 Three things the narcissist will never forgive the narcissist will never stop blaming you They will never stop being angry towards you They will always be resentful towards you for these perceived offenses one When you think for yourself When you have an independent mind and attitude When you form opinions and make decisions without their help when you become independent When you have ideas and thoughts of your own Rather than believe in what they say when you stop letting them be an influence in your life When you break free from their control When you do that The narcissist sees it as an offense It results in them feeling annoyed and resentful Because they perceive your free thinking as an insult They see it as a disregard for themselves As though you are rejecting their opinions They hate it when you begin to think for yourself When you begin to develop your own opinions and ideas Because it's a threat to their control It's a threat to their ability To direct the course of events to When you hold them accountable for their actions when you question and confront them When you require and expect them To justify their actions and decisions When you hold them responsible When you try to explain or understand Something they said or done They expect you to overlook it They expect you to forget about it They expect you to see it as something that's not important Something that isn't even worth confronting But even if you do confront them on it They will try to brush it off They will try to deflect it They will shift the blame onto you Or they will gas like you But if you don't fall for the illusion And you continue to confront them It will cause a narcissistic injury It will make them very angry And they will never forgive you for that They will never let it go 3. When you expose them There is nothing the narcissist hates more Than when you expose them to other people When you tell other people about the horrible things they have said or done to you They don't want you to speak the truth Because the truth is against them The truth makes them look bad Which is why they expect you to keep a code of silence They expect you to voluntarily with a hold important information They expect you to pretend like they didn't do anything wrong But when you bring the truth to other people Despite everything they've done to you They see it as though you have betrayed them They see it as though you have gone against them Even if you did it with their best interest in mind If you just wanted them to get help They don't see it that way It makes them feel shame And they don't want to deal with it So instead they do everything they can to avoid feeling that way They deny the truth They deny reality They create an alternate world With their own distorted interpretations Whatever works in their favor And then they pull other people into this land of make-believe Where people believe you are just trying to ruin the narcissist's reputation Because that's what the narcissist believes That's what they want everyone to think Deep down they know that they are wrong But they don't want to accept it So instead they will blame you for blaming them They will blame you for trying to expose them And they will never forgive you for that But you need to forgive yourself For being involved with an narcissist Let go of any feelings of anger or resentment You may have towards them And recognize that you didn't know what you were dealing with But now you have the power to think for yourself You have the ability to recognize That you are not to blame for everything that went wrong The narcissist just didn't want to accept their own faults and mistakes So they shifted the blame onto you They blamed you for everything They may never forgive you But you can forgive yourself By recognizing that you didn't intend to do anything wrong You were just trying to protect yourself And you were trying to help them But if they see something wrong with that That's not your problem You cannot get them to see sense They have to do that for themselves But it's very rare that a narcissist will come to this conclusion It's very rare that a narcissist will admit their faults They lied to themselves So they lied to you That's how they maintain the illusion That's how they support their false self By denying that there is anything wrong with them By being unwilling to forgive anyone Who confronted them or threatened to expose the truth Thank you for watching I hope this video resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coachinganarchsurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon