say if you want me to do a bc and d then I'm gonna need here are my requirements. Then you pull out your list, baby They can't be mad at you for saying no no Like you ain't allowed to say the word no or something That's when you pull out your list No, why are you saying no? Well, I guess I can do it if You do this No, okay, then we don't have a deal Sorry No deal What to say is they if he try to break up with you because you're asking for things Break up when he when he start asking for things Okay Because you know all them all they all the men all they about is that thing that thing that thing That's a thing too So you stop asking for things then And when I say thing I mean that thing that thing that thing if I can't ask for things you can't ask a thing Okay, so you better tell him to get his priorities in order Say Just because y'all know you're mine. Y'all know I gotta have a bad mouth. You know, I'm quick I gotta hold it back sometime like well Uh-uh, I think about it first like I can't say that I'm not on youtube and this is real life Okay Oh pan african sprinkles for this video is a side chick's dream Send your man the next woman to the next woman's table playing yourself out of youthful The next woman's table Yep, send him to the next one on the table. If you ain't got no youthful, then why he's still in your face If you have no use for them It's the nice thing to do to send him to someone else's table There's no use Now, will he gonna sit there and twiddle his thumb? Nope when you're quick to send someone to the next woman's table, how do you think they feel? Like they're being passed around and nobody even wants them So She and you're dating a guy for two months and he doesn't ask me for sex He gives me gifts why he behaves like that. I thought every man wanted girl because it's little Spread the sparkle Thank you Don't close it all the way. Yeah Because it's little, you know that Good Y'all know that's the only reason Hi kitty You see straight up that's the only reason I'm sorry, you know, no other reason That's the reason Y'all miss my baby Y'all miss kitty Y'all remember her Little Yeah Y'all know all villains how they're all lab cat I can kiss through this But I don't get the hair stuck on my lip Y'all want some cat ASMR Y'all hear that bird? We're gonna make a cat ASMR channel. We're gonna get paid, kitty Put some cat food on the mic I saw some of those cat videos Those cat ASMR videos and they put food on the mic and they Cat purring and licking the mic and they got like a million views. I'm like, oh my god So what do you do for a living? Oh, I make cat ASMR videos. I'm a millionaire Can we go shopping? Sure. It's on the kitties That'll kind of be so corny, you know them Dudes that have all them cats and stuff that they kind of weird anyway, but you know, I take I take the money the cat cat ASMR money. That's some good money So if you got cats and some wet cat food and a mic Look it up Um So I haven't gotten to that level yet I'm not letting my cat lick this mic. That's nasty I'm not putting cat food on my mic either Okay I have to buy a separate mic for that Um See even bill that has her pride. She's like, I'm not doing that on the camera That's disgusting But we never say never mm-hmm so Even bill that put herself as a priority and refuses to stoop to such a low level This also like putting yourself as a priority like if you have a boss or co-workers that you don't get along with Remember, um, they treat you how you treat yourself But keep that in mind Don't be volunteering yourself Don't be doing extra and always have somewhere to go right after work. I've never asked you if they let be I have to be somewhere exactly at 315 515 or else Fine We never have to stay late and never ask you to do extra and you're always out of there at the same time He said the cat got most of us the even most people for him This guy your day knows gives you kisses all over your face You can't wear makeup because he eats all eats at all. What is this normal? Should I say him to that? Girl if you start breaking out, I would definitely tell him to stop Why he kissing all over your face? First of all, that ain't gonna work for me. Like you can kiss a reloaded mask That's it. You go you all look in my eye. I don't I don't know your germ. Did you brush your teeth? You know Kisses should stay Unless you at home You're getting ready to go to bed or whatever but not just in public And you know, you see a smell of like spit for real. Oh Conject me how to reject men when they are pushy You had dices try to talk to you at the gas station and at the mall You on your way to the hospital, baby. I'm on my way to the hospital I'm on my way to pick up my kids from the daycare. I'm on my way to The clinic well or something That's how you reject them make them reject you I'm out of money and you pay for my gas I've learned the hard way. You don't reject them. You make them reject you Okay Hey, say little mama say little mommy can't get your number. Oh That is so sweet. Hold on. Um I'm actually on my way to the hospital. Um, I'm actually on my way to the clinic I'm actually on my way to pick up my kids And just say all my kids That okay, they'll give you the wrong number They'll give you the wrong number I'm on my way to the probation officer say something or something. That's how you get rid of Where y'all laugh? I'm on my way to my probation officer Even though you're not and you're like really good and have no records Oh, I can't hang out with other criminals. I'm on my probation myself Yes, we'll never see each other again You thought you told her does he had eight kids to discourage him and he said shy. I love the kids You got to go further than that Now get creative You see a probation so get him If you're trying to get rid of someone you don't ever want to see them again, it doesn't matter I'll become a church lady real quick I'm on my way to church Bible study Holy oil I'm on my way to church. Do you read the word? Because if I give you my phone number, we won't stay up all night reading the bible By the way, I don't believe in sex until after marriage They'll be gone quick. Um anyway so Yep, prioritize yourself Make time for yourself Even if you have to get a planner and plan your time or sit the lines on your clock to say Take time out for you put you as a priority If your makeup is not done by this time in the morning, stop everything you're doing and go put it on especially if you're going somewhere I actually bumped it to one of you guys the other day at the gas station And it was someone that had done a consultation with a long time ago and I actually remember doing their consultation They had moved here And they're telling me that they're moving here all up in the comments And she saw me and she's like I was like, hey So, um That's cool. That's like the third person I ran into there That I've known that's known me from youtube Mm-hmm You said men run away when you say you like a gentleman nowadays. Oh Oops So I don't know about that If they run away, then maybe they're not a gentleman How do you deal with guys that don't want to take you out? You want to cook at his house and buy drinks or come to mine? Tell them you'll you will go out with your friends And if you have time you'll stop by their house Um That's fun if you have been dating for a while and you've already been out and done all that stuff But not when you're starting to date. That's not something that I would I wouldn't even agree to like That's something you're doing. You already in a relationship Not when you're trying to date date means go out I don't like seeing people that I know in public. I go to the other way Well, I don't really know them They know me from youtube, but that was that's my first time meeting them What do you think the best site to start an online business? Whichever one you have passion for Uh Shopify is decent Etsy is decent Unless they got a mansion and a somebody clicking for y'all. I don't know about that You said the pygmy show agenda is real You're dating a guy who has a bad job, but he comes from a wealthy family treats you good and gives you gifts I stay with him As a couple or keep searching for other guys He comes from a wealthy family and has a bad job, but gives you gifts. Well, he's gonna be broke forever and I mean unless it makes you uncomfortable I would definitely I mean he's giving you gifts You probably don't plan on marrying him. Do you I don't know. Uh, I would probably stick around for a little while, but I would also date other people You said a dumb girl can't keep you intellectually interested. Yeah Um, yeah, a lot of women realize that You know when they let their intelligence You know out Sometimes men get intimidated by that and it backfires. So Sometimes women don't know whether to show their intelligence or not Especially with a man because a lot of times women are actually a lot smarter than the men who are actually looking for intellectual conversation And they usually get surprised that the woman is way smarter And now they're the dumb one Now the woman doesn't want them So sometimes it's a blessing for a woman to act dumb in your presence Because she may be smarter than you think And you don't want her taken over the conversation or outdoing you in the intellectual conversation Especially when you thought that you were going to be the one to impress her with knowledge and intellect and things like that And she ends up having to correct you So, yeah A lot of women just play dumb or stay dumb on purpose because she doesn't want to outdo you I know I have had to do this several times So this place we would have done Oh, that's my song Oh, yeah, that's so funny. Life is a dumb joke Enjoy the mundane aspect of the date And when they're when you can tell if there's a man that's trying to pick your brain or you know, make you talk or Try to get to the intellectual side of you and you already know that you know more than them But don't don't even go there just act like they're teaching you So, yeah You said the If you tell it's so too much some men won't pay attention anyway. They lose interest You know, you know play dumb as long as you can Do you recommend what I recommend whatever you think works for you Being submissive is so hard. I grew up with six brothers and I just not In me to shut up when a man tells you to As somebody if a man told me to shut up I'm plotting period If you told me to shut up My silence is plotting I don't shut up on command. I'm plotting If I'm quiet It's called plotting I didn't shut up. I'm plotting You said I don't tolerate being told to shut up. Yeah, of course the woman ain't gonna shut up She won't she's gonna say her piece and then she's gonna shut up and go plot somewhere And she won't be talking to you anytime soon Tell me to shut up. I will never talk to you again Tell your mom to shut up A man that doesn't want an arrogant woman sounds like he wants a woman with a love low self esteem so he can Run game on her. It's so there's like a fine line It's like either you want a confident woman, but you want to boss around and tell her to shut up But how can you be confident if you let a man tell you to shut up and boss you around Then you want an independent woman, but when you tell a woman to shut up And be quiet Oh, how she's supposed to remain independent, but shutting up for you and probably makes more money than you Like what do y'all really think the being a man is? Do you think you know, um It it represents being able to tell a woman what to do Um making her make you a priority Um getting her to be submissive to you da da da Um, then this just role playing after that. She's not even doing those things for real It's just role play after that. So your respect ain't even real is role play Okay, so a lot of men will take role play In the form of respect or submission, but it's fake You know, uh I mean I hear a man talking. Oh, I got I got a woman and she's independent make her own money Do whatever I asked her to do. She's a good woman. She's role playing Okay That's a role play Because as soon as you make her mad all that role plays that I change and so is that script Okay Okay, there you go. You say you only shut up for money. Okay Kid kiddie you say woulda drank love most about me That I don't change for nobody and I'm gonna be who I am regardless and That's this who I am. I mean that's gotta be it because I don't know You're plotting ways and writing it down in your journal. Okay. That's what it's for All ladies get y'all level up journal Get y'all roster y'all plots y'all mental level up playing your outfits your lives whatever You go if y'all want that a level up coven Got that too, baby Y'all need some daily affirmations and wisdom y'all go Y'all go get the book it's linked below. It's you can get this on amazon it's the daily affirmation book and You If you ever feeling just if you ever have a man travel just pick this book up And keep reading it until you remember who you are I promise you if y'all had this book Y'all comment if you ever had a bad date man trouble self-esteem issue Vending argument and you pick this up and read it How do you feel? After a couple of pages You start to get you know what I'm gonna go get my nice outfit on. I'm gonna go walk I'm gonna do my makeup Who do you think he is he must not know who I am? That's what this book will do for you And even if you are single it's gonna be like I forgot I forgot Who I am let me go make sure everybody Turn a head when I walk in his room This book will have you thinking like that The wisdom Of sheer seven daily affirmations and quotes it is linked below and it is also on amazon A lot of people may have some issues with what I say how honest I am my unbothered attitude My morals and things like that. I'm I'm well aware of those things every Every cause has an effect and this just happens to be The effect of some of those causes That we as ladies have to deal with in this world. So Um, I don't think there's any shame in that Especially if you're honest with yourself and other people around you I think that's your choice and our free will and our choice to Claim that this is how we think this is what we will and will not tolerate We tell you from the start It is up to you to say yes and accept it or no we want a different type of woman But at least you have the heads up to know But this is what we are This is our priorities us ourselves if you want something different go get something different Don't try to change us into something that we cannot be And a lot of men have trouble with this they want to change you They want to mold you they want to create you recreate you or create you It won't happen Can't recreate someone especially when they're their own priority Would you say staying fit? is number one level up Or is it mentally wise level up how much Is your book um I don't know how much my book is. Let me check this part It's on amazon. I haven't looked at the prices. Oh, it's not that expensive. You've been afforded Um I think whatever level up means to you and what gets you the most results Is should be your number one level up priority for some people it is fitness for other people It's mental for some people. It's you know, um their self-esteem. So whatever gets you the most results Are you whatever you have noticed? Then you continue to do those things How do you function in a long-term relationship and achieve the goals we have if women is on her own page? Half time for yourself like men do do you think men career suffer because of a woman? That's what i'm talking about do not put Your stuff on hold and put yourself as a low priority because you end up a long-term relationship A man ain't gonna do that for you so Do the same for yourself Gotta be cold as ice You can't control me You see I need gloves covered in crystals Wait till you see the glids that I already got I'm probably gonna wear them on halloween, but I gotta I gotta Bling them up first And like some people feel that when you put yourself as a priority and you're very adamant on Staying who you are keeping yourself a priority or You're not able to bend For anyone You're unreasonable. You're delusional You're not Marriage material You know any of those things because you can't I can't manipulate you or you won't do what I say Well, you're not able to manipulate me. So then you're not you know You're a great husband material. I'm sorry. You don't feel the same way about me But good luck That's what I would tell someone like especially if you're trying to date someone And then they start to tell you about yourself Like you're just not that if I may have started 60 miles Especially if you've been dating and to tell you what you're not Then you need to tell them what you are Well, there is one thing I know for sure that I'm not not your mother And I really don't care And if you want me to be all those things Then let me give you the list of my bills so that you can pay them on for all And then we can discuss My monthly allowance and then we can also discuss how um, you're not going to expect me to do anything except for Take care of myself so that I can look good and then You know for us to be in a relationship because any other way It's not happening. So if you are looking for someone That can do all those things that you need them to do. I wish you the best of luck That's what you need to tell them Because they expect you to try to be fulfilling whatever role that they're trying to create for you And if that's not your role, that ain't your role Sorry, that's not my role. I don't do those types of things unless Um, I don't work. I don't have to work or get up early and pretty much have everything, um At my fingertips When I need them when I need it. So nope can't do that I You're delusional they'll call you delusional quickly well A lot of my friends are delusional because they have that that very thing Very same thing that I expect So if you can't do that then you don't tell me anything and you just go sit back down Because a lot of men these days they don't realize They feel women are so desperate For a man That they forgot that there's men everywhere All you got to do is turn your head and they go um Looking at you So, you know And if they can't give you what you want Then they're on the same level as that man behind you looking at you And you can't pay these bills if you can't give me what I want then what's the difference between you and him? Nothing I'm a good man. So is he he doing the same thing He ain't giving me nothing. He's looking You do the same thing. So I guess y'all equals Oh my gosh, you're gonna end up alone with a cat. Good Better than somebody can't do nothing for me What's your biggest tip to seduce our own self To love oneself Get that book I'm trying to tell you Remember who you are, you know I always go back to the best moment that you can remember in your life when it comes to Dating or the response you got or the looks you got And relive that moment in your mind Or several moments or whatever and remember who you are That's what you got to do because we forget forget how great we are I'm like Do you like literally if someone's talk crazy to you? Especially if it's a guy or they're trying to get you to do something You don't want to do or they're trying to treat you below What you're used to be being treated like Think about the best moments you've had With maybe somebody else that don't even let them be like This fool is literally sitting over here talking to me like I can't do any better And remember when you did better And that's when you get up and leave or tell them off or remember who you are and get your confidence back You just tune in oh it's just my book it's The Wisdom of Sheerah 7 A Daily affirmation and quotes it's on amazon and it's also linked below In the description I'll try to link it in the comments too after The videos of her Uh and y'all go back in the permanent comments and get it so Remember to type MJ or maybe I can link it now. Hold on a second Boom we get that book like I'm just gonna put all my book blanks up in there Copy Here I go I'm gonna pin it too because somebody told me how to pin it Maybe it's too long Who's gonna ever place that there you go. There's my book like Y'all get that book It's a classic Sparkle sparkle He said the ideology of body count is antiquated and just plain stupid Yep, because I'm somebody asked me about body count. I'm gonna be like I never really killed nobody but I might have I'm not sure But it's gonna be zero because I ain't never murdered nobody That's the kind of body count you're talking You might be the first one sir Does you know me That's what I would say Because I've never killed anyone and the term is sad like How how are people going to Compare what's supposed to be a beautiful experience and sharing yourself with someone you're supposed to Be attracted to in love or like or whatever murderism by That's y'all know what man came up with that That just goes to show you Their priorities and how much respect they have for you You're gonna you're gonna fix your mouth to ask me such a private question And then call it a body count i'll fix my mouth and tell him the same number as your mama Because that's the audacity That I feel when you ask me that question. Oh my goodness What's my body count Let's see. It's probably gonna be the same around the same number as your mother So Just ask her That'd be the last time you ever see that person Because I would I really think that they would be joking and I would That'd be ascended or I'd say the the line like oh, I've never killed anyone before. What are you talking about? I play stupid and do Just like they probably think I Thoughts on so many girls disappearing and how to avoid those type of guys um, don't go over people's house Only go to nice areas Work place go to expensive places nice places Always tell people where you're going See if they strapped Take your own car Unless you're getting into like a real relationship that you can trust Um, somebody just enough to ride in the car with him, but you know this day and age. Oh, I'll meet you there You send the car the car tag Yeah, take a picture of the drivers The take a picture of him and his car and his license Send your location. Don't drink too much. That's true You send someone Yeah, well, that's that's a good idea Plus you you'll know you'll get a weird feeling if he's suspicious looking don't be so desperate A boyfriend said he loved me but don't expect to wait for him Don't expect you to wait for him Well, then he's telling you you can do better Your spouse says I'm sensitive. I told him go and date a man. Oh my goodness Don't ignore the red flags Yeah, some people can't deal with emotional people So you don't have to say whatever you're saying a different way like Like stop caring so much and stop being so sensitive. It's like honestly like I could care less unbothered Men are usually more sensitive to women when women become unbothered It's like you can't be too nice And then when you're too mean Oh, you're you're the B word when you're too nice and you're sensitive and little things bother you Oh, you're too sensitive. There is no middle. You know what the middle is Staying unbothered Okay We dated for two months and he's talking about marriage and kids. Should you trust nope? That's too soon Sorry You should be talking about automatic deposits And allowance Here you go You can't if you can't afford that you can't afford no marriage and kids sparkle sparkle Love bombing is a narcissistic sign I don't want I wouldn't believe somebody anyway. I'm not believing you love me till we done been through a natural disaster Until you didn't pay at least three four my car notes Until I don't have to work I don't believe that somebody loves me until all those things have fallen in divine order Okay, you don't love me until all them things happen Sorry You don't love me unless you got all these bills and you don't pay them and I got one of your blank checks credit card numbers Automatic deposit credit card with my name on you don't love me Okay, that's love words No I need action I need I need all of those things to know And what I know I know You can't tell me I have you got to show me. There's you You said way too soon. It's only two months. Yeah It If it's too soon for you you to ask him to pay your car note It's too soon for him to be talking about kids and marriage Men will look at you crazy. You talk about paying your bills and then car now, but But we'll think you crazy if you don't respond to kids and marriage after two months Well, how you gonna pay for I need to see what you can do without kids and marriage for me Some of us are already a for the right woman There is no right woman. You know, you know what there is. There's a woman that will tolerate you And then there's women that Are like me I'm not the right woman. You know what I am I'm the woman I am and if you like me you like me You gonna do what I asked you to do And everybody's gonna be happy Because the woman can change your mind in two seconds and be the wrong woman tomorrow After the wedding, okay, so you better know who you marry The right woman is the woman who puts herself as a prior or a team And that woman that you get to know who always putting herself first That is the most extreme version of her If you meet someone that's always putting you first and putting everybody else first You you come back and visit the relationship in about 10 years. She's gonna look older than everybody She's on she's gonna look tired more tired than everybody and she's going to Feel less than everybody because she's putting everybody else before her And you're gonna start to do the same thing as a man put priorities before her put priorities and things like that On other people before your own wife because you're gonna watch her do it for so long And then guess what? You ain't gonna want to be married to her anymore Okay, so don't allow your wife or the right woman Because you think right means putting yourself last and That's done. It's done So don't have her over there looking crazy Talk about she was the right woman what I met her Mm-hmm You dated two months. He gave you a ring and We use rings as a couple why he doesn't do he need a green card? Or he just won't don't want nobody else to have your girl how many carrots is this ring? Okay, do we got a diamond on it? How many carrots? Is it nice? Is it worth some? What's going on? Some women will literally let a man pick them up and dope them whenever Oh drop them whenever. Oh, no, sir. Got me Red flag there are no judgment. Okay. Um Somebody said he put voodoo in that ring You see it pop up on his job and see if he got that ring on. Oh my goodness That ring will go off as soon as I leave his presence Unless there's a couple of carrots, okay It's a silver ring girl. I know you line Girl, you could go buy a silver ring at tj max You can go buy a silver ring at Walmart. What the heck? No I'm not first of all. I ain't wearing no ring Unless I'm proposed to and there's some carrots in it. That's number one So girl take the thing Put it on your toe make a toe ring. Okay. There you go Um, I think it looks better on my toe You know, see I'm it's a sweet gesture. It's very nice and da-da-da, but Is that all your worth, baby? A silver ring Okay, I bet my cat's collar costs more than a ring Don't do it. It ain't worth it to take yourself off the market for a piece of silver girl. No You said toe rings are ratchet. That's exactly why I That's exactly that's exactly what I was trying to get across like I would take that ring and put it on my toe She or how do you spice up your love life? If I told you you'd be mad sprinkle sprinkle How he wealthy and gave you a stainless steel ring would I don't think it'd be the answer you're looking for Um What if he just start his own business but says he has big potential clients and is going to make a lot of money Soon is it worth getting involved? I'm not going to involve myself in any man's business But if you're talking about to get involved into the relationship, they all say that darling I mean when he's supposed to say this ain't gonna work. I'm gonna be broke forever You know I wouldn't bet anything on that Uh, you know, I would just allow him to prove himself to himself Get the clients he says he's gonna have and then we'll celebrate once his big deal You know, his big chick hit the bank whatever He's a new entrepreneur. He doesn't have it yet right now. It's a dollar and a jury. That's correct Like this is why like meets Meet somebody after they're established because if they're just getting a business up and running off the ground They ain't gonna have time for you anyway Now if he's got money and a large investment and You see a lot of potential because he's already got money. That's different But if he just like rubbing two pennies together, you know, he's not gonna have time to do all those things for you And make that company into something that he wants it to be mm-hmm and Usually they say okay when a man is Starting off the type of woman he's starting off with it's not the same woman He ended up with one until like when he becomes successful. So you you just have to realize sometimes Mm-hmm So ask yourself this question. This is what I always tell people who have trouble with this If your man has if your man had the money that he thinks he's gonna have Right now, would he be with you? If your if your man got all of them big clients and Big contracts, would he be talking to you? Or what are we talking to some other girl? That's how you know, that's how you measure the potential But if he'd be talking to you if he had a million dollars Or half a million dollars or if you wouldn't be talking to you That's how you measure his potential Thank you, Gracie sprinkle sprinkle. Thank you for changing my life Sugar daddy upped your allowance During the pandemic so you could come Homeschool your child. Oh He wants to marry you but don't love him give Give money giving you all the time To write two books and start new business. Well, that's good like Don't like don't worry about that other part get your get your priorities taken care of and then You won't really need him if you don't want him anymore or you may fall In love with him or you may just become really good friends with him. So, you know, remember that priority What do you want most in life right now? What do you need most in life right now? That's where your priority needs to stay focused, but that's great That's right. Yeah, you got a keeper for right now He now has several you see if that's for he now has several successful businesses and marry someone else. Oh my goodness You know a guy that married a girl. I read the The last one first, you know, my guy that married a girl years ago and started a main Started the main reason was she helped him in money with money when he was dying out and now he's married to somebody else. Oh my goodness A lot of guys talk to the women they really want once they get their money No wonder women to go for men with potential exactly So y'all just keep that in mind Whatever man is wealthy, but you can't stand him You can stand his money, which one do you want him or his money? Or do you have to make a choice? Is there somebody else with money that you could stand? If you can't find somebody and stick with him until you find somebody to stand again A lot of guys talk to the women they really want once they get the money. Yep Thank you, David's friend. What if a man already read time If a man it's like I just want a good woman. I'm ready for the right woman. He ain't ready That's a big giveaway when he when people say that they don't know what that is What's a good woman? What's the right woman? Right for you do everything you say or the correct woman that knows how to deal with you I think like out of all the times that I've ever Like before I got married and stuff and all the videos. I've never had the words To say I'm looking for a good man. I'm ready to find a good man I never based Anything on Whether that man was good Or right And I'm gonna tell you why Because like I said, no one is 100% good And no one is 100% right You're never gonna find that because it doesn't exist What you're gonna find is somebody who's Good enough today You you may find someone who's you know Correct today depending on your level of knowledge and what you think you want today But in five years from now All that could change you could want something totally different and that might not be the right person um What you thought was good Five years ago may not be good in five years from now So y'all gotta remember that So I don't base stuff on good or right. I base it on Long-term effects of being with this person. What is going to happen? And a lot of people say well, what about love? What about love? Honeymoon stage and mostly infatuation Love like I said is when Good bad right and wrong all mix up together and that person's still paying them bills and they're still there Okay There you go I know a lot of men or modern men these days have problem with women asking them to pay their bills Or to pay all the bills Or that the woman doesn't want to bring anything to the table first I know a lot of these Men don't feel that that's fair And it's not and neither is the woman having to go through nine months of childbirth But we ain't sitting up there puffing and puffing about that You know and then Men expect you to work while pregnant men. I mean women are sitting up there complaining about that so that's why The argument is not even close and Yes, sir for a woman Especially if it's a woman who is attracted To take herself off the market To be in a long-term relationship possible marriage and have kids with a man What that needs to be She needs to be guaranteed full bill payment Being fully taken care of living a stress free life If you can't do that then move out the way and make room for someone else who can't Okay, I know that's harsh I know a lot of men don't like to hear that But That's how some women feel And they can do those things for themselves So why even you know bother getting with somebody who can't even do those things That she can do for herself What is the you know Men forget that women can do stuff for themselves And still date And still have kids And still have a career and still get other men to pay for her bill if she so desires They forgot about that Okay Think about this. You know how many women are doing this right now? Dating who have kids and having other men pay their bills whom they're not dating or maybe they are dating Maybe that dude's paying some of the bills and another dude's dating some of the other bills Or they getting money from an ex who know that they act like women can't do that Are not and they act like women are not doing that they're acting like This chick earlier said her plastic surgeon gave her some free boo They're acting like men ain't out here playing for paying for plastic surgery on women They're acting like men is not out here paying car notes And taking women shopping. They're acting like all of that when it happens every day on a daily basis You said men take you for granted we gave birth and raised them without women the man would be nothing Well, we all know that and so do they but they want you to quickly forget We all know that sprinkle sprinkle that's right queen. That's right But what they don't know is that we know and we remember and we know this every time they say something stupid They don't have to be like Nicki Minaj and tell them you you you want to be my son go sit on go sit on the potty Because you be reminding them you said they got one job and they complain about example That's what I always say in somewhere. You got one job They want to make us feel like we have no value Even the even did your body has more value than a male's body in science so tell me Even in death your body worth more baby so, um Y'all know me my mortician morbid Memories start coming out You know men don't like how to transfer that appreciation for money to the women they date They don't like And men always wonder why women are so why are you so materialistic? Why do you always think about money because we have to pay for almost every single thing you see on our body and our fashion changes and You know Stuff costs more for deodorant costs more for women you know We got to get our nail done or we got to buy powers to do our nail It's like stuff costs more for us our perfume is more expensive We need money You said men get paid 80 dollars for a couple days per Now women get paid 12k to donate one each and they want to be the price Exactly it cost money to look the way they look exactly Mm-hmm. So, you know stuff for women is more expensive. And so that's why women like comfort Yeah If a woman and a man sat down and talked about why women like money why women like men with money And how it's fair for a man to pay in deodorant The woman would never lose the argument The only the only problem that would occur is a man asking the woman why she can't pay sometimes or Why they can't work and be all together And you know, the woman will then freeze and be in fear of sounding like a gold digger And the man Just sounding like oh, I just needs, you know, we're just trying to build together. What's wrong with that? First of all, I would never get intimidated by such a silly question Why can't we build the same reason your mama ain't sitting up there on a construction site with a construction house the same reason Okay, because I'm a woman baby. I look too good to build Next question Well, why can't why can't we Split the bills Well, why can't you split your wife with another man? The same reason baby. Okay. Next question Well, um, um back in the old days, this is how we did it. This is 2021 almost 2022. We ain't back in them day You can get online and make quick money What's your excuse Well, um That's not how I was raised. I want an independent woman. Well, you know where to go find them Why are you wasting my time and her time and her time? Well, what's wrong with building nothing Nothing at all nothing is wrong with building I didn't go to school for architecture or construction Do you want to pay for my school because I don't know how to be a baby Build me Barbara the builder Barbara build a baby These men think they women these days wishing they Oh my gosh. Yeah What's so wrong about You know putting stuff together to have more nothing that means you living outside your means Because of what something happened to you then who's gonna pay for everything? So like none of those type of questions and none of those type of Men can ever face me because the answer is correct. You get no respect if If you handing out money you get no respect if you doing this you get no respect if you Helping helping a grown man And soon as another man walks in front of you that looks a little better got a little more cash You're like, oh, dang. I bet he paid all his woman builder if you had one he would And that's the thought that would go through the head of a woman who's sitting there building with somebody That she don't really want to be building For anyone, but she want him to build for her Man broke someone said they only married for a wealthy house Oh, well some people got that reasons I can never understand how man is the prior They're the price to themselves Mm-hmm too many pickings are going 50-50 and when they pick up the slide Well, that's what they want but Just because some women are doing certain things don't mean you got to do them If those women were so sought after they wouldn't be up in your face Or cheating on those women with you I promise you So don't who cares Mm-hmm Do you think it because they haven't had an awakening More opportunity for me But at this time men like comfort like women does it's not cute Well, you know, they mama can comfort them Draw them a map right back to the mama house, baby. Sprinkle sprinkle. I like comfort too. Oh, you do I've got something for you Tell me what you think about this What you write? Oh, I'm drawing something Oh, okay You're drawing a girl a diagram of how we can build It's gonna be a map right back there in mama house. There you go. There's some comfort over there I was listening to the song it it almost turned me off. I was mad like it was not you know, it's like, um He was I think it was that one with charlie wilson and he was like let's both like I'm looking for somebody that's independent and let's go and louis and both drop 30 and big love and the I'll have sex in the um The dresser room and then he'll go hi you ain't about that like I'm sure right because somebody else will go by me some stuff And get a hotel room It's like Sprink sprinkle No, I ain't about that life That's why That's that's why No If women and race their standard all the men will straighten up these pick me should run it run it Mm-hmm. I remember you saying we should study the wealthy so we can pick it out of your crop Does he's on approach if your energy is right? That's true The moment I heard let's build together. I already know the time it's time to go You see to save your money fellows. Yep, save your money I was listening to that song too and made me mad not fine, but that's probably why he's still single I know like That's that's one of the issues with some type with certain types of men They don't feel like they have to spend money on women even though they have the money They don't feel like they should have to spend but wait till they get old Wait till they oh, okay They're gonna be spending money lifting right so they better save now You remember me. I was a rapper. I don't know who you are Lil Nas ex is that you? Call me when you want call me when you need Oh, okay, you're still rapping at 60. Mm-hmm You're gonna be rapping about a rp. Why is the most wealthy men's wife don't keep up themselves Because that's what the mistress is for darling Sprinkle sprinkle If I pay all the bills you sharing me with your sister If you pay all I'm sharing you first of all you want to pay her bills, too There ain't no two for one. She we're gonna double it or triple it Stupid we know how to do math. Okay. There you go Me and stupid with the head You're gonna quadruple it exactly How to make sure that the man never feels like he is the price in your presence Make him think he the price but as long as the bills is paid. That's fine When you walk out in public and everybody turning they had to look at you He already know who the real price is you don't got to tell him nothing. Just look like the price Okay Have you ever fell in love? I don't remember child I feel I gotta dust it myself off Did the moonwalk? It's a world club But I'll tell you one thing When I fell in love it was with myself Y'all saw my video I posted up on the commuters Um grow don't fall what That's when you win You fell in love with yourself when you lost 40 pounds. That's wonderful Do you think about having a party with James and your family for your 20 year marriage? I we don't celebrate our anniversary Spark Sparkle Um Whenever a man is doing something wrong, I have your voice in my head saying get another one At your old job you started talking to the owner. It was like he wanted you to acknowledge him as my boss I had to think to myself. He needs to feel acknowledged He needs to feel acknowledged Then you better ask your boss for some days off paid vacation You said you don't think my game works for um Females who want a dude to love them You have to love yourself first and love yourself more to play this game, right? If y'all are looking for their Oh, I love you so much. Oh, I can't live without you Da da da da, how many people do you see after like 10 to 15 years still acting the same way? Not that many so You know, it's temporary or it's just infatuation most of the time I mean, it'll be it'll be cool if that type of love lasted and it was 100 genuine, but We know It's just not So i'm not investing too much into that It's fine for the first couple of weeks or months or whatever maybe a couple of years, but that's it After that is back to business So just keep that in mind don't throw away all of your potential or don't feel like A temporary feeling is worth You know making permanent decisions behind You said once you get past the fairy tale, it's easy. That's right Where to take a provider than a man who says he loves me every day and doesn't output anything Mary for stability not just live. I know like yep You I don't need somebody to tell me I needed to show me By paying all these bills by having a nice place to live. Like I said talk is cheap Okay, well, anyway put yourself as a priority words Not enough need action and proof um Say no when you need to say no Never feel obligated to do something you don't want to do just don't do it if you have guilt behind that then Flip the script in the scenario and ask what the person do the same for you If the answer is no Then you won't feel any guilt I'll pay in afghan with what's this sprinkle sprinkle Visit the third world country follow the example of women who don't have resources to waste absent child support and government title I have visited a third world country and I've seen women and how they take care of themselves in their home and their children and If I were then I probably wouldn't know any better either But I'm not them and I do know better. So I want better You know, that's just like if a super wealthy woman who has a gold toilet and gets $1,000 manicures says well go look at You know the suburbs and see how those housewives live And see how they make do with their husband's check or you know, whatever income they receive. It's the same thing It's just a number. So what I feel is you work with what you have and the type of culture and environment that you are Raised in has a lot to do with your priorities. So I'm sure their mom never told them to be a gold digger because Opportunity wasn't there I'm sure their mom never told them they'll find the richest man and never look back Because that's not their culture and But in America totally different So I can't base my life on what someone else is doing in a third world country Um, I have to base it on the reality that I live in today right now Mm-hmm. You said you love Nicki, but you don't understand her dating decision with Have you seen Nicki? Have you seen Nicki Minaj's interviews? She because of people out She like it doesn't seem like she has a lot of patience at all She has she's a boss she she need a man. She could tell what to do and he go do it We already know that Sprinkle sprinkle Deluxe Michael sparkle. That's something a poor man's ass. Oh my goodness. I owe sparkle sparkle Thank you. No, I'm sweet. So Your support your son Okay, that's good. He's a poor family Already having money should make it easier to date hire not pick up the help with kids are already. I'm sorry Well Not pick up the help with kids Whatever it had me Nikki should have followed you even got a billionaire There's two things there's two things difference about Nikki and eat Nikki speaks her mind She will crush you out in two seconds and laugh at At you You really like this woman Callie and she's really struggling a lot. Should I keep helping her financially? Yeah, help her out. She She'll always remember you She'll make your priority Yeah Just go go to youtube Well, you are on youtube Just go type in Nicki Minaj interviews not the ones on the late night show But like the ones on the radio shows Go watch her She don't play She will chew those men up and spit them out And make them cry So That's what that's why She's abusive Verbally abusive Yeah, I know that Said she's an alpha two alphas won't last no Yes, she needs a submissive man. She can't date Anybody that's gonna fix their mouth to tell her anything Why I don't celebrate my anniversary because I just don't Sprinkle sprinkle You have seen this trend over and over and it hasn't changed if a woman wants to be a boss At least become one on a man's dime for real If he's doing enough You don't have to if he's do doesn't keep you If he doesn't keep your options open, that's right Rihanna is the same she's alpha and Yeah This is why I say I tell men you better pay for that woman before she outdo you And then she can't even date nobody because She's too man and too woman For anybody Could you imagine trying to date Nicki Minaj or Rihanna as a alpha male it wouldn't happen Those type of women those big Boss women they need someone to do exactly what they tell them. That's all they need And hopefully enough to buy them a really nice birthday gift And to pay for dinners and stuff like that The basic things men pay for because I'm sure those women are already pretty much established Got they don't have anything but It's very hard for those type of women to date regular men They got they got to go find a billionaire and even Rihanna was dating a billionaire and he did not work out So you already know she's crazy She'll find things too I don't care about your billion dollars. I'm gonna have a billion dollars like in four months like in next year That's what I'm saying, you know You said you guess men don't like all that back talk. No, they don't that's why if you want a decent type of woman You better pay for everything You said there aren't many JZ running around. Y'all know who run that relationship Having them having an opinion is something we must sacrifice. I believe it's worth it in the end, but very challenging I'm gonna always have an opinion. I'm just gonna have a different opinion with different people Where it benefits me at the most I'm gonna smile and not say much if I don't agree And get my check and pass go and be out Don't matter Pan-African Sprexburg Women trade up but end up losing out and left behind. They all have one who got away Never appreciating the successful square money Oh, okay Sprexburg. Oh, yeah I think they appreciate the successful square For the time that the successful square was in their life but I feel that the successful square Usually does not realize that you need more than success In order to keep a woman interested Unless the woman has the agenda of Dating a successful square for her some money only then he can't be upset at her for dating her And knowing that it was for his money only You know what I'm saying? so You said the successful square gets cocky exactly If you are a successful square remain a successful square. Don't forget what you don't forget the the deal You forget the deal. That's when the deal starts not working You only look up to the women who Came from money was still married without the help that's nice Yeah, um That's usually how it goes Uh Deluxe wrinkle sprinkle successful square equals dusty with income Oh, that's so silly Successful squares will treat you crazy too if you let them. Yeah, they sure See the thing is They only see themselves as successful squares until they get you Then they think they're the man and if they could get any other woman and That and then hopefully You won't see them like the square that they are anymore and No You said the successful square don't want the square females. They want the model types who have Many options. That's right. They hypocrite. Okay What do you do when you understand that the man's intent is only to get your attention? Then you make your intent to only get his money Or at least for him to buy you something I would definitely take a successful square. He can pay to be cool I don't think so I would Anyway, some people just can never be cool No matter how hard they try Well, I think about creating bad karma for next life. I don't believe in karma I keep trying to deal y'all I believe this Everything that happens is always for my benefit always for my good Always to the next step that brings me what I want That's my karma no matter what so I don't think about that if somebody want to believe that then let them believe it. I don't believe it You said a millionaire you're talking to is dry and I was asking you for news and when y'all texting And you scared to ask for money because he seems too busy in his saliv life girl He asks you for news and he dry If you don't ask him for money, then you wasted time I wouldn't give nobody no nude and if you're scared, he ain't scared to ask you for no news That's done. Why are you scared? Send him your cash out sprinkle sprinkle. Oh, thank you Petrina patrima sprinkle sprinkle You mean ask for a new at center cinema cash out with with your price Then send somebody else's nude with your head glued on it Photo shot you said karma is you and what you want by all means necessary. That's right What do you think about rich men that think you be silent even when they act disrespectful and cold towards you Should you act like you don't see the disrespect because they Money everything No, sometimes It's it's the exact opposite, especially if you're not really with them Their money Means nothing to you therefore You're not even offended by them, right You already did hear the thing you already expect them to be that way You already expect since they have a certain amount of money to treat people a certain amount of way You already expect it So you're not hurt. You're not upset because That's who they are And so I think that will make them even I think that makes them even more upset that you don't care and you stay involved Because that's just who they are I mean what more could you expect? um Like oh, that's just how y'all are Well I'm not gonna get upset. That's just who you are. Just like you ain't gonna get upset when I'm out with somebody else That's just who I am. Oh Just be done with it This all you gotta do Successful squares can be the worst though Because they are smart too Not as smart as not as smart as certain type of women Yeah, I mean if they are smart, that's great. That's wonderful, but They're the type of men that that sit right below the radar And have You know A feeling and a way about themselves thinking they deserve this and then the the woman that they like um She's probably out of his league, but since he feels like he deserves because he's smart and he's you know He's got some money. He's gonna he's gonna try harder than The average, you know wealthy guy Or you know the average dude Because he's more strategic and so he's gonna put in more effort But he's also probably a little bit more dangerous because if he doesn't get his way He's gonna be upset because he spent a lot of time energy and money So when you have a successful square, what you have to do is you ask you have to outsmart them as well Or you have to have your backup plan You know, you gotta have your plan be Because if you don't You know It's not really it's not going to really be for your benefit And honestly You know If a woman Tells her truth a man can't be mad at her Like we told you what we about you know what Ladies like me are about don't get mad We told you You said Denzel Washington Is the typical successful square in black community making of the bulk of successful marriage is he likes You think Denzel Washington ain't done no dirt. All right sprinkle sprinkle. Thanks for the donation But I guarantee you he done a lot of dirt His wife just ain't divorced. So I don't even believe men sitting out here really think thinking men are faithful You said Denzel a square I don't think Denzel's a square at all So you telling me for his for his widow cry here Going around more than this then You might be right. Okay. Come on bumpy. I certainly don't think Denzel is a square me neither You are too much If Denzel is or was cheating he makes sure his wife don't find out he knows His wife probably don't hear Anyway, there are some people that Are not going to divorce, but they know Certain things come with certain territories. What do you mean square? I came late, sorry Oh people are just talking about like Successful men who are like dorks or you know square It's the best thing a man is to make the most money possible so I can give Cali and the best lifestyle ever sent like a good Sure, I'm sure she'll think it's a good plan. Thank you sparkle sparkle His wife is not there for faithfulness exactly. So I don't want to be on here too much longer, but definitely Keep yourself a priority and don't forget who you are And if you need some reminding This is the book I have pinned up In the comments Wisdom of sheer seven and you feel the down and out or you had a bad day or somebody made you feel Um Less than or your self-esteem has got both If you look up and read it and by the time you read about four pages, you're gonna remember who you are I'm gonna be back on it I promise you Money the most important thing in your relationship. Um I don't think it's the most important thing, but I think it's in the top three Okay Money power respects what you need in life Money power respect That little him that little him And score face So yeah, yeah Get that book. It's on amazon. Y'all just get on amazon. Y'all know what to do Hit that link up there He said there was no black male actor more love than denzel washington with the exception of sydney pohiyak Well, what about chat with he gone now, but uh, I think they're starting like chat with bozeman And You know black panther He said live don't pay the bill. Uh-huh. Don't get why The building get get them afterwards because they always seem to have changed a part of us there, but I don't know I'm sorry that I feel this way, but I'm not sorry. Sorry not sorry I don't believe in building with of me Because that's not how it's supposed to go I mean we can but you'll never get the respect as a man From a woman who has built with you And they a lot of men walk around wanting to be respected To be treated like an alpha male To be you know for their woman to be submissive. How's she gonna be submissive with a hand when I hand And a baby another hand Explain, okay And y'all know I'm like a metaphor, but literally how she's supposed to be submissive when she got a baby on one hand A hair and a little And you in a bed sick and she's still building while you laying down So That's my question. You can't you will never get the respect you feel like you deserve from a woman If you you would look at her and ask open your fictional mouth to ask her to build anything for you with you next to you Without you know anything Don't build for a male when the guys establish you can go into business together with the money he earned I'm not going to business with no man either Unless it's called marriage That's a business within itself. I ain't working for no man. I'm not showing up every day And you can put me on your payroll, but I will not show up for work So, you know That's just something I I I feel personally that I could never do And so I feel like there's a lot of issues I've done a lot of consultations over the years where women have worked with men husbands boyfriends Help build them and it's always the same old story Doesn't work Oh, yeah, he can get he can give you money to start your own business. Yeah of course Generally, it's men who will seek women in the first place and they say they seduced him Mm-hmm Also, um, let me read this out. You love my look is fierce. Thank you. Thank you Well Keep y'all so the priority. I'ma go. I'm gonna be on here all night Appreciate y'all, but I might go to my other channel in a few minutes. Um, so if y'all I'm gonna come over there later. I might be over there might All right. I see y'all sprinkle sprinkle. Thank y'all members. Appreciate y'all. Thanks for picking the topic Bye. Oh wait, am I still here? Can we give him emotional support? Yeah, pat him on the back and tell him baby, you don't be y'all right Yeah, uh, oh, thank you Michelle sprinkle sprinkle. Bye y'all. Thanks for joining. Bye