 Who is the person in your life that you would at least want to disappoint? Because whoever that is, it means that you have appointed them to be the one who you look to for most approval, acceptance, validation in your life. And I have done that in my life with people for years of my life. People whose approval and validation mattered to me more than it should have done. And what I had to do, what you must do is you must unappoint the person who you've appointed to be the one that you must never disappoint. And you must reappoint yourself as the person who you'd at least want to disappoint. You must take back the control and take back your power that you've given away to this person whose opinion matters too much to you.