 Hi, she was seven and back today and today I wanted to tell y'all Hi Okay, um someone asked me to do this video. It is a video request They want to know What type of men like to spoil women like what should they be looking for what type of guys are Most likely to spoil women. Okay, so I made a list y'all so I'm gonna go down my list Types of men who like to spoil women Old boy friends who want you back You can get what you can get out of them. You don't have to take them back Men stuck in the friend zone. Okay When a man is stuck in the friend zone, he is willing to do whatever it takes to get out of that friend zone Okay, so if you want something really nice if you want to be spoiled He will most likely do it ring Older men. Okay, men who are much older than you will spoil you Okay, because they're already financially stable They like young women and you make them feel young. They have the money to spend most of their kids are grown They probably either already divorced by now or are not married So they have plenty to spend. Okay, and they don't mind spoiling you because They know that, you know, they're older. That's what men did back in the day They were gentlemen. They spoiled their women and they kept their women happy And so that's just who they are and they'll do that kind of stuff. Okay new boy friends You get a new boyfriend and he's like all in love with you and eager to please you This is when you can get the most out of him. Okay? Someone with a crush on you someone you know likes you and who has a crush on you You can get you can get them to spoil you with certain things now I wouldn't ask the crush person like if you don't like them back Don't ask them to do something like totally huge like maybe like favors or like, you know Can you give me some coffee? Like if you're at work or you know Just something small don't don't Because people with crushes And you don't like them back, you know, that that can be a messy situation So but you can't get a few things out of them favors and little small things. Okay work husbands now I've talked about the work husband before I know a lot of people who work with men all day long They're at work eight hours plus a day and they're side by side with certain guys and you know relationships friendships develop and You know, you become very close and you know, sometimes the guy develops a crush on you or you develop a crush on the guy But you really don't act on them because that's just your work husband But you can sometimes get things out your husband you can say, oh well You know, I'm hungry. Let's go get lunch. I forgot my wallet and they'll buy you lunch You can be like, oh, let's go get coffee. I'll not go get you call. Oh, let's go a happy hour after work They'll get you drinks. Um, you know on your birthday. You get a gift Every holiday they're gonna bring you something. So if you don't have a work husband fine one, okay, and I'm sorry, man. If you I'm sorry guys and husbands, but You know, that's just how it is. If you if you sending your wife out to work Eight plus more hours a day with somebody Then that's you know, that's the risk you take. Okay, take care of your own family You know what don't if you don't want her to have a work husband Find a career that you can Be able to hope for it for her not to work, okay, you know, that's just my personal belief, okay? Men who enjoy praise from women, okay? Men who like to be complimented by women who like to be praised by women who like to be around a bunch of women So they can look like they have status Guys who like to hang around the bar and buy women drinks so they can look like they're all that So they can have their pick up the women at the end of the night. These are the kind of man who will spoil you They'll buy you drinks food, whatever A man who is trying to steal you from your current relationship. Oh, that's a good one So a guy knows you're already with someone but he still pursues you every day He's like, oh my god, when you break with him come call me Here's my number just in case you ever need a friend when you leave him come find me that dude. Yes He will spoil you You know, this is the guy that This is the plan B guy This is the guy that women go to when they're mad at whoever they're with or When whoever they went can't be contacted by the phone for days Like if y'all are still like in that boyfriend relationship boyfriend girlfriend relationship, whatever Okay, you're a husband when he's in the doghouse Well, you're really mad at him and the only way he knows that you're gonna forgive him Is if he gets you something really expensive or does something that you've always wanted to do he will give you your way Some women even pick fights to get what they want out of their spouse And they don't really even be mad at them. They just like no They get in a huge argument and they give them the silent treatment or be mad or withhold sex and the only way that The husband can get out of the doghouse is to give the woman what she wants Okay So those are the guys that will spoil you or in the circumstances that come along with it So I know a Lot of men are going to be upset about this, but I don't care because this is not for y'all This video is for the women who are trying to get what they want. Okay, I'm just trying to tell them I do it. Okay, they're going to figure it out eventually anyway, so There you go. Okay. Um, oh I had another relationship question So someone asks what does it mean when a man says? Oh, I'm not looking for a relationship right now But you never asked him. You never say over. What are you looking for? But he just blurs this out This means that he's just looking for sex. Okay, when he says, I'm not looking for a relationship right now This means I won't take you out to eat spend some money on you and see if you'll give it up. Okay Or he's already got a girlfriend or he's married. That's that means, okay? Or he just not Ready for a relationship because he's broke and he just wants to see who he can sleep with. Okay That was easy. Okay. Oh Okay, and then I had another one Cover three in this one. So how do you flirt with men when you're out and about like eye contact and stuff like that? So when you're out and about like say you're at the bar or wherever club or wherever y'all go these days brunch and You see a guy that you think is cute and he's across the room How do you flirt with him to get him to come over to you? well You pretend like you ignore him girl don't ignore look everywhere else but him Smile look and when you like move your head and like when you get his direction He's already gonna be looking at you anyway, right? Well, hopefully if he's not If you see him checking you out, this is what you do you like You know look across the room and like look at everybody except for him You know like go over his head like look up when it comes to him and go like that And then come back to the middle and then look at him real quick for two seconds in his eyes And like go back like you never even noticed that you were looking at him in his eye and then go back to what you were doing Okay, that brief little eye contact will get him excited And if you like what he saw and if you like that connection, he's gonna come to you But that's it only one time Or like if you get up to go to the use the restroom and you have to pass him by Make sure that you don't stop and look at him because that's like really desperate um keep going and You know get in the restroom whatever do whatever sprays like carries the perfume right spray some perfumes a lot Not not too much We just so that when you walk back out and you walk next to him. He smells your perfume like Like and and he'll smell that and then because guys get turned on by looks and smells So when you pass back by If you can if you can like brush into him by accident just keep walking and don't even say nothing Just like Washington and don't say sorry or whatever because that's too obvious Just brush into him and if he says sorry or whatever, that's fine But just brush into him just like barely so you don't have to really apologize. It's like, you know You're in a crowded place So you keep going and you've touched him you've made eye contact with him. He smelled you If he doesn't come over by then then he's probably not that interested in you because usually when you've had this one's Much contact with a woman in a club in a place where you don't know Anyone it means that she's interested in you but not pursuing you because when a woman pursues a man Some guys are gonna say oh, that's flattering. I wish more women would do that it's because it's easy for them and they don't have to put in any work, okay and It's not as much of a challenge and they don't have to Present their best foot forward, you know, if as a woman you let them pursue you They're not they're gonna come correct and they're not going to come with you know, oh, I know you want me so And this kind of game stuff like so that means you're gonna pay for everything, right? No When a man chases a woman, he knows first of all you got to pay second It's the thrill of the catch men are very competitive creatures if you give Yourself up too easily for them. They're gonna become disinterest uninterested in you this injury Uninterested in you very fast, okay? So never do that Okay, always ignore the guy let him come to you All right, if you're one of those women who have low self-esteem and there's too much competition in the room And you don't think that you can compete with all these women and you just go approach him He's not even looking at you He's looking at all those other women who are standing back cuz they know their worth, okay? I've seen this many times. I used to go out all the time. I would always just be sitting there with my little drink. I Will watch all these girls approach I'm just drinking I'm looking And like all he just walked all he walks away from them and comes over to me Why because I don't need him Those other girls are were thirsty basically They were all throwing themselves that I'm laughing at all this stupid corny jokes. He didn't even want them to you know, talk to him because Men are supposed to approach women. So the whole time he's sitting there checking me out and Here comes these flies I call them flies and they're like attracted to him because he's you know, he's attracted and so The whole time they're talking to him that he's looking at me because I'm not like a fly and so I'm just sitting there You know ignoring of whatever do I do and So whenever these girls get finished you happen in their mouth And he's like, oh, excuse me. Let's excuse me lady. Excuse me, man And he walks on over to me and you should see the looks on their face. They were mad. They were like So never approach a man because you don't know who they're looking at across the room You don't know if they're Trying to Watch certain women to see how they act in public and in public places and stuff like that Men a lot of men do this They'll sit there and watch a woman and how she reacts to certain things and people and how she carries herself and all this kind of stuff and you are sitting up there approaching a man then It's gonna show that you're you value yourself a lot less than those women that won't So barely flirt with men in clubs barely flirt with men in bars. Now if they're If they come and talk to you and you want to flirt during the conversation I contact and touch that's it touch their hand Touch their forearm Body language cross your legs toward them lean up and lean in towards them mimic Their moves, which means you're very interested That's all you have to do. Okay body language speaks way louder than words and Obvious flirty so don't do that believe me. It doesn't work men always want what they can't have what's hard to get and What's a challenge? They don't like easy Unless they're just being lazy and cheap that night Okay, if you want a man to chase you who really wants you who's going to do things for you You need to make them work for because only men who like challenges will treat you like you want to be treated Okay, men who are lazy and don't want to work for nothing. Imagine how they're gonna be in a relationship They're gonna want to do anything for you. You're gonna want you to do everything for them They're gonna want you to make all the initial Plans they're gonna run them it make you pay. They're gonna make you do everything because that's how the relationship started. Okay So keep that in mind when you go out ladies and Even if you don't get approached that night somebody's watching it and if you return back to that same place and that person's there as Well, like if you have a regular spot, they will They will notice that okay, so just because you don't get approached one night doesn't mean you failed You know, sometimes you just have to set Set the standards for people that you know, we'll see you again. So Keep that in mind as well. I'll see y'all later. Oh and also if y'all like this look I have this makeup tutorial on my beauty channel. I will link the video below y'all check me out over there and subscribe to me and share my video Yeah, so also if y'all like makeup There is a website called Octoli if you're a youtuber you can get three free makeup samples a month if you sign up with them and I'll try to put that link below as well, and I'll see y'all later. Okay. Bye